As I sit here drinking my coffee I can’t help but think to myself…
What if I’m not enough? Not strong enough. Not stern enough. Not assertive enough. Not strict enough.
I often have feelings of being inadequate.
Being in a relationship with someone means seeing all of them not just their dominant or submissive sides or strong sides but also their vulnerable sides. Not feeling like I am good enough, like I can be enough or give either of the guys what they need is one of my huge insecurities. When I show it or talk about it and let them in, that’s me being vulnerable.
There are times when something, like Domdrop, causes that feeling and a whole bunch of others to come flooding out. That’s when having understanding partners can be such an amazing thing.
When do you feel most vulnerable?
Michele
