When Your Kinks Don’t Match: The Smart Way to Compromise in Kinky Relationships
Most people think great kink happens with perfect matching fetishes. Spoiler: that’s fantasy. Real kink is about getting creative when your…
Why I Get Soaked Just Thinking About Teasing and Denying My Husband’s Orgasms (And Why Men Never Understand How Much We Crave It)
Why I get ridiculously turned on by teasing and denying my husband’s orgasms - the real reasons this woman craves control, how it deepens our…
I Turned My Boyfriend Into My Personal Anal Slut: Face-Down, Ass-Up Live on Cam
I told him to get the heavy stainless steel one that we affectionately call "Big Boy" and pretty much makes him whimper every single time. I…
Is It Still Chastity If There’s No Cage?
Wondering if chastity without a cage is ‘real’ chastity? Exploring orgasm denial, mental control, and whether hardware is required.
Our First BDSM Event at a Sex Club PT 3: Bruised and Exposed on the Bench
I know we’ve written about what it was like in the club in previous posts but it’s worth taking you through some of it again. You…
Coffee Talk: Praise, Simple But Effective in Kink & BDSM
I was sitting here this morning enjoying my coffee and starting thinking about praise. Not the fancy kind — just the simple, straightforward…
Real “Throuple’s” Story: Our Nervous but Hot First BDSM Event at a Sex Club PT 1
Read our honest, steamy account of our first time in the "sex area" at a BDSM sex club as a throuple - voyeurism, public teasing, edging, and more.
Coffee Talk: Guys, Are You Feeling Ok? I’m Just Checking In With You
You are allowed to be comfortable in your own skin. Every inch of it. The soft bits, the wrinkly bits, the bits that jiggle when you laugh.…
How it is Spending the Weekend Together ENM and We went to the Sex Club For the First Time!
We all have thoughts and feelings and impressions from what the three of us experienced together and our first experience at the BDSM party…
People You Know Who Don’t Know
As I was sitting here enjoying my dinner, I starting thinking… Holy shit! IS THAT MY BOYFRIEND’S BROTHER IN LAW? Did my my…