My Lady sprung a little surprise on me while I was at work today by sending me the following email:
What are your thoughts on a “no look, no touch” period?
I’m thinking anytime I unlock you, you will be blindfolded and restrained. You can’t shower uncaged, unless you are blindfolded and I’m with you in there cleaning you…
How can I say no to that?
(Well, technically I can’t say no to anything, really. That’s what our D/s relationship is all about.)
It’s been quite a while since ML and I have done “no look no touch.” In fact, I don’t think we’ve done much of it year, if at all – with all of the job nuttiness and then throwing an interstate move on the pile, there wasn’t much room in our lives for that type of project. And it is a project – whenever I need a shave or when ML wants to use my cock for her pleasure, I need to be tied down and blindfolded. It’s more of an undertaking than it seems.
However, now is a great time to reintroduce it into our routine. Our bed is extremely bondage-friendly, which comes in handy. Also, ML has been wanting to practice her rope-work for a while now – this will give her a chance to “develop her skills,” so to speak.
So how long will it be before I touch, or even SEE my erect penis? Not sure, to be honest; it seems as though ML is looking to go a little longer than usual. Perhaps denying me an orgasm for a year is upping her interest in extended durations for other parts of our chastity/denial play. I always go into this type of thing confident that it won’t affect me that much… and then two or three days in, I’m wishing it was over with. I get the feeling that it will be quite a bit longer than a few days this time around.
Sounds like the perfect time to work on oral skills too! Get so good at giving oral blindfolded that you can make her cum just by touch!
I am seriously jealous of you two.
Who says I’m not that good already? 😉 Hehe
Yep I agree with you, there is no way that you can pass up on that. How is the new house going? And is ML feeling better?
Maybe you could do a podcast on the topic of No look no touch after about a couple of weeks.
I to am jealous of the two of you and how lucky you are to have found each other.
Stan