Have you ever wondered what it would be like to go a year without an orgasm? I’d imagine quit a few of our readers have thought that, tried it or done it!
The longest I made it – yes me… I couldn’t handle it last time – was 299 days. Cagedmonkey probably could have held out longer but I struggled with the connection of cumming together. There is something about feeling that feeling at the same time. I missed being filled up. The last time we tried doing a one year… or longer denial we also tried to do a lot more locked up time. So I made it quite clear that this time I’d be using him as much as I wanted. It has definitely helped this time around because we are already 226 along and I’m no where near feeling a disconnect. We are intimate at least a few times a week, one way or another. So that makes it that much easier to keep him denied.
Plus, I do absolutely love how crazy horny he is. He’s so sweet and loving too! I really do love that just touching me or even sitting and talking and being cute and fun and lovey dovey gets him all hard. He, most times, is struggling in his cage but sometimes I have him unlocked so he’s usable.
Recently, we got a Double Locking Cockring from Mature Metal which is super fantastic for having him available but still locked in something. That way he’s constantly feeling my control over that big cock of his. It doesn’t hurt that the Cockring kinda forces him be hard for a long time, and not just any hard, but super hard hard lol!
So much enjoyment out of this denial, like I said, it’s been much easier this time keeping him aching to cum. I have no doubt he will not orgasm again until sometime in 2021!
Love it! So happy you found a way for it to work for you this time around!
Me too, it’s been fun 😉
For me I would love to go a year without cumming. Frankly the idea of permanent denial is very exciting but like you my wife misses my cock in her pussy and filling her up and cumming in her. of course I would like nothing better than for her to have a guy come by once or twice a week to take the edge off for her but since that wont happen I won’t stay denied for as long as I would like.
Dont get me wrong I want to be in her I want it badly, I just want to be denied what I want most…To ache for her to want her and be so close…heavenly hell!!!!
I completely understand! Thanks for the comment!
What you are doing is similar to what my Queen and I are doing. Today I’m 497 days since orgasm. We did play yesterday and she orgasmed. Then she edged me to the point of my writhing and making what she calls “funny” sounds. I was so close. But while this is a new record for me, she wants to wait until we have the house to ourselves before she allows me to cum.
Oh and I’d love to read a review on this new toy you got from Mature Metal.
We plan to write one! Hang in there!
It’s interesting how you are in it together to extend him into a year’s worth of denial and I can tell that it is very exciting to you both. How does Lady M tease him on a daily basis? How often does CM service Lady M? I’m curious to know how many orgasms she’s had since this denial period.
Thanks for sharing your life with us.
Cheers
Paul
Hi Paul!
Thanks for your comment. I figured I would put this response in a blog post because it might be helpful for more people to try to understand a bit more about what our day to day life looks like! You only get bits and pieces here on the blog or podcasts.
Keep a look out for a response soon!
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