I was sitting here this morning, drinking my coffee and letting my mind wander into places it probably shouldn’t before 8am. Ok maybe my mind should be anywhere it wants before 8am, but still! Nothing specific, just those familiar thoughts that make you smirk, raise an eyebrow, and think, well… that’s interesting.
I really wanted to share it with you. The problem was that it really wasn’t enough to become a full blog post. It didn’t need structure, depth, or a long build-up. It just felt like it to be acknowledged and shared.
Sometimes a thought shows up fully formed, demanding space and attention. Other times it drifts through quietly, lingers just long enough to be interesting, and then moves on. Those are the thoughts that tend to get lost. They are not big enough for a full post, not polished enough to build around, but still very much worth sharing. So I thought… Why not share the damn things with you so you can enjoy those thoughts with us.
That is where the idea of the Coffee Talk series comes in.
This series is a place for the things we are thinking in real time. Observations, curiosities or moments that spark something in us and make us wonder if they will spark something in you too. They might be sensual, sexual, reflective, playful, honest or down right naughty. They might raise questions instead of answering them. They might simply exist because they felt important in the moment.
All three of us may be sharing these posts. You could be hearing diifferent voices, different perspectives and different moods. The common thread is that they are small pieces of our inner conversations, offered without overworking them or forcing them into something bigger than they need to be.
Think of Coffee Talk as an open door into our heads, just for a moment.
We hope you’ll grab your cup and join us and tell us your thoughts too. ☕
Both M and John described their experiences of the first time the three of us were together. While I won’t repeat all of the details they covered (hey…. I gotta milk you for the cross clicks, don’t I🤣), I did want to share some of the thoughts and feelings I was having during that first time.
One of the interesting things was how strange and weird it felt to have another person involved with M and me during sex…. but also how normal and natural it was. Over the last handful of years, I’ve tried to adopt the “if it turns you on, then why not” philosophy; this definitely fell into that category. And, from the way M was reacting to the attention from both of us, she was very turned on.
There was some initial unavoidable awkwardness – M was clear that she didn’t have much interest in John and I having contact with each other, and it took a little extra effort to negotiate our way around the bed. But all of that faded away once my cock started sliding into M’s pussy. It felt so good, and knowing that I was going to get to cum for the first time in what had to have been months most likely – I was just supremely happy to get that release. It was also very interesting to see how excited M got when John was licking the cum out of her pussy – i definitely gave him plenty to lap up, as you have seen from the pictures in the previous posts!
The bottom line for me was that it worked out okay: to be fair, it wasn’t a mind blowing sexual experience; but it was better than expected considering the newness of it all. And I was also glad that it wasn’t a huge mess of things…
The only mess involved was my cum and M’s pussy juice, but John took care of cleaning that up 😉
First off we did a lot of talking leading up to this. Mostly via group chats in the weeks (months, maybe) before we were actually together. Then we talked more in person. We wanted to make sure that each one of us felt safe. That we all knew that we had an “out,” essentially, we had a safeword that stopped everything if any of us felt at all uncomfortable with what that was happening. There was also discusion about limits, so we had a good understanding of what each other was willing, and wanting, to do.
We’ve mentioned before about the importance of expectations so that was another thing we talked a lot about. One of these expectations was that we knew, M was dominant and she was in charge, I was submissive to M, and cagedmonkey was submissive to M. There was no direct interaction between cagedmonkey and me.
The most important expectation was that there was no expectation. Unless it felt right, and was organic, nothing was going to happen at all. Even though we had ideas of what we would like there was no “scene” and no script. Which was good because it would have been broken as soon as we started. Instead we followed M’s lead and we did what felt right, what felt good. And it felt really good!
I can remember that first night when we went to bed. At first this wasn’t about anything sexual, it was just the process of getting in bed. I remember that feeling of being the outsider (we were in their room, in their house) so I don’t know the “normal” routine, if anything is normal at this point. Anyway, we are all in the room, cagedmonkey was standing near his side of the bed, M was standing near her side of the bed. I was standing near the foot of the bed on M‘s side. M got undressed and was standing there naked. Then cagedmonkey got undressed and was standing there naked, except for his Jailbird of course. So there I was thinking isn’t this an unusual position to be in. To them this was perfectly normal. For me, well, not so much. So, I did what seemed appropriate. I got undressed.
