Anticipating Our First Playdate with a New Play Partner: Deep Tease, Denial & Edge
With the weekend almost here, we’re meeting our new play partner for the first time. The chat energy has been electric while he’s deep in…
Who Makes the First Move in a Threesome? Our Real Experience
Who makes the first move when things turn steamy in a threesome? We reveal the truth from our real experiences, whether it’s spontaneous…
Why I Get Soaked Just Thinking About Teasing and Denying My Husband’s Orgasms (And Why Men Never Understand How Much We Crave It)
Why I get ridiculously turned on by teasing and denying my husband’s orgasms - the real reasons this woman craves control, how it deepens our…
Is It Still Chastity If There’s No Cage?
Wondering if chastity without a cage is ‘real’ chastity? Exploring orgasm denial, mental control, and whether hardware is required.
Real “Throuple’s” Story: Our Nervous but Hot First BDSM Event at a Sex Club PT 1
Read our honest, steamy account of our first time in the "sex area" at a BDSM sex club as a throuple - voyeurism, public teasing, edging, and more.
When the Disconnect Hits
I've been feeling a little bit disconnected from my kinky side of things lately.
Can Tease and Orgasm Denial Deepen Intimacy?
Exploring tease and orgasm denial within ethical non monogamy, power exchange, and female led relationships. A personal look at anticipation,…
Barriers
We don’t always get what we feel we need – a statement that rings true not only with chastity & denial, but also life in…
The Power of withholding: What He Gets & What He Doesn’t
I’ve been thinking a lot, recently, about what it means to truly control pleasure, not necessarily by force, but by intention. By choosing…
From One Focus to Another
Before I get too deep into my post… Please note the name in the author line! With all of the changes on the blog nowadays, I figured I…