Many people are out there wondering – I know, because I’ve received a lot of emails from people like T and David S. asking – exactly how does this whole thing work? How do I deal with and handle the fact that my wife has a boyfriend? And how does this dynamic work into our kink lifestyle?
Well, starting with the “real life” stuff: it wasn’t easy at first. It took a lot of work – a lot of which I’m not sure I (or anybody) is willing to go into yet – but it essentially came down to this: both John and I love M; and if she is meeting both of our needs, is there really a problem? Knowing that Madam truly cares for each of us uniquely (as well as both of us together) is what makes this work.
In practice, that means each an understanding that we are each valuable and needing time and attention. That means date nights for both him and me – it’s a little more difficult for them, with the distance involved, but it’s important to prioritize. It also means taking the time to bond as a group – going out on a date with the 3 of us, spending time together, etc. These things help build trust within our dynamic, as well as a comfort level that is needed in order to enjoy….
Other things.
Speaking of those other things….
One may think that, because my wife now has a boyfriend, that I take the cuckold role; others may think that, because he spends most of his time locked and I don’t, that I would assume that role. In reality, neither is correct – there is an interesting fluidity in the roles we take (other than M being the dominant, of course). Depending on her mood, my wife will have sex with John while I’m only allowed to sit and watch; she may also have me ruin my orgasm inside her pussy so John can clean up the mess that is left behind.
There’s no “set in stone” way we handle things – it is very much “in the moment” and very much “M-driven.” And trust me, she enjoys it this way! She likes the idea of being able to deny both of us… or, for that matter, enjoying us both at the same time!
It wasn’t easy getting here. But the way it works is that we concentrate on each others’ needs, communicate clearly and openly… and most importantly, focus on enjoying the experience (however it may go in the current moment).
I think you are a brave person I know that I could not handle another man in this relationship I know my Mistress wife has had girlfriend and they have been shown my locked away penis. There has also been some drunken play and other men locked away in the same room but no relationship with another man
It wasn’t easy in order to get to this point. I appreciate your kind words, but I’m not sure it was bravery (more like therapy!) 😂
I am submissive to my wife, her 5 gf’s whom she has given and granted dominion over me, and their husbands who use me instead of bothering their wives, so the ladies can have lovers and not neglect their wifely duties or husbands sexual desires.
I have been serving them all for over 20 years and have not received a sexual release except my own hand since then. I always catch and eat my own since it is not worthy of being out in the world.
I am jealous of you for being allowed to have a ruined orgasm inside your wife Or any female.
I would be happy to serve you and your cagedmonkey in any manner you both felt I deserved to submit.
this might provide your wife with entertainment or amusement. Especially if she desired my submissive service to be performed in a group, party or audience setting.
I enjoy my role as a “zeta” male, meaning everyone and anyone is over me.
Please let me know how I may amuse you all.
That offer extends to anyone in the position of service to their wife or another female who has lovers you tak ecare of. Just contact and let me entertain you all
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