Pic borrowed from socyberty.com - so sexy
Sorry to the guys but this is something I need to say to my Lady friends (and to you guys). There are a lot of misconceptions about a woman’s period. A lot of women think it’s gross and dirty and that there is no way they can have sex during it. Ok maybe some guys think it’s gross and dirty too. I just feel a need to let all the ladies in on a secret. Ok maybe not a total secret…
There has actually been a lot of research about it and you can go do your web search if you want but having sex and/or having orgasms during your menstrual cycle is a fantastic idea. Ok so, if you’re like me, those first few heavy days you might not want to but after that I suggest you make that man of yours give you lots of orgasms. Or tie him up and make him watch you masturbate. 🙂 I have to say that “magic wand” works like a charm through a maxi pad to give you a pretty damn good orgasm.
I normally have a kind of heavy few days and a long period (like 8 days!) BUT the months where I am having multiple orgasms I pretty much have no cramps and my cycle length shortens by days! I know all of you ladies totally understand wanting your cycle to be shorter. I’m sure the painful cramps are on your list of “guys have it easier because…” and well, who wouldn’t want to ease those?
In the past three days, I have used cagedmonkey to have many orgasms. During this cycle I have had minimal cramps and besides the heavy stuff the first 36 hours it’s been much lighter flow. I decided to let my horny flow and just go with it. I don’t get undressed, don’t need to get anything prepared or worry about mess. I just rub on him and give myself an orgasm. It’s been a very dominating kind of few days when I call him into the bedroom and push him favorite on the bed, straddle his ass and grind my pussy on him until I cum good. As a matter of fact, I’m sitting here getting all tingly down below thinking about it right now! I wish I was home because I’d go in the bedroom and lock the door and lay next to him, making him watch me give myself a nice big orgasm.
Anyway ladies, there is never a need to “take a break” just because you get your cycle. Take that time to force your guy to watch you get off over and over… I mean it’s almost a necessary thing to help ease your menstrual discomfort, isn’t it? And I’m going to take a guess – not sure there has been actual research on it but – that having multiple orgasms and the chemical release during those orgasms would likely help with your PMS and your mood/depression etc. See, guys and gals, it’s all in your best interest to orgasm frequently, especially during menstruation. 😉
Very true!!!!
I’m glad you agree! Hehe
Sounds good to me…!
Mistress R has certainly been having me worship her pussy sooner than she used to, which is great. She’s certainly taking the view that once it’s ‘nearly’ over then normal service can resume. We seem to have got it down to a fine art recently, ensuring minimum downtime. 🙂
Robert Anthony,
I think as us ladies get older and more experienced we realize how fantastic it is to make you boys worship and please us as much as possible, whenever possible. 🙂
I personally have found that many, if not most women I have known, orgasm harder,
and get relief from cramps and bloating from Menstrual sex, and I have also found the best way to give them that relief is by satisfying them orally. I have orally satisfied at least 20 women during their time of month, and have loved every minute of it, and for the most part, so have they.
Stupidone,
So fantastic! I love hearing that… you would be surprised at the number of women who just don’t know but, to them I say, TRY IT! 🙂
In view of what Miss S has been up to for the past few days (as its her time of the month right now) I may well show her your post later as it’s in both our interests!!
X
Oooo I’m so excited to hear this! 🙂
That time of the month has never kept me away. I as well have gone down on my wife as well as had sex during her period. Not saying that I look like some zombie walker when I’m done, but there are clean ways to enjoy cunnilingus during the menstrual cycle. She is also much hornier during that time as well. I won’t miss out for any reason 👄
Haha kinky, all I could think of was The Walking Dead lol oy! I’m happy to hear you wouldn’t miss out on pleasing your wife! 🙂
A woman’s flow seems like such a taboo subject. My wife never really talked to me about it until we had another menstruating female in the house, and now they specifically mention it, going into TMI detail because they know it gets me out of the room.
Seriously, it seems like my wife has some sort of guilt or shame about it. She seems astonished that I am not embarrassed to buy her pads for her (I do most of the shopping in our house anyway, and I know what kind she prefers). It’s no big deal to me, part of married life.
Her periods are also very long, about a week. But like you, the Hitachi wand on the high setting works like a charm through her pad and gets her off every time. She will not allow anything else except the Hitachi during her flow. I also read articles that orgasm during a period lessens the duration and eases the cramp discomfort. Anecdotally, that seems true in her case as well. But she still doesn’t seem to “want it”. I guess she doesn’t feel sexy when she is on her period, and she refuses to let me touch her ass 🙁
We are getting more into cunnilingus (I think I’ve finally improved my technique, and she is more comfortable with it) but I do not like doing it a few days before and a few days after her period. It’s not that it smells bad per se, it’s just stronger than other times of her cycle. I liken it to a salad with too much dressing. Not bad, but not something I really want to eat either.
