This morning I was sitting here enjoying my coffee and I got to thinking about this whole “pussy free” thing that we are really starting to ramp up here with hubby.
Over the last couple days hubby has been out on the interwebs and sent me a couple links to check out. The links talk about a lot of things and it’s hard to just jump right in head first and implement ALL of these ideas you can get. While I did like a couple things that maybe we will add in at some point. Just the fact that I got some new ideas from reading it, was nice.
It did get me really thinking about my situation and even more-so after Jon and I talked a bit about this whole thing yesterday morning. After listening to him talk about the no-pussy thing and even the no touch aspect – which forces him to be a watcher, more or less – I realized that he really does want the role of a cuckold. He wants the “forced to sit and watch someone touch, lick, suck and fuck his wife and enjoy all the things he wants and desires and cant have or even touch” until he’s sick to his stomach and then he wants more..
On the other hand I have John who is content in his cage and quite the submissive, cuckold, cumslut. He isnt really the take me and fuck me hard in front of my husband kind of guy. That’s just not the relationship we have either. That’s not the kind of sex we have when I do take him out of the cage. I like it that way too, obviously.
At one point it was bought up as an aside like, “maybe you need to find another cock that can fuck you and then leave you messy with a big load of cum.” This would help satisfy both of their desires. I’d imagine it would put them both in a subspace I don’t think either have ever thought they would be in.
Like I said… I was sitting here thinking… What I have is a 2 for 1 Cuckold situation and a need for a proper Bull, it seems. Is this something they really want?
I’m left to ponder…
M
Is it really something they “want” or something that you all “need”? It is complicated finding the right man, but how many ladies have TWO supportive cuckolds to share in the ups and downs with? Also, being truly p-ssy free isn’t as important as believing you are p-ssy free. There seems to be plenty of room for mind games before Jon is truly weaned and retired for good. Enjoy the ride wherever it leads you.
Thank you for your comment and thoughts shannon. Always great to hear from you!
I saw a quote that said “a woman needs someone who is caring, great in bed, and a good communicator…that’s why she needs three men.” One question – can a submissive man be good at f-cking? You guys show a real side that is different than stereotypes.
Very interesting question! For my guys I know it depends on the type of guy they are. I’m sure both are capable but with John that’s just not how we are. I can have a little “harder” sex with hubby and do that fucking thing but that doesn’t work to cuckold himself.
Your post made me think about the media coverage of the book “Gaggle” a few years ago. The book was for single women dating, and had nothing to do with cuckolding, yet some of the quotes had strong cuckolding vibes for those of us that are married:
“Your gaggle may well include ex-boyfriends, hot sex prospects, and perhaps even a cuddle-guy. It’s your love-life, so do it your way. As long as you’re open and honest with your dates – and practice safe sex – there’s no reason why you can’t be intimate with more than one person.”
I think I sub man can be good at fucking – it depends on the relationship dynamics (whether there is a “switchy” dynamic or not). Even if it’s strictly femdom, the woman can always say something along the lines of, “fuck my pussy hard” and give instructions; in this case, the man is serving his dominant in the way she wants.
It’s like we always say: there’s no right or wrong way to do FLR. 🙂
I am picturing Michele with her own reverse harem, but forgive me for my imagination running wild.
Haha 😂 Ohhh now we’re talking…