Today the final nail was hammered into the coffin of the idea that I might actually have a pain free elbow. It has been decided that my blood pressure issue trumps my elbow pain… and yes, I realize that this is the best decision for my health. It’s just very disappointing that I have to give up my elbow surgery for it, and it’s even more annoying when the doctors I talk to don’t understand this. They think “we’ll have this sorted out in a couple of weeks, and then you can reschedule your surgery.” That’s great, if I could just up and take a month off of work on the middle of summer vacation time (fyi, I can’t).
So now I’m pretty much stuck indefinitely with elbow pain that is worsening by the day, makes it difficult to work, and even more difficult to enjoy kinky stuff with My Lady. With this elbow problem, we are going to have to be very careful with the games we play, and intense scenes are pretty much out of the question… and for how long, if there is even an endpoint, is anyone’s guess (ML will argue against this point in the comments, lol).
Honestly… it sucks. But it’s necessary. Taking care of my blood pressure is much more important that my elbow. If I can only fix one, the blood pressure is the correct choice. It just really sucks ass the stuff I gotta give up to make thar choice.
My wonderful hubby knows very well this does not mean NO surgery ever. It just means it has to be pushed back until his health is under control and the time can be taken from work.
Hell, if we’re lucky he can have it done sometime over the summer when the kids are out of school and we can actually spend some wonderful family time together.
There is a reason this is happening the way it is. I want to spend the rest of our lives together and I would like the rest of his life to be longer than Friday – God forbid some crazy thing happened during the surgery with his high blood pressure.
Anyway… Everything in its own time – one day at a time.
I told you so. 😉
Haha oh you are so going to get a spankin’!
Can’t the high blood pressure be caused by the irritation about the pain in the elbow?
I hope the doctors can bring it down soon.
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First – the pain from the elbow wouldn’t cause that kind of elevation. Second – if it was pain related it would fluctuate.
It’s just high… Really high and the one med wasn’t cutting it so they’ve added more and they are doing a bunch of tests to check other organs that could be causing it – especially his heart.
I do thank you for the comment and didn’t mean to sound blunt and rude. It was an unexpected day yesterday and I think I was just answering quickly!