poly

All posts tagged poly

Many people are out there wondering – I know, because I’ve received a lot of emails from people like T and David S. asking – exactly how does this whole thing work? How do I deal with and handle the fact that my wife has a boyfriend? And how does this dynamic work into our kink lifestyle?

Well, starting with the “real life” stuff: it wasn’t easy at first. It took a lot of work – a lot of which I’m not sure I (or anybody) is willing to go into yet – but it essentially came down to this: both John and I love M; and if she is meeting both of our needs, is there really a problem? Knowing that Madam truly cares for each of us uniquely (as well as both of us together) is what makes this work.

In practice, that means each an understanding that we are each valuable and needing time and attention. That means date nights for both him and me – it’s a little more difficult for them, with the distance involved, but it’s important to prioritize. It also means taking the time to bond as a group – going out on a date with the 3 of us, spending time together, etc. These things help build trust within our dynamic, as well as a comfort level that is needed in order to enjoy….
Other things.

Speaking of those other things….
One may think that, because my wife now has a boyfriend, that I take the cuckold role; others may think that, because he spends most of his time locked and I don’t, that I would assume that role. In reality, neither is correct – there is an interesting fluidity in the roles we take (other than M being the dominant, of course). Depending on her mood, my wife will have sex with John while I’m only allowed to sit and watch; she may also have me ruin my orgasm inside her pussy so John can clean up the mess that is left behind.

There’s no “set in stone” way we handle things – it is very much “in the moment” and very much “M-driven.” And trust me, she enjoys it this way! She likes the idea of being able to deny both of us… or, for that matter, enjoying us both at the same time!

It wasn’t easy getting here. But the way it works is that we concentrate on each others’ needs, communicate clearly and openly… and most importantly, focus on enjoying the experience (however it may go in the current moment).

Hello, my lovelies—

Have you missed us? 👋 It’s been far too long since I last sat down here to share our life with you in our little corner of the internet. Life has a way of sweeping us up and spinning us around, and that’s exactly what happened. But here I am, heels planted firmly, ready to catch you up.

A lot has changed since our last post in January of 2021. I can’t believe it’s been that long. Since then our family made the big leap to Texas. There is so much new! New home, new cars, new jobs, new schools, new routines—it has been a whirlwind of fresh starts. The Lone Star State has been an adventure in more ways than one.

And then, 2022, something even bigger began to shift. Our dynamic—our rhythm, our dance—started to evolve. But you don’t think I’m going to spill all my secrets right now, do you? You know me better than that. I am, after all, a tease. And a Domme never shows her whole hand at once. That story deserves its own post. For now, I’ll simply say this: monkey has been uncaged 🔒 for maybe a couple of years now… and oh, what fun it’s been to play without bars. Don’t worry though, I still get my fill of keeping a chastity cage locked 🔒 🔑 24/7. You’ll hear all about that, in time. Savor the moment, will you? ❤️

The journey has been messy, beautiful, eye-opening, and yes—deliciously wicked at times. There’s been tears, laughter, lessons, growth and plenty of stories I’m itching to share. And through it all, one thing hasn’t changed: my love for tease and denial (and so many other things!) and telling you all about it.

So thank you for waiting, for peeking 👀 back here now and then, for holding this space for me. I’ve missed it. I’ve missed you. And now? I’m back.

Thinking of you all,
And you will now address me as Madam… If you address me at all.

Melissa and Tom had met Bethany at a party that was thrown by a mutual friend. It wasn’t just any party, though… it was a “kink party.” These parties were tame by most standards – just a bunch of like-minded people getting together to hang out and have some fun, only the “like-mindedness” of the people happened to be the enjoyment of kinky sex. And, as one would expect, when you get 10-20 adults with dirty minds into one room and you add alcohol into the mix, some very interesting conversations tend to happen.

Melissa and Tom were regular attendees to the kink parties, and definitely enjoyed the interaction with the other people there. They both loved being able to talk freely and openly with friends about their secret sex games – Tom was kept in chastity, with Melissa as his keyholder. She often kept him locked up for weeks at a time, and denied him orgasms for even longer periods of time. Melissa enjoyed the power she felt when she teased Tom mercilessly and kept him sexually frustrated almost constantly. Recently, they discovered a desire to explore sharing their tease and denial games with another person; not necessarily a “partner” in the typical threesome sense, but more like a “participant” – a second dominant woman who could join Melissa in teasing Tom and driving him wild, without actually progressing to full blown sex.

Bethany, on the other hand, was not what you would call a “kink party veteran” – she had only been to one other party in the past, and had spent most of the night chatting with the friend she came with. She wasn’t shy – far from it, in fact – she just wasn’t able to find anyone to talk to that interested her. She was switchy-dom and also bisexual, which tended to attract the same boring personality types: men who wanted to dominate (i.e. tame) her, and women who wanted to be dominated by her. Sure, that stuff was fun, but she was in need of something exciting and different.

It just so happened that, on the night the three of them met, the party had been especially boisterous – the alcohol was flowing freely and early, and the vibe of the party was getting looser and looser as the night went on. Nudity isn’t necessarily forbidden at these parties, but it isn’t a common occurrence; on this night, it only took an hour and a half before the first pair of boobs were out for all to see (two ladies wanted to compare nipple sizes, “for science” supposedly). Not one to be left out, Melissa took out her tits to join in on the “experiment.”

