Anticipating Our First Playdate with a New Play Partner: Deep Tease, Denial & Edge
With the weekend almost here, we’re meeting our new play partner for the first time. The chat energy has been electric while he’s deep in…
Why I Get Soaked Just Thinking About Teasing and Denying My Husband’s Orgasms (And Why Men Never Understand How Much We Crave It)
Why I get ridiculously turned on by teasing and denying my husband’s orgasms - the real reasons this woman craves control, how it deepens our…
Is It Still Chastity If There’s No Cage?
Wondering if chastity without a cage is ‘real’ chastity? Exploring orgasm denial, mental control, and whether hardware is required.
When the Disconnect Hits
I've been feeling a little bit disconnected from my kinky side of things lately.
Can Tease and Orgasm Denial Deepen Intimacy?
Exploring tease and orgasm denial within ethical non monogamy, power exchange, and female led relationships. A personal look at anticipation,…
Why “Never” Becomes “Maybe” in BDSM: Understanding Hard Limits
Recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about hard limits in BDSM and how they can change over time and whether I like that or not. When we started…
Barriers
We don’t always get what we feel we need – a statement that rings true not only with chastity & denial, but also life in…
Coffee Talk – I would suck that dick
As I was enjoying my coffee this morning, I was chatting with Michele like we do every morning… I was up earlier than she was (I live in an…
The Power of withholding: What He Gets & What He Doesn’t
I’ve been thinking a lot, recently, about what it means to truly control pleasure, not necessarily by force, but by intention. By choosing…
From One Focus to Another
Before I get too deep into my post… Please note the name in the author line! With all of the changes on the blog nowadays, I figured I…