After coming back from our vacation, (shameless promo link for our Mature Metal podcast!) I’ve been trying to focus more on wearing my cage as much as possible. Over the past few months, it’s been difficult to wear the cage 24/7 due to my back pain. Yes, my back surgery was successful, but (thanks to COVID concerns) I was not able to go through a full rehab-type regimen after surgery. This has made my recovery a little rough at times.
Specifically, it was very difficult for me to wear the cage overnight because I would often wake up to very painful cage-erections. They would really hurt, and not in the good “sexual confinement” way. After an extremely bad night, ML and I decided to have me take the cage off at night until things got better.
To be honest, My Lady was able to enjoy the situation by having easy access to morning sex… and, damn, do we have good morning sex! But I still felt that ML was being deprived of her total control of my cock. So over the past couple of days, we’ve decided to try the 24/7 lock up again and see how i handle it.
Good news report: I’ve been wearing the cage since Friday, and it feels great.
Yes, I’m still getting those “4am wake up” erections in the cage… but I’ve decided that I just need to figure out how to deal with them. So now, I’ll change position to take pressure off of my back or something, which usually works enough so I can get back to sleep. Most of all, I’m realizing how badly I miss being locked up for My Lady. Yes, I’m still crazy horny because I haven’t cum all year, but there’s a different intensity to having my erections denied as well. I already feel it building up over the past couple of days, and I’m glad it’s back.
It might take a little while before I can get start wearing it for weeks at a time, but I’m honestly looking forward to it. I know how much ML enjoys having me wear it according to her desires, and I’m excited about getting back to that.
hi! Have you considered NOT wearing the cage but still not cumming (honor system?). That’s what i’ve been doing and haven’t failed the whole year. i still have the other good effects (attentive, crazy for Her, etc).
We do this also, but ML was missing me wearing the cage for longer periods. Cage off or on, she is still dead set on denying me for at least the rest of the year.
Awesome! i hope you enjoy it! In the past, i had 2 long-term periods, one of 11 months, one of 1 year 3 months. Since close to the end of last year we started trying for permanent, and it has been a great change that has made us connect deeper! For me, not having the expectation has been humbling but liberating and a great avenue for submission!