You are allowed to be comfortable in your own skin. Every inch of it. The soft bits, the wrinkly bits, the bits that jiggle when you laugh. Self-love isn’t about chasing some airbrushed, Instagram-filtered version of “perfect.”

We all have thoughts and feelings and impressions from what the three of us experienced together and our first experience at the BDSM party and the sex club.

OwnedsubJohn
Feeling vulnerable with anyone can be intimidating. Handing someone the power to decide exactly how you will feel and what you will experience feels terrifying. You have zero control over what they might do with that power.

As I was sitting here enjoying my dinner, I starting thinking… Holy shit! IS THAT MY BOYFRIEND’S BROTHER IN LAW? Did my my boyfriends brother in law just walk in here? Oh my fucking god! Here we are sitting in this little Irish pub in the middle of the city we live in. My heart just sunk and I thought I was going to fall out of my chair as I just told my husband…

Sometimes I feel inadequate. What if I’m not enough? Not strong enough. Not stern enough. Not assertive enough. Not strict enough.

I’ve been feeling a little bit disconnected from my kinky side of things lately.

OwnedsubJohn
Having a safeword, and the trust that goes with it is what allows us both to push our limits a little. I know that if something is going too far I can use my safeword to pause what we are doing to evaluate.

There is an incredible feeling when she tells me to get his cock ready for her. I love being the fluffer.

After 5.5 years away, we dove back into the local kink community with a welcoming meetup that went way past bedtime. Laughter, new friends, exchanged numbers… and the electric morning sex that followed. A candid look at rediscovering connection in our poly dynamic.

Hoping to connect with local kinksters through munches and events. Excited for the journey to Colette Austin. Building fun, real kinky friendships in Central Texas!