Coffee Talk

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This morning I was sitting here enjoying my coffee and I got to thinking about this whole “pussy free” thing that we are really starting to ramp up here with hubby.

Coffee runs through my veins

Over the last couple days hubby has been out on the interwebs and sent me a couple links to check out. The links talk about a lot of things and it’s hard to just jump right in head first and implement ALL of these ideas you can get. While I did like a couple things that maybe we will add in at some point. Just the fact that I got some new ideas from reading it, was nice.

It did get me really thinking about my situation and even more-so after Jon and I talked a bit about this whole thing yesterday morning. After listening to him talk about the no-pussy thing and even the no touch aspect – which forces him to be a watcher, more or less – I realized that he really does want the role of a cuckold. He wants the “forced to sit and watch someone touch, lick, suck and fuck his wife and enjoy all the things he wants and desires and cant have or even touch” until he’s sick to his stomach and then he wants more..

On the other hand I have John who is content in his cage and quite the submissive, cuckold, cumslut. He isnt really the take me and fuck me hard in front of my husband kind of guy. That’s just not the relationship we have either. That’s not the kind of sex we have when I do take him out of the cage. I like it that way too, obviously.

At one point it was bought up as an aside like, “maybe you need to find another cock that can fuck you and then leave you messy with a big load of cum.” This would help satisfy both of their desires. I’d imagine it would put them both in a subspace I don’t think either have ever thought they would be in.

Like I said… I was sitting here thinking… What I have is a 2 for 1 Cuckold situation and a need for a proper Bull, it seems. Is this something they really want?


I’m left to ponder…

M

Written by Michele

Good morning!

I was sitting here enjoying this nice warm cup of coffee… Not freezing after this winter storm, and thinking to myself…

Am I weird for liking the things I like? Do you ever ask yourself that? From time to time I’ll just go through something where I wonder why I like some of the things I do. Is it simply the psychological stuff from childhood working itself out? A lot of times, yes. Is it something I tried one time and, damn it felt good? Yup, could be that too! Is it none of those and something else entirely? Could be.

Anyway, the important thing is that I know I’m not weird for liking what I do… I am not alone. I know that it’s ok for me to be who I am and to embrace what makes me feel good. As long as I’m enjoying those things in a safe, consensual way I can do what gives me the most pleasure and fulfills me. If you find someone who wants to fulfill them with you or happens to be fulfilled by it too… That’s such an incredible feeling.

I hope that you know you aren’t weird for getting off on what you do!

Enjoy and be safe!

-Michele 💙

I was sitting here this morning, enjoying my coffee, and thinking to myself…

Looks like some delicious coffee

I’ve never really felt like a “Mistress” or “Goddess” or some of the names other dominant women like their submissive men to call them. With my husband and John, and all the men I have been a keyholder for, it’s always been a struggle to figure out what was right for them to call me. At some point early on we settled on “Lady” because, I was a lady to be respected and followed. While I do demand and command respect, I have always felt weird about the way it’s been written here when we talk/write in posts. Which is why I redid my name to Madam because I’m older now and it makes sense. I still expect that respect, of course, but this morning while sitting here I was just thinking that, in posts and on the blog, I want it to sound better lol. I’m just too old for hiding behind aliases aren’t I at this point? Lol So, you might just just see me referred to as Michele from now on when the guys write. Unless it’s a specific quoted thing. There might a bit more of that around here in general, as we make some other adjustments.

We really are trying to make it feel a lot more comfortable and like you can come here and talk to us as friends. We are not intimidating and never want you to feel that way.

OK, go enjoy your coffee! I need another cup!

Do you like yours with cream?

I was sitting here this morning, drinking my coffee and letting my mind wander into places it probably shouldn’t before 8am. Ok maybe my mind should be anywhere it wants before 8am, but still! Nothing specific, just those familiar thoughts that make you smirk, raise an eyebrow, and think, well… that’s interesting.


I really wanted to share it with you. The problem was that it really wasn’t enough to become a full blog post. It didn’t need structure, depth, or a long build-up. It just felt like it to be acknowledged and shared.

Sometimes a thought shows up fully formed, demanding space and attention. Other times it drifts through quietly,  lingers just long enough to be interesting, and then moves on. Those are the thoughts that tend to get lost. They are not big enough for a full post, not polished enough to build around, but still very much worth sharing. So I thought… Why not share the damn things with you so you can enjoy those thoughts with us.


That is where the idea of the  Coffee Talk series comes in.


This series is a place for the things we are thinking in real time. Observations, curiosities or moments that spark something in us and make us wonder if they will spark something in you too. They might be sensual, sexual, reflective, playful, honest or down right naughty. They might raise questions instead of answering them. They might simply exist because they felt important in the moment.


All three of us may be sharing these posts. You could be hearing diifferent voices, different perspectives and different moods. The common thread is that they are small pieces of our inner conversations, offered without overworking them or forcing them into something bigger than they need to be.


Think of Coffee Talk as an open door into our heads, just for a moment.

We hope you’ll grab your cup and join us and tell us your thoughts too. ☕