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From One Focus to Another

Posted by JonMustWait on January 16, 2026
Posted in: Male Chastity, Tease/Orgasm Denial. Tagged: , , , , , , . 5 comments

Before I get too deep into my post…

Please note the name in the author line! With all of the changes on the blog nowadays, I figured I would throw one more at you: me, cagedmokey, SHALL BE HENFORTH KNOWN AS…

JonMustWait 🙂

Why, you ask? Well, you’re in luck because I just happened to be writing a post about that very subject!

With the… ahem… “expansion” of our kinky lives over the past little while, Michele has been able to fulfill her desires in different ways involving both John and me. John’s focus has been more about chastity (along with some other things we will get to, in good time), while my focus has shifted more towards tease and denial. What this means for me is that my cock spends a lot less time being caged…

And a lot more time being endlessly edged over and over to new and deeper depths of frustration.

And I’m not complaining! Well, I’m not complaining much… except for when I’m desperate for an orgasm, and Michele tells me no while at the same time not letting my stop having sex with her. To be honest, while I enjoyed the chastity components of our lifestyle, I always got more enjoyment and excitement out of the orgasm denial aspect.

Now, this isn’t to say that I won’t be wearing the cage anymore. In fact, there may be a new cage to show off in the near future 😉 All this means is that my focus is going to be more on denial and control… of my orgasms yes, but also a lot more than that. You’ll still hear about how Michele delights in denying me, telling me no, and telling me I need to wait for what I’m so incredibly desperate for.

A Look Ahead

Posted by JonMustWait on December 22, 2019
Posted in: Male Chastity. Tagged: , , , , , , .

My last denial stint was a little unexpected, both in its beginning and its length. ML was letting me cum on a fairly regular basis, which for me meant that I had two or three orgasms in the same week. We were moving into our new house, and I figured we would be doing the “let’s fuck in the different rooms of the house to celebrate” thing. I was only partially right, though – while we did have sex in different areas of the house, I only got to cum once in the new house.

That was at the beginning of September. I honestly wasn’t ready for a 3-month-plus denial, but My Lady doesn’t have an obligation to warn me ahead of time when I won’t be cumming for a while. It’s nice to know (so I can savor my last orgasm as much as possible), but not necessary.

My last orgasm was about a week or so ago, and I have a feeling it was sort of unplanned from ML’s standpoint. We had just woken up after sleeping in a little bit on the weekend. I woke up feeling a little horny and a teeny bit slutty, so while ML was getting dressed I kneeled on the bed in front of her and started playing with my nipple piercings.

I must have looked pretty damn good, because ML came over and began to stroke my cock – ML had allowed me to sleep unlocked the night before. She played with my cock as I teased my nipples. I begged her to let me cum; to my surprise, she said yes! It only took a few more strokes for me to cum all over the bed sheets. Only moments later, ML was walking out of the room, smiling over her shoulder as she told me to get the bed sheets in the laundry.

So what’s next?

Well, that’s honestly a tough question to answer. ML and I have both expressed a desire to try for another full year of denial… I know, why do I put myself through this? As far as chastity goes, we should like to do some more longer lock-ups as well. One thing that is making hard to think about things in the near future is that I may have some health-related situations coming up that might get in the way of any horny play.

Don’t get all worried about me: this isn’t like the last time I got everyone panicked, but it’s still something that will require us to think about how we will handle our chastity and orgasm denial during it. I do know that if we need to take a break, it’ll only be temporary; we have way too much fun with all of this to stop any time soon… or at all!

The Planning Stages

Posted by JonMustWait on May 11, 2019
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ML and I have been somewhat chill with our kinkiness lately. This has been due to a number of factors:

1) both of us have been very busy at work,

2) it’s hard to find alone adult time now that the kids are getting older (and staying up later), and

3) we’ve been spending a lot of time binge watching Game of Thrones.

(Tangent alert: seriously, we only started watching GoT a couple of weeks ago, and we are frantically trying to get caught up before the series finale. We are only up to the end of season 5, so I doubt we will make it…)

Although the kinkiness may be at a low, we are still enjoying our awesome fucking sex; I’ve been enjoying it very much so, as My Lady has allowed me to cum quite a few times over the past month. I guess I’m doing a good job when she tells me not to stop. 🙂

With that said, I have been feeling the desire to get a little more focused on the chastity/orgasm denial dimension of our sex life. This evening, I sneaky-texted ML to see what her thoughts on the subject were:

“Later” is still later, as the kids are still up and around… when is bedtime again?

I wonder if she’s planning a long denial period, increased chastity, perhaps both… or maybe something even more creative – I can never be sure exactly what is going on in that brain of hers, but that sure makes things exciting!

*Knock Knock* Are You In There?

