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onJuly 18, 2026

Beginner’s Guide for Women: Becoming a Dominant Keyholder and Taking Control in Your Own Way

Discover how to become a confident dominant woman and keyholder. Real advice on taking control, setting rules, chastity, contracts, and making…

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Michele

onJuly 7, 2026

The Stunt Double

Sometimes the sexiest thing is knowing when to call in the professional who fits just right.

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Michele

onJuly 1, 2026

I Bought the Edge-O-Matic 3000 to Prove My Husband Wrong…

I figured it was just another overpriced gadget that would collect dust after a week. But Jon kept bringing it up… so one day I decided to…

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Michele

onJune 29, 2026

Weekend Getaway with My Boyfriend While Hubby Stayed Home

This weekend John took me to Austin to see Annie and treated me to an incredible Italian dinner. But Sunday morning got sexy - John between my…

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OwnedsubJohn

onJune 24, 2026

Coffee talk: Fully Clothed but Feeling Naked

Though fully clothed, I felt naked. My visible tattoos were hidden. The titanium cuff on my wrist and the permanent collar around my…

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JonMustWait

onJune 21, 2026

My Birthday Surprise! Maus-Tec Edge-o-Matic 3000: Set Up and Tips

The Edge-o-Matic detects and prevents orgasms by the involuntary tightening of the pelvic floor muscles that squeeze during orgasm.

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Michele

onJune 19, 2026

When Conflict Turns Toxic: Knowing When to Stay and When to Walk Away

Learn the red flags of toxic conflict in vanilla and D/s relationships, when it’s worth staying and working on it, and how to safely walk away…

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Michele

onJune 12, 2026

Real Stories, Real Fixes: Case Studies of Conflict and Resolution

Honest case studies from vanilla, D/s, and mixed dynamics couples who faced conflict and used real tools to repair and grow stronger.

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Michele

onJune 5, 2026

Repair Rituals That Actually Work: Conflict Resolution for Vanilla and D/s Couples

Practical conflict repair tools for both vanilla and D/s couples. Includes the LVAC method, a 6-step repair process, and D/s-specific rituals…

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Michele

onJune 4, 2026

Coffee Talk: Happy Birthday, Jon

I was sitting here enjoying my coffee this morning and thinking to myself… This year I’m really looking forward to lots more teasing and…

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