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Anticipating Our First Playdate with a New Play Partner: Deep Tease, Denial & Edge
With the weekend almost here, we’re meeting our new play partner for the first time. The chat energy has been electric while he’s deep in…
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The Universal Language of Conflict: How Arguments Happen in Every Relationship
Conflict happens in every relationship. Learn why arguments start, common triggers, and how to recognize healthy vs unhealthy patterns in this…
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Coffee talk: Am I Kinky?
This is just our normal. No scenes, no role-play, no on/off switch. It’s 24/7. Everyday talk about dinner or work flows straight into “I can’t…
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Who Makes the First Move in a Threesome? Our Real Experience
Who makes the first move when things turn steamy in a threesome? We reveal the truth from our real experiences, whether it’s spontaneous…
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Saturday Night at Munch: Good Conversation, New Faces, and Honest Expectations
Last Saturday the three of us headed back to our local monthly kink get-together at the bar, and it was exactly what we needed... low-key,…
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The Sharp Bite of Spiked Nipple Clamps: Sinking Deep into Sub Space
Already floating in sub space after an intense weekend, Michele introduced me to a new level of nipple torture with spiked clover clamps. The…
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Coffee talk: STI testing? How did I get here?
Life has taken some unusual twists in the last few years. As I sit here with my coffee today, I’m reflecting on a recent trip to the doctor…
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My Wife’s Boyfriend Has a Sexy Ass (or: How I Learned to Embrace My Bi-Curiousness)
As I allowed myself to be more comfortable with this concept, I started realizing that other things about guys turned me on, too: I began to…
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When Your Kinks Don’t Match: The Smart Way to Compromise in Kinky Relationships
Most people think great kink happens with perfect matching fetishes. Spoiler: that’s fantasy. Real kink is about getting creative when your…
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Being Owned: Reflections on Our Long-Distance Power Exchange
Last Friday I had to remove my njoy Pure Plug 2.0 before catching a flight to see Michele. Reflecting on a week of being plugged, deep sub…