When the Disconnect Hits

March 9, 2026

I’ve been feeling a little bit disconnected from my kinky side of things lately.

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Guacamole, Glockenspiel, Gremlin – Shit, what was my safeword again?

March 6, 2026

Having a safeword, and the trust that goes with it is what allows us both to push our limits a little. I know that if something is going too far I can use my safeword to pause what we are doing to evaluate.

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Coffee talk: Being the fluffer

March 4, 2026

There is an incredible feeling when she tells me to get his cock ready for her. I love being the fluffer.

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Reconnecting with the Kink Community: Our First Meetup After 5 Years

March 3, 2026

After 5.5 years away, we dove back into the local kink community with a welcoming meetup that went way past bedtime. Laughter, new friends, exchanged numbers… and the electric morning sex that followed. A candid look at rediscovering connection in our poly dynamic.

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Coffee Talk: Local Kink community & Munches

February 25, 2026

Hoping to connect with local kinksters through munches and events. Excited for the journey to Colette Austin. Building fun, real kinky friendships in Central Texas!

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What is it like to be the cuckold?

February 24, 2026

Boyfriend shares his real cuckold experience: submissive to Michele, cuckolded by her husband. No bulls here just mutual submission and her desires fulfilled.

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Can Tease and Orgasm Denial Deepen Intimacy?

February 20, 2026

Exploring tease and orgasm denial within ethical non monogamy, power exchange, and female led relationships. A personal look at anticipation, trust, and evolving intimacy.

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Coffee Talk: The unexpected little things in the BDSM lifestyle

February 18, 2026

As I was enjoying my coffee this morning I was reflecting on an early experienceโ€ฆ I am reflecting on something that happened the first time Michele and I got together. I am reasonably experienced in the BDSM Lifestyle. I certainly haven’t tried everything but I am aware of most of the BDSM lifestyle through the eyes of others. This particular memory is from the first time Michele and I were together in person. Before we…

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Why โ€œNeverโ€ Becomes โ€œMaybeโ€ in BDSM: Understanding Hard Limits

February 15, 2026

Recently, Iโ€™ve been thinking a lot about hard limits in BDSM and how they can change over time and whether I like that or not. When we started out on this journey, we went through a few of those checklists you find online. Back then, we didnโ€™t know much about fetish and kinkโ€ฆ some, yes, but we were young, naive, and didnโ€™t have the internet! The lists asked us to mark each item as a…

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When did you learn about Sub Drop and Aftercare?

February 13, 2026

I have incorporated BDSM and kink in my life for as long as I can remember. I feel like I was fairly knowledgeable. After I met Michele and we started to really connect I realized there were a few things that I didn’t know about. It’s not so much that I didn’t know about them as I didn’t know they were “a thing”. Something that has a name and volumes written about them. Two of…

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