And there we were, all three of us standing together naked getting in to the same bed, cagedmonkey on his side, M in the middle, and me on what would normally be M’s side. Normal, right? Well, oddly, it was normal. It just felt right. I have used a lot of words to describe this but I think it is important. The fact that it felt normal and comfortable is what allowed everything that followed to just flow so well. And it has ever since. I feel that we were very fortunate to have established a solid foundation from the beginning, something that we could continue to build on.
M did a great job of describing the sex that we shared that night. I would like to expand on how one of my biggest fantasies was fulfilled. I have fantasized about being “the cleanup boy” for as long as I can remember. I’ve been around a while so this has been a very deep desire of mine for possibly 40 years, maybe longer. It was amazing to watch M get her pussy filled with a very large cock. I was laying beside them and holding M as she came on that really nice big cock. I could feel the excitement of knowing what was coming next. Knowing that this has gone beyond a fantasy, I could briefly savor the reality of what was happening. Now I am watching as that big cock was sliding in and out of an already very wet pussy and I could tell that very soon he too would be cumming hard. I could feel as her pussy was filled with cum. And a lot of it. Cagedmonkey had not been allowed to cum for a long time before this and he emptied his very full balls in to her.
It was time for my fantasy to be fulfilled. Cagedmonkey pulled out and M directed me to clean up her messy pussy. This was the ultimate for me. To be told (instructed?, allowed?) to lick her freshly fucked pussy until every drop of sex was cleaned up. Hers, his, mine – all of it. And there was a lot. I could see how wet M was, and I could see cum dripping from her pussy. I didn’t waste any time getting started with big long licks so I would catch every drop before it dripped down and was lost. Then I was able to spend some time really enjoying having my face in M’s pussy. It was during this time that she pushed the cum that was in her pussy out and on to my tongue and in to my eagerly waiting mouth. Eventually I had to stop, most likely told to stop. I didn’t want it to end. I had been in subspace from the beginning but now I was in even deeper. I felt like I was floating having had such an amazing fantasy made real. I absolutely love that when I think of this now rather than a fantasy it is a memory of a very real, very amazing event.
After we were done we all checked in with each other. Individually and as group. And as we all came down out of our “space” we continued to check in. We spent time immediately after and over the next several days doing the very important work of caring for each other and understanding how we all felt.
So what’s next? Well a lot. I am looking forward to sharing so many fantasies that we each had and how we have been going about fulfilling them.
I hope you have enjoyed hearing another point of view. Please comment or email if you have questions or would like to know more.
January 1st, 2026… before we look ahead, let’s linger just a moment on the year we’re leaving behind.
2025 was… a return. Not just to writing, but to this space, to connection and sharing again after a pause that was needed, and intentional. Coming back to the blog and even other more “public” parts of lifestyle has reminded me why I love doing this in the first place. The words flow differently, touch deeper, feel more confident, less rushed. And I find myself smiling while writing again… which is always a good sign.
It was a year full of moments worth savoring, lessons learned, dynamics explored, arousal, excitement, heat and yes, a few memories that still make me pause mid-thought and smirk. The kind you don’t blurt out right away because they deserve to be unwrapped slowly. We shared some of that in 2025. There’s still plenty that the three of us have yet to find time to write about.
As we step into 2026, I feel that delicious kind of excitement building. The kind that comes from knowing there are stories waiting to be told… past ones you haven’t heard yet, present ones unfolding in real time, and future encounters that already have my attention. I’m ready to bring you along for all of it. 😉
More than anything, I’m looking forward to engaging with you, our readers. The ones who lean in, respond, think, feel and enjoy the journey with us. I love this shared space where curiosity is welcome and pleasure, of all kinds, isn’t something we shy away from.
This year, expect content that’s playful, honest, teasing, educational, a little naughty, and just mind-tingly enough to linger. Writing meant to make you smile, maybe shift in your seat a bit and maybe, just maybe, come back for more. 😘
2026 is here and we have plenty to explore together. 🔍🧭
