Coffee Talk: What if I’m Not Enough?

March 11, 2026

As I sit here drinking my coffee I can’t help but think to myself…

What if I’m not enough? Not strong enough. Not stern enough. Not assertive enough. Not strict enough. 

I often have feelings of being inadequate.

Being in a relationship with someone means seeing all of them not just their dominant or submissive sides or strong sides but also their vulnerable sides. Not feeling like I am good enough, like I can be enough or give either of the guys what they need is one of my huge insecurities. When I show it or talk about it and let them in, that’s me being vulnerable. 

There are times when something, like Domdrop, causes that feeling and a whole bunch of others to come flooding out. That’s when having understanding partners can be such an amazing thing. 

When do you feel most vulnerable? 

Michele