I Bought the Edge-O-Matic 3000 to Prove My Husband Wrong…
I figured it was just another overpriced gadget that would collect dust after a week. But Jon kept bringing it up… so one day I decided to…
Weekend Getaway with My Boyfriend While Hubby Stayed Home
This weekend John took me to Austin to see Annie and treated me to an incredible Italian dinner. But Sunday morning got sexy - John between my…
My Birthday Surprise! Maus-Tec Edge-o-Matic 3000: Set Up and Tips
The Edge-o-Matic detects and prevents orgasms by the involuntary tightening of the pelvic floor muscles that squeeze during orgasm.
Coffee Talk: Happy Birthday, Jon
I was sitting here enjoying my coffee this morning and thinking to myself… This year I’m really looking forward to lots more teasing and…
Anticipating Our First Playdate with a New Play Partner: Deep Tease, Denial & Edge
With the weekend almost here, we’re meeting our new play partner for the first time. The chat energy has been electric while he’s deep in…
Why I Get Soaked Just Thinking About Teasing and Denying My Husband’s Orgasms (And Why Men Never Understand How Much We Crave It)
Why I get ridiculously turned on by teasing and denying my husband’s orgasms - the real reasons this woman craves control, how it deepens our…
Is It Still Chastity If There’s No Cage?
Wondering if chastity without a cage is ‘real’ chastity? Exploring orgasm denial, mental control, and whether hardware is required.
When the Disconnect Hits
I've been feeling a little bit disconnected from my kinky side of things lately.
Can Tease and Orgasm Denial Deepen Intimacy?
Exploring tease and orgasm denial within ethical non monogamy, power exchange, and female led relationships. A personal look at anticipation,…
Why “Never” Becomes “Maybe” in BDSM: Understanding Hard Limits
Recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about hard limits in BDSM and how they can change over time and whether I like that or not. When we started…