At that moment, Bethany happened to be turning around and when she saw Melissa’s boobs, her knees went weak – they were GORGEOUS! Not only were they huge, but her nipples were beautiful and perfect – she definitely put the other two women to shame! They looked soft and heavy, and when Melissa cupped them in her hands, she found herself wishing she were the one holding them. Only a few feet away, she had to mentally hold herself back from just jumping out and grabbing them.

The next thing she knew, Melissa was offering others to cop a feel! It started with Tom, who squeezed and massaged them with the intimate knowledge that a husband should have with is wife’s breasts. Then it was a nearby woman who was squeezing one of her tits and laughing along with Melissa… amazing! Bethany couldn’t believe it, she was amazed. Then, she was even more amazed when Melissa turned to her and asked plainly, “Wanna feel?”

“Ummm, let me think…” Bethany joked, “Fuck yes!” Bethany reached out with both hands and held Melissa’s boobs: My God, she thought, they are even heavier than thay look! She must have had a dreamy look in her eye as she played with Melissa’s tits, because when she looked up, Melissa was smiling at her. Then, without warning, Melissa laughed, lifted her boobs, and squeezed them right into Bethany’s face!

Bethany’s face was buried in Melissa’s tits for only a second, but the moment was burned into her senses: the soft warmth of her boobs on the side of her face, the sweet smell of her skin, the way Melissa squeezed her flesh tightly against her – she was very briefly in heaven! She couldn’t control herself as she moaned deeply into Melissa’s cleavage just a moment before Melissa pulled away.

Holy shit, that was hot, Bethany thought to herself – she had almost started making out with Melissa’s tits right there in the middle of the party! She couldn’t help it, though; they really were beautiful. And Melissa’s playful attitude definitely fit the “exciting and different” category. She couldn’t believe it, but she felt herself getting turned on just from that quick little interaction…

For Melissa, it wasn’t anything special to whip her tits out – after all, she was proud of them and happy to show them off! Most of all, she enjoyed teasing people with them, so when she saw how “interested” Bethany was, it felt natural to shove them right in her face! All in good fun… until she sensed something in Bethany while her face was between her boobs. Melissa could feel her body change from surprise to… arousal? Did Bethany like having those huge titties rubbed in her face like that? Her suspicions were confirmed when she felt Bethany moan into her boobs… and did Bethany just lick her cleavage?

Melissa surprised herself for a moment when she realized that she liked it, too – she liked that she could tell Bethany was turned on. Melissa always enjoyed the reaction that she had on people, and Bethany was definitely reacting! Melissa pulled away, mainly out of respect for the party atmosphere… who knows how long she would have kept her tits in Bethany’s face if they were in private? All Melissa knew was that it was clear from look on her face that Bethany was turned on, and Melissa couldn’t deny that she was turned on as well.

Amazingly, the party continued, but neither Melissa nor Bethany let it slip too far from their minds. Before the end of the party, they made sure to meet up with each other to discuss what happened……

“So….” Melissa started, “it seems like you really enjoyed my tits back there…”

“Hehehe, yes,” Bethany laughed. With the ice sufficiently broken, she said, “How could I not enjoy them? They are amazing!”

“Thank you,” Melissa replied. “I appreciate the compliment, and I’m really glad you enjoyed them. Tom really enjoyed watching you play with them, too.”

Bethany smiled and licked her lips, intrigued by the exhibitionist angle that she hadn’t considered until now.

“I couldn’t help but notice,” Melissa continued, “that you’re really cute. Like, super cute! I’m not usually attracted to most women, but I have to say you are really, really…. I guess cute is the best way to describe you!”

Bethany laughed again, blushing at the compliment. “Cute is good?”

“Oh, cute is VERY good,” Melissa said. “I also wanted to let you know that I enjoyed you enjoying my tits…”

“That’s good to know,” Bethany said playfully.

Melissa and Bethany spent the next few minutes talking about their specific kinks, filling each other in on the details of each other’s situation. After a little bit of chatting, Melissa felt it was time to go for broke.

“So, I’m just going to come out and say this,” Melissa said, “I’m looking for a nice, cute domme girl to play with, so we can both tease the fuck out of my husband and make him absolutely insane. I want to be able to tease and taunt him with what he can’t have, and have the girl help me with that – making him jealous of all the times she gets to masturbate, cum, or things like that… basically all of the stuff I do to him, only twice as bad. I think you would fit in really well with that.”

Talk about exciting and different! Bethany had never heard anything like this before, and she had to admit it sounded like a lot of fun! From earlier in the conversation, she had been able to surmise that she wouldn’t have to actually fuck Tom, but she would definitely be able to mindfuck him as much as she wanted… which had the potential to be even more fun! That, plus the opportunity to play with Melissa and those huge tits…

“I think that sounds like a great idea,” Bethany replied.

“Great!” Melissa said. Then, just for the reaction, Melissa leaned over and put her lips inches away from Bethany’s ear and whispered to her, “Let’s go tell Tom.”

Bethany moaned, “Can I tell him?”