When Your Kinks Don’t Match: The Smart Way to Compromise in Kinky Relationships
Most people think great kink happens with perfect matching fetishes. Spoiler: that’s fantasy. Real kink is about getting creative when your…
Guacamole, Glockenspiel, Gremlin – Shit, what was my safeword again?
Having a safeword, and the trust that goes with it is what allows us both to push our limits a little. I know that if something is going too…
Dominate Me, Control Me, Force Me, Fulfill MY Fantasy
Most of the time Male Chastity, Female domination, BDSM and things like that are often fantasized about by a man. It’s those fantasies…
Flights, Feelings and Finding Balance
I’m sitting on a plane right now, heading to Chicago for work. As usual, for my work trips, we try to plan them so John and I can spend Friday…
Mail Chastity: How to Become A Good Keyholder
I received a message from another keyholder on chastityforums.com. She is a bit new to all this, in general, and is struggling with how to be…
Product Review: Gillette Venus Silk Expert IPL
Very soon after I started wearing a chastity cage, ML and I made the decision to try shaving my cock and balls. At first it was a comfort…
Nipple Q’s
It’s been about two weeks since I got my nipples pierced, and lots of people have been asking the usual questions that come along with…
Mail Chastity: Punishment
D & J are a couple that read our blog. They recently sent an email asking for help with appropriate punishment. I’m extremely lucky…
Mail Chastity: How to be a Good Submissive
Not too long ago I got asked this question and while I get asked questions frequently, I wanted to put this particular question in its own…
Mail Chastity: Chastity Changes
After my most recent post, many people commented and had questions about my experience. One of our Twitter followers had an interesting…