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Dented Cock and a Pleased Pussy

Posted by Lady M on March 7, 2015
Posted in: Chastity Device, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Sex, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , . 3 comments

Wow, did I ever end up horny the other night. Cagedmonkey and I were making out on the couch and I even had an orgasm rubbing myself on his lap. It all just got me going so much that I just needed to feel him. I pulled him on top of me and made him simulate making love with me. God, just being with him in that position, in that way, makes me bonkers. At that moment, period or not I told him I needed him. I needed him to get that cage off and to make love to me. I needed to feel his thickness inside of me. I needed to feel my pussy clamp down on him as I cum on his cock.

He was so hard in his cage, pressing hard against the bars, squeezing out. He told me he had no idea how he was getting out and I told him I didn’t care, I wanted him out and I wanted him out right then. He was just going to have to yank it off. He managed to pop the cage off and the dents in his shaft were outstanding. They looked similar to this:

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He even managed to bend himself out of the ring too. And I just grabbed ahold of him and guided his cock into my pussy, I barely waited for him to kneel down between my legs. I really did just need to feel him and cum on him. It wasn’t even so much about feeling him thrust as it was him filling me up so my muscles could grip and squeeze his shaft as I came. It’s just such a wonderful feeling to feel myself clench around him.

I had several super hard amazing orgasms. My whole body tightening, shaking and quivering with each one. Sometimes I really wish I was able to be as loud as I need to be, to scream out “oh myfucking God” while cumming. I just can’t with kids down the hall sleeping in their bedrooms. Even though I couldn’t be as loud as I want I still cum so fucking hard. So hard, in fact, that when I stood up the other night I almost fell over and passed out. My brain was ridiculously fried. I think I had cum so hard and held my breath so long from holding in the screams that I lost some oxygen to my brain. I felt very dizzy, woozy and lost my balance and almost fell. Luckily cagedmonkey was there to give a hand but, wow, was it crazy to feel so out of control of myself after cumming like that. Especially when hubby is denied and all my hard cumming does is frustrate him more and more everyday. Making me cum is one of the biggest teases for him. He is giving me the one thing he is so desperate to have. To me, there really is nothing better than my hair trigger horny man.

Meeting a Mistress

Posted by Lady M on March 6, 2015
Posted in: Marriage. Tagged: , , . 6 comments

Haha ok yeah yeah, I kinda teased you a bit with that title. You probably thought I was going to talk all about how to go about meeting yourself a mistress… well not in this post, but maybe another time! Really, WE are the ones meeting a mistress… a specific, wonderful, delicious, yummy, gorgeous mistress and her slave!

Last year, Mistress Marie and I started chatting and found out we lived rather close to one another – especially when it comes to the big ol’ world wide web. We have also learned in that time that we have loads in common and that we get along particularly well. So she and I talked about the four of us meeting in person. I’m so excited to say that time is here! I’m super duper mega (as I said on their blog) excited to be meeting Mistress Marie and her Slave David!

In a couple of weeks, they will be traveling here for the night. They’ve booked the executive suite at a local hotel and we will be enjoying a meal, wonderful friendship and who knows what else. I do know that this room they’ve booked has this huge “board room” style table in it… to eat on, of course… or maybe tie the boys to… or maybe bend them over it… or… maybe just to eat on! 🙂 haha hey, we’re all bringing some toys just in case.

Whatever happens, vanilla or otherwise, I feel we are blessed to have made such wonderful friends that we can get together with and enjoy time with. I love that there are no expectations and what happens will happen. I do know we plan to have wine (we even live the same wine!)… that could just be the catalyst needed to create a very kinky situation. 🙂 Though, I’m happy with us sitting and talking openly and freely about every aspect of our lives and not having to hide any part of who we are! 🙂 oh, and, I really really really can’t wait to hug Marie (and I might sneak in a boobie squeeze cause… well, I like boobies!)!

Looking forward to this and hopefully many more get together with them!

My Thoughts on this Whole Discipline Thing

Posted by Lady M on March 5, 2015
Posted in: D/s, Discipline, Male Chastity. Tagged: , , . 8 comments

You know, I always say how I really can’t stand punishments and discipline. I say how I’d rather just have someone fucking behave themselves and do as they say they are going to do. It just makes things that much easier.

Anyway… It’s been a few days now that cagedmonkey has had to deal with my punishment from his falling asleep on me the other day. It’s also been a few days that *I’ve* had to deal with it. Quite frankly, in bored to bits with this shit already. I really truly need to come up with much more acute, direct, strong corrections that do not last more than a day. I’m so bored with having to decide which plug to stuff his ass with or having to stuff whatever I want in him to punish him. It’s just really no fun anymore. It was sure fun to think about when coming up with the idea but it has quickly lost its power.

So, this might be some big “no, no” in the D/s world but fuck that, I’m in charge and if I say I’m done with a punishment (or part of it as it is) then so be it. Am I being soft? No, I don’t think so, because it’s not like he’s whining and begging me to not punish him anymore. It’s my choice to do this. So I’ve decided that I’m letting go of the whole butt plug and ass violating thing. He will, however, continue to be in his cage for as long as I want without a break and continue wearing his collar every night.

