Communication in Chastity (or any Relationship!)
Communication needs to be the heart of every relationship. No one can read anyone’s mind and it’s important to know and understand…
Am I a Sadist?
Sadist (sey-dist): noun 1. a person who… receives sexual gratification from causing pain and degradation to another. 2. a person who…
I Can’t Take it Being Locked in Chastity 24/7
I couldn’t do it! I was trying to keep cagedmonkey locked 24/7 for a month. A month with no erections, no touching his penis, not…
Chastity Soundtrack
Of course cagedmonkey and I are driving back home from my father’s Memorial and what song comes on the radio? “You Can’t…
How Did I Get to Be So Flirty? Farewell to my Father
Growing up, I’ve never wondered where I got my flirty, sexual nature. I always knew it was something I got from my father. My parents…
Three Days to Tease, Please & Deny pt 1
Today was just the beginning of three days with the kids at day camp. Hopefully you’ve read what happened first thing this morning, if…
Breakfast in Bed with a Side of Orgasm
It’s Spring/Easter break around here so the public schools are off for the week. What that means is, cagedmonkey and I decided to find…
Books I Would Recommend to Keyholders & Couples in Chastity
If you’ve been reading our blog you’re already familiar with the fact that I am a huge researcher. When I’m interested in…
From the Archives: Drunk Chastity Ramblings
This isn’t necessarily archives because it’s from last night but it’s awesome! Cagedmonkey and I have a notebook that we use…
Cheating Chastity
I was recently asked “how would a guy go about cheating while in chastity?” I actually hesitated, did I want to give up this…