This is a timely post, as I think her monthly visitor is coming soon. She didn’t let me play with her last night, but she is well rested, so hopefully tonight!
Yeah, sounds about right for a woman. I wasn’t real big on play or anything during either until I started realizing the cramps and duration thing. Then I was like hellz yeah gimmie some orgasms! Lol we still aren’t full blown having sex when I’m heavy or anything but it’s really no big thing. Actually all the pheromones given off during a period is actually when men are more attracted. You’re right, the scent and taste are more “potent” as we put it but that’s the animal thing in us trying to let the males know we’re ready for baby making haha.
I hope you get some playtime tonight! We didn’t get much yesterday because hubby’s sleep was messed up so he napped in the evening. I did still have him service me quite well and he certainly went to work smelling of my pussy! 🙂
For those that wish to know more about cunnilingus during a woman’s period you should Google “Earning your red wings” where there is a lot to be learned. For me i have an extremely strong desire to be required to provide multiple orgasms every day during my Mistress’ period. It is not possible for that to happen for me at this time, for two reasons. First i don’t have a Mistress, because my wife has not accepted Dominance and submission as a lifestyle. Secondly and most importantly we are in our mid to late 60’s and she has not had a period for over 15 years. At this point in my life i am not willing to go outside of my marriage to meet my submissive needs, despite how strongly I want to do that!
i also want to share with the Dominant women that may read my comments some of the humiliation aspects that i am drawn to for service and enslavement during a woman’s period. i want to share these things so that it may serve as a source of inspiration for those women so that they may be able to incorporate some of my thinking into their Dominance over their submissive partners. One of the humiliating things that i long to experience is to have to “Service” my Mistress by being required to crawl to Her in the bedroom on my hands and knees, and to remover her panties, and then to remove her tampon using only my mouth and to keep it inside of my mouth. Once i have removed it from Her, i must then crawl to the bathroom to retrieve a new tampon and bring it back to Her. Once i am in her presence I must lick Her entire genital area clean and then insert the new tampon into her pussy. Once she is serviced, i must then kneel before Her awaiting permission to crawl to the bathroom to place the used tampon that is still in my mouth into the trash receptacle. Another thing that i desire to experience is to be punished during Her period. For this punishment session Mistress has already informed me that some punishment that i have earned will be deferred to Her next period. When Her period has reached a point of her heaviest flow, Mistress summons me and informs me that it is time for my deferred punishment, but first i am to lay down on my back and she sits on my face and command me to eat Her to 3 or 4 orgasms (a number of Her choosing). Once i have completed that task She lifts off of my face and tells me to “Fetch” a new tampon for her. Again i am required to crawl to the bathroom and retrieve a new tampon. Once i have returned i Mistress commands me to lie back down on my back. Once in position, Mistress straddles my face such that i am looking directly up at her pussy. She then commands me beg for my deferred punishment. i am required to say, “Mistress, i am Your pussy whipped slave. i have earned a punishment that has been deferred until now. Mistress i beg You to punish me for (the exact error or offense is stated her) and that You not show this slave any mercy during the punishment that i have earned!” Mistress says to me, “So be it slave! retrieve your gag for your punishment.” i lean up, find the string to her tampon and pull the tampon out and into my mouth. i lay back down and watch as Mistress inserts the new tampon into Her pussy. Next Mistress places duct tape over my mouth, commands me to my knees and pulls the leather discipline hood over my head and secures it like a second skin and locks the collar with a padlock. i now see absolutely nothing and have very limited hearing. I feel Mistress attach a leash to my collar and i am lifted to a standing position and lead away for my punishment. i know at this point it will only be a few minutes before i am bound in some way and that once bound, my cock and balls will be released from the chastity device that has held them prisoner since my last punishment. Now with me totally restrained and totally naked, Mistress will announce to me the duration of time that my punishment will last along with the intensity of the punishment that i have earned. Mistress then says me to “slave now you are to contemplate the punishment that awaits you while I get ready all that I will need to punish you!.” Mistress then secures a headset over my discipline hood. Once the hood is secured the opening few measures of Beethoven’s Fifth Symphony blasts into my ears and just keeps repeating over and over again its all too familiar,,,”da-da-da-DA [rest] da-da-da-DA [rest]…” Now with the headphones in place and the music drowning out what little sound i may have heard without the headphones, i can hear nothing other than the music and can think of nothing but the torture and pain that will all too soon engulf me as Mistress carries out my well earned punishment!
i truly hope this helps the Dominant women that read my comments to see ways that you can use Your periods to further enhance Your Dominance over Your submissive partners! To the submissive people that read this, you need to make sure that your Dominant partner reads this blog entry and you need to start coming to grips that your role as Her submissive/slave is about to change!
VerySubmissiveSwitch,
Thank you so much for your reply! I, too, hope people get something out of your comment. 🙂