Things are in an interesting place in the MinaC household. On the one hand, both ML and I are anticipating another try for a full year of orgasm denial – while I know I will eventually be horribly desperate to cum by the end of it, we both miss the intensity and the crazy horniness that it brings to both of us. My Lady is particularly excited about incorporating more ruined orgasms into the mix, which will hopefully somewhat fulfill her desire to see me cum without giving me the pleasure of a full orgasm. It’ll also most likely drive my frustration even stronger (another positive in ML’s eyes).
On the other hand, certain “situations” have developed that have put some limits on my ability to wear my chastity cage, specifically overnight. I’ve been experiencing some pretty severe back pain over the past few months, which was confirmed as a herniated disc by MRI.
Wearing the cage at night often leads to middle-of-the-night erections that cause such bad pain that I can’t sleep. Now, before y’all start in with the “OMG chastity caused your herniated disc!” BS —
— I’m almost 100% sure I injured it during our recent move. Just because it hurts now because of it, doesn’t mean it originally caused it. If you break your ankle skiing, it’s gonna hurt if you walk on it; you didn’t break your ankle by walking on it.
It’s kind of a bummer to not be able to wear the cage indefinitely at this time; I feel like I’m taking away ML’s choice in how long I wear the cage (to be fair, it was ML’s decision to allow me to sleep cageless for now). I would really like to wear the cage for days or even weeks at a time if she desires – my desperation for just a simple erection can get very intense – but it’s just not doable right now.
The weird thing is that when I get sexually aroused in the cage, it doesn’t lead to the pain that the mid-sleep ones do. It’s almost as if it’s a different type of erection that occurs. This is good – at least My Lady gets to see my cock struggling in its cage while she teases me. That’s one of her favorite things about keeping me in chastity!
So, depending on how we decide to address my back pain issue (surgery is a definite possibility in the near future), things may get better quickly or maybe not-so-quickly. I’m just hoping for some improvement in the future. I want ML to be able to keep me in the cage for as long as she wants, not as long as I can manage.
Hi CM,
Oh that is a bummer! A herniated disc is no fun, I know, I had two of them about 7 years ago that I have since been able to manage and maintain (in fact 2019 was my best back year since then) through a daily regimen of morning back exercises – pilates based. i hope you do manage to get it sorte as it is incrediblly debilitating, At its worst I was unable to walk for weeks. I suspect there is not ‘one thing’ that has caused it but rather it has built-up over years of bad posture etc. I’d really recommend giving the exrcises a concerted try and leaving surgery as a last resort if at all possible.
Anyway, i really just wanted to say i hope you recover quickly as i know how horrible herniated discs can be.
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too bad your back is slowing you down. I was really hoping you could stay locked up for year with no cumming at all.
Well, locked up for a year straight is already unrealistic… A full year without orgasm is still happening, though. 🙂
You know why this is happening is because God working through your wife is trying to take away your manhood and when this is over your desire to have an orgasm will be completely gone. You will become as though you were castrated and be act like a woman in a man’s body. Just want you to know the outcome of your choice to do this. I’m telling you the truth… You might think you do it to please your wife but the reality is it is done to take away your manhood and to feminize you. The truth is God is the same, like a woman who is loving and caring and your orgasm desire and ur penis will mean no importance to you. Sex desire will be gone and all u will want to be towards women will be with non-sexual desire and to love them without a desire to be in them with your penis. A man converted to sissy, u will have no masculinity and be completely feminine. I want you to know the truth. From a spiritualist who was a practicing monk. This is the hidden truth and purpose of chastity, the road to enlightenment. Choose wisely!
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