Posted by JonMustWait on March 4, 2019
Posted in: Male Chastity. Tagged: , , , , , , , . 5 comments

It’s been a week since ML locked my penis in the Revenge, hiding it away from being touched or even seen in any meaningful capacity. Although I’m not 100% on this, I’m pretty sure that this is the longest I’ve been locked 24/7 in the Revenge – we have tried before, but hygiene issues have led to me being let out at smaller intervals. This time, though, I’m being extremely diligent about keeping the inside of the cage clean as much as possible; I’m scrubbing the inside as best as I can each day with soap and water (and making myself extremely horny in the process).

My penis is in there, somewhere… I assume…

Things have been… okay, I’d say. I mean, it should go without saying that I’m extremely desperate for some sort of sexual attention…. preferably with my unlocked penis, but I’ll take anything right now. It’s not about me, though, it’s about My Lady’s satisfaction… and she seems more than satisfied at this point in time.

Take last night for example: after a little bit of kissing in bed, ML directed me to fuck her pussy… only with the Revenge still on. I will say that fucking ML with the Revenge on is different from using the Jailbird. With the JB, I can feel her wet, warm pussy all over my cock but I can’t get hard to fully enjoy it. When the Revenge is involved, it’s a different kind of frustration because I can’t feel anything at all except the steel around me. I still get hard in the cage when I see how much ML is enjoying herself, but I don’t get any of the other great feelings from being inside her.

After a little bit of cage fucking, ML needed to cum, so she used the wand in combination of my fingers to get a nice good orgasm or two. Before we went to sleep, though, she made sure to tell me that the reason she got so turned on and needed to cum was because she kept reminding herself that I couldn’t feel anything while I was fucking her. Frustration for me equals satisfaction for her.

I am hoping that she soon realizes that I can’t feasibly stay as long in the Revenge as I would in the Jailbird (if she thinks I’m making it three weeks straight in this thing, she’s nuts). Even if she lets me out, I won’t be able to touch or see my cock, as we are planning on doing a “no look, no touch” game for the next little while. I just wonder when the first time we get to try it out will be. For now, I am left wondering when ML will decide to take my cock out of this cage… and how she plans to tease and torment it when she does.

Say YES to Ejaculation!

Posted by JonMustWait on January 13, 2019
Posted in: Male Chastity. Tagged: , , , , . 2 comments

ML and I had some garden variety quickie sex last night – which is to say that we had some pretty damn good quickie sex last night… hell, all of our sex is good, tbh. Anyway, ML doesn’t have me denied at the moment, so she allowed me to cum at the end when I was ready.

I had a nice good cum, and this time I pulled out to cum on ML’s tummy… and I actually did cum on her tummy!

I’m pretty sure I’ve written about this (I searched to put in a link, but couldn’t find it), but for a refresher: I haven’t been cumming a lot for the past few years. I’m talking volume-wise, not frequency-wise… obviously I haven’t been cumming as much frequency-wise, thanks to ML’s desires. But when ML does let me cum, I don’t cum a lot.

I’ve had some people suggest that it’s the orgasm denial that’s to blame, but I don’t think that’s it – when we first started playing with chastity and orgasm denial, I was still cumming a respectable amount. Another reader said that maybe it’s my vasectomy that has lowered my cum volume, but I also disagree for a similar reason – I was cumming normal amounts right after my vasectomy, as well.

After looking into “retrograde ejaculation” (the official term for “my dick doesn’t shoot cum”), I think the culprit is my high blood pressure meds which I started a few years ago.

Anyways… back to my original reason for posting.

It was really nice to actually see my load of cum on my wife’s tummy. I kinda wish I had taken a picture, just for posterity. I’ll have to do that next time. Hopefully, ML will keep my non-denial time going just a little bit longer. 🙂

My Christmas Present, Came Early

Posted by JonMustWait on December 27, 2018
Posted in: Tease/Orgasm Denial. Tagged: , , , , , , , . 6 comments

Please note the comma in the title. 😉

Yes, ladies and gentlemen – after over 6 months of waiting, I finally got my orgasm! We didn’t do any crazy kinky scene or anything, but it was very much enjoyable for both of us.

My Lady and I had actually spent almost an entire week away from each other due to a medical procedure for a family member – it wasn’t an emergency or anything, but it really sucked to be separated from each other for that long. We were a little preoccupied during the week (hence the low amount of posts/tweets recently), but we were still able to stay somewhat connected via phone and texts.

After the week, we were seriously craving some together time, so ML and I wasted no time in having some “reconnectey” sex. It was REALLY good, and so when I asked ML if I could keep going and cum, she said yes.

So I did. 🙂

Similar to as I’ve described before, my first orgasm in 6 months wasn’t mind blowing or totally awesome – usually the soul crushing amazing cums happen later – but it certainly was nice and felt really good. But the funny part was what happened after.