I really am going to have to come up with some fantastic, though short, corrections instead of these long intense ones… that ultimately become too fucking long, boring and annoying to me.

With that said… I’m off to shop for a new paddle, any suggestions?

A Little Fun in the Morning

Posted by Lady M on March 5, 2015
Posted in: Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , . 3 comments

I thought I’d post a couple pictures here on the blog this morning since, if you don’t follow us on Twitter, you don’t really get to see the “Good morning” pictures I send out.

I had a little fun this morning teasing cagedmonkey and making him take these pictures. I thought you all might appreciate them, especially those Male Dom & Switchy types out there! Enjoy!

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Fun with nipple clamps – boy they pinch and wearing them only reminds me I am NOT into pain!

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Now I’m off to smother cagedmonkey with these big beauties as a fun way to interrupt his sleep! I hope you all have a wonderful day! 🙂

Time for Discipline – How I’m Punishing the Monkey

Posted by Lady M on March 4, 2015
Posted in: Discipline, Male Chastity. Tagged: , , . 3 comments

Two nights a week is all we get. Two nights to be with each other, to sleep in the same bed, to be naked together. That’s it, two nights a week.

Sunday night after a long day, cagedmonkey and I watched a couple shows and spent a little bit of teasy, sexy time together but nothing too intense. We certainly did enjoy it and he even got half of a ruined orgasm. However, we did end up calling it an early night and went to bed fairly early. We got up on Monday and I knew I wanted to play so I started to tease and prepare cagedmonkey right away. Monday night being the second of our two nights together, I knew if we didn’t get play in we’d be waiting an entire week again.

Monday was a bit of a lazy day, I’d say. Cagedmonkey had an appointment in the morning but after that we just hung out at home being lazy. After dinner we were watching tv with the kids and right about 7pm when we started the whole “bedtime routine” for the kids which is when hubby started to snooze on the couch. I got the kids all situated and in bed and came back to the living room to cagedmonkey fully snoring on the couch. I get it, he gets tired when he switches his sleeping schedule. So I figured a little nap was no big deal and I left him snoozing there. About an hour later I nudged him and he managed to mumble out in a half asleep voice that he just wanted to sleep a little while longer.

That’s right about the time I start to feel like waking up and playing is a bother to him so I guess I’ll just leave him alone. I guess I kind of felt like if he wanted to play he’d be more energetic about it. He’d wake up and be excited and happy that it was our night to play. I guess I felt like there should be some eagerness to be with me but instead his tiredness won over and it was stronger than me. I gave up on the idea of waking him to play. I ALMOST left him there sleeping on the couch when I went to bed but I couldn’t bear not feeling his gorgeous sexy naked body next to mine. It’s two nights a week I get to feel that so I wasn’t about to punish myself by leaving him there on the couch… selfish? Sure, maybe, but I wanted to feel his body against mine and I get what I want.

Needless to say, I was very disappointed that we didn’t get our playtime in. I really was very horny and loving his sexy ass and looking forward to using my new harness. After getting my hopes up and then feeling the disappointment I very much lost my oomph, lost my horny, my desire to do naughty things to him. I felt that a punishment was in order so that he could “make it up to me.” Don’t get me wrong, I still want my playtime and hopefully I’ll be back in the mood for it next weekend.

So the rest of the week cagedmonkey will be living out his punishment for me. Here is what his week looks like:
1. He will be locked in his caged 24/7 (not even out to shave) for at least a week but for as long as I want till I think he deserves to feel me again.

2. He will be plugged with whichever plug I choose at all times, asleep and awake (when not at work).

3. His asshole belongs to me (even though it already does) and I may use it whenever and however I choose – even if he’s in the nudge of sleeping and I want to give him a “rude awakening.” He can not complain one bit.

4. He will be locked in his steel collar every night from 7:30pm until he leaves for work.

It also helps that he has apologized a couple times, told me he feels bad about falling asleep on me, has reassured me that he loves that I control him and he even brought me some flowers this morning when he got home from work. I’ll say he’s doing a good job working hard at making it up to me. 🙂 I look forward to what else he’s going to do to help me get my horny back.
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Pegging Preparations

Posted by cagedmonkey on March 2, 2015
Posted in: Anal, FemDom, Sex. Tagged: , , , , , . 10 comments

My Lady just instructed me to put in the small butt plug – just in case she she decides to peg my ass later tonight, she wants me to be ready. 🙂

The small butt plug isn’t all that uncomfortable anymore. I’ve gotten used to the size of it, although the stimulation on my prostate is quite intense.. especially after a month without release. It’s a different experience without the cage on, as my cock tends to stay at least half hard with the constant anal stimulation.

The large butt plug (which ML may have me use later, if she desires) is a different story. The huge head on it really stretches me out and I really have to take it slow to be able to insert it. Once it’s in, it takes a moment or two to adjust to being filled up so much inside. After that, it’s almost more of a pain the remove it than to keep it in (literally).

ML hasn’t pegged me in a while, but she  has wanted to ever since the new steel collar arrived. She has already used the collar on me as a way to control me, grabbing it and using it to pull me in for a kiss or a pussy lick, etc. But she hasn’t used it as a “pegging handle” yet. I’m wondering if tonight is the night.