Interested in knowing a little more about The Lady and her cagedmonkey?
The Lady and her cagedmonkey are a pretty normal married couple in their mid-to-late 30’s; they’ve been together since 1999 and have had their share of relationship ups and downs. They are just regular people that have jobs and kids. Lady is a full time mom who homeschools and just to make life more interesting they also have a special needs child thrown in the mix!
Mostly vanilla with a little bit of kink thrown in, Lady and cagedmonkey have practiced tease and denial since the beginning of their relationship. Their relationship has always been mostly a Female Led Relationship (FLR/FLM). It’s just the way it works for them and it works well. They’ve started this blog as a way to journal about their new found kink, Male Chastity. The couple was introduced to the world of enforced male chastity in late 2013, and have adopted the lifestyle as an exciting addition to their sex life. Since discovering this part of themselves it has opened their minds to exploring many new and exciting things. Lady and her cagedmonkey are excited to share their experience as they explore their way through a whole new world.
Lady currently keeps cagedmonkey locked in his chastity cage 24/7, with releases for teasings at her discretion. cagedmonkey may only orgasm or achieve a full erection with her permission. Both Lady and cagedmonkey are EXTREMELY friendly and willing to answer most questions pertaining to their chastity lifestyle, so please feel free to ask away!
what do you guys use for a device?
Hi there! I guess we should put that in there, huh? Currently I have him in a Bird Cage but we are waiting on his custom Jail Bird to come from Mature Metal. It should have been mailed yesterday, according to Mistress MM.
I love orgasm denial especially after a Goddess making me aroused and fully erect. By and through such denial I find myself more and more submissive as the days pass.
Keep up your good work, Lady. You have my respect.
I appreciate the comments! 🙂
As a former homeschooler (and a man also locked in a Jailbird), I am sure you are a stickler for correct spelling. I found an error in your intro: “Their relationship has always been mostly a Female Led Relationship (FLR/FLM). It’s just they (should be THE) way it works for them and it works well.”
Just want you to present yourself in the best positive light. And I promise to read each of your posts when I get the time to do so later this week!
Haha! I keep going over and rereading them myself and editing! Let me know if you find anything else! LoL 🙂
FYI: 90% of this blog is written and/or created from my Note2 so the damn autocorrect gets me sometimes and I don’t always catch it right away.
Thank you for pointing this out though, going to fix it now!
There are those that think their grammar police but but do not check they’re own grammar
Haha funny ass old man! :)~
One day when I’m married, I hope to have as much fun as you guys. I’m a sex addict, my partner too…though we haven’t been having much fun lately.
I do hope you can find the fun in your relationship as well!
I’ve been sleeping around lately. Not proud of it but I feel good. Thanks for the well-wishes! 😉
I’m sorry to hear that… if I were in your shoes I might start thinking about some professional help. But that’s just me! Good luck and feel free to use our contact page if you need to talk. 🙂
Hello LadynMonkey
I’m new to your site here, finding my way.
I purchased a cb6000 for my husband & put it under the Christmas tree last year. Fun well the fun started the next day when I slipped it him. The look on his face was priceless. Each day forward I learned new ways to tease and command his complete attention and affection.
I’m going to post this reply and hope I find my way about your site here
JenniferM
Hi there and glad you found us! 🙂
I’m glad you are enjoying chastity with your husband and I hope you enjoy what you find here.
What a wonderful find! I love your blog! It is so sexy.
b in MT
Thanks and welcome! So glad you’re enjoying it! 🙂
Thanks and I hope you two write often!
We don’t have any plans on stopping 🙂 we enjoy our journey too much hehe
I have a birdcage chastity device but I’ve been having trouble keeping it on securely. I find that when i get flaccid it tends to want to slip off. Am i doing something wrong? I put the ring over my cock and then try to pull my balls through the ring. Is there a better way to make it stay on more securely? Thanks for your response monkey!
It sounds as though your ring might be just a little bit too big. It may seem like you won’t be able to get a cage on with a smaller ring, but I believe your technique in putting the ring on is making it harder than it should be.
ML and I have been considering posting about this along with pics of the step-by-step process , because we get this question pretty often.
When I put my cage on, I go “balls first” through the ring. The reason for this is that my cock can squish itself into the ring much better than a testicle can. If you go “cock first,” that leaves less room for your balls to pass through. Of course, when removing the cage, you’d work backwards and go “cock out” first.
that’s the way that I do it as well.
mark
Thanks for the prompt response mr monkey!
My pleasure!
And going balls first makes more sense and is probably more comfortable than trying to squish my balls through the ring the way i had been doing it. Thanks again mr monkey. I think a step-by-step explanation would be very useful to your readers.
My slaves “off the shelf” cage did some temporary physical harm. He’s fairly well endowed and anything I look at is too short and too tight. It ended up pinching his skin enough that he scabbed over in a couple of spots. I can’t seem to find anything bigger than what I already bought for him where there is enough room between the ring and the sleeve to be comfortable fully flaccid. I’m frustrated and skittish to keep buying ones (I’ve purchased two) and he is begging for one.
Elena,
Thanks for your comment! I completely understand. The Curve is a larger off the shelf bigger device but, when it comes to our larger sized boys, a custom device might be just what you need. It’s better to get the right fit, rather than spending money over and over again on things that don’t fit properly. At least that’s my opinion.
I know this is over a year since you first posted this. Hope you have ordered a custom built cage for your wonderful slave. He sounds like an excellent sub, begging for a properly fitting cage is such a positive,wonderful thing to do for you two. Once you are satisfied with his begging, my advice is to get him sized up for a custom fitted device. He truly deserves it. Plus, no loving, caring Dom. would want Her sub to be uncomfortable (in the bad way) or worse, cause physical harm to Her sub.
That said, my Queen and I have measured me (many, many times) and we have ordered our first custom device. We’re very excited! I have been wearing a Holy Trainer Version 3 for about 6 months.We prefer 24/7 wear, but the fit and feel just aren’t right for long term wear. It is a pretty neat device in it’s own right, but it is as the name implies, a trainer. Not the real thing.
Hope things are working out for you both by now. Keeping him denied and at your service will be amazing for your relationship! Best of luck!
Mike,
Thanks so much for your comment! I appreciate you sharing your experience with the HT and congrats on the custom cage!