I could tell ML really enjoyed feeling me cum inside her, and her hands started rubbing all over my body. After a few moments, her fingers find my nipples and began tickling them. Maybe it was all of the good vibe hormones in my brain overflowing from my orgasm and the nipple stimulation combined, but I started giggling and could not stop.

ML wouldn’t stop messing with my nipples, either, so I just kept laughing until both of us were going crazy! So there we are: my cock still inside of ML, having just cum inside her, and we are both laughing hysterically.

(Which, by the way, makes her pussy squeeze on me pretty damn good!)

The funny thing is that the laughing fit afterwards felt better than the orgasm itself: cumming was a great physical treat, but the laughing was such a deep tension release on a sensual/emotional level. The fact that ML was laughing right along with me made it all the more better. THIS is the reason why I enjoy the teasing and orgasm denial so much: not the orgasm itself at the end of it specifically, but the entire experience itself from beginning to end and in between. It makes even the weirdest things an intensely pleasurable experience.

Edging Tools

Posted by JonMustWait on December 8, 2018
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Here’s something you may not know: ML really enjoys teasing my cock.

Okay, fine, maybe that’s not a news flash.

She really does love it, though. She is a natural cock tease, and has been for pretty much her entire life. I think her absolute favorite thing in the world is to edge me – leaving me so close to orgasm and desperate to cum, but not letting me. She does it in so many ways, it’s hard to tell which is her favorite!

ML has been having me edge myself for her a lot more lately, which is a torture in itself. I so badly want to cum, yet I have to hold back and follow her instructions. If it were up to me, I’d have cum lots of times by now, but instead I’m just more and more frustrated. My Lady likes having me edge with her wand, which is sort of like a tiny taunt: the toy she uses to give herself nice, deep, intense orgasms is the same toy that is bringing me to the edge and leaving me there.

I do think that ML prefers a more “hands on” approach, though. 😉

ML’s touch on my cock feels absolutely incredible – it feels even better than when I touch it myself! She knows how to stroke and tease me to bring me right to the edge quickly. She can also sense the perfect moment to stop, leaving me throbbing and desperate.

But I think ML’s favorite way to edge my cock is with her pussy. The look on her face is amazing as I torture myself with her wet pussy, stroking into her slowly as I push myself closer to orgasm. She smiles and giggles as I moan, struggling to control myself. Usually I have to stop when she starts teasing my nipples, but she doesn’t always let it end that easily – sometimes she’ll make herself cum, her pussy squeezing and pulsing around my edged cock.

With all of these different skills at her disposal, My Lady certainly keeps me on my toes!

Well, You Don’t See That Everyday…

Posted by JonMustWait on November 24, 2017
Posted in: Male Chastity. Tagged: , , , . 5 comments

At least, if you’re me, you don’t!
Yes, that is my hard cock, finally released after over five weeks of 24/7 chastity; the exact number was 39 days – we didn’t quite make it to Thanksgiving, but it was close enough!

ML was nice enough to let me take the cage off when I got home from work on Tuesday, and I jumped in the shower right away to make sure I was scrubbed nice and clean. Even though the Jailbird is an open style cage, I still can’t get everything down there scrubbed good, so it felt nice to be able to do that. Of course, it felt nice to be able to touch myself in any capacity down there! I was a good boy, however, and did not play with myself in the shower – business only! Sex would unfortunately have to wait until later in the day…

The sex felt incredible after so long of not feeling ML’s pussy on my cock, it was truly wonderful. Thankfully, ML decided to be VERY generous and allow me to cum inside her as well! Good thing, since it didn’t take very long for me to reach orgasm. So I ended up with an extra holiday treat, and trust me when I say I GREATLY appreciated it. 🙂

Taking stock of the damage, my cock fared pretty well for being locked up for almost a month and a half – there are a few minor skin irritations here and there, but nothing too troubling. It’s not that much different from what I experienced the last time I was locked up for a long time, which was only three weeks… if anything, the irritations are less severe from the last time. Perhaps my cock is getting used to this type of treatment, which I don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing!

Locked Away Again

Posted by JonMustWait on June 7, 2017
Posted in: Male Chastity. Tagged: , , , , , , , . 1 comment

My Lady gave me a wonderful birthday present this weekend – I fucked her nice and hard from behind and was allowed to cum deep inside her pussy. It was a really great orgasm and I made sure to get as much pleasure out of it as I could by continuing to thrust into her as my cock throbbed and pulsed inside her. If anything, this was the opposite of a ruined orgasm; I made sure it was as full and total as it could be.  🙂

It’s a good thing I enjoyed it, because it’s going to be a little bit of time before I even get close to feeling that again. