Mail Chastity: Punishment
D & J are a couple that read our blog. They recently sent an email asking for help with appropriate punishment. I’m extremely lucky…
Mail Chastity: How to be a Good Submissive
Not too long ago I got asked this question and while I get asked questions frequently, I wanted to put this particular question in its own…
Mail Chastity: Chastity Changes
After my most recent post, many people commented and had questions about my experience. One of our Twitter followers had an interesting…
Mail Chastity: Fit & Feel
Girltoy wrote us the following email: On the photos I have seen, cagemonkey is wearing the same cage as I do. Mine fits perfectly and it feels…
How Can I Find Other Kinky People, Too?
We’ve written before about how we live a certain lifestyle and it’s not always easy meeting other people who are like minded. I…
Mail Chastity: Base Rings
St writes: I read a 3 year old post “The Ring’s the Thing”… and you mentioned that you switched back to the regular ring, because the…
How Does a Cock Cage Feel?
I get asked this a lot: what does it feel like to wear a chastity device? Does it always feel weird? Does it ever get comfortable? How is it…
Male Chastity – Lock Him Up and Throw Away the Key
Ugh… NO!!! I recently got, yet another, email about locking up a guy. I get them pretty often but just about every time I get one, I…
How to Survive a Strong-Willed Submissive
I talk with a lot of submissive guys and girls, and they contact to me for a variety of reasons. I enjoy each and every one of them, but if…
Working Out
With a new year comes new year’s resolutions… although I really don’t believe in the concept. Why do you have to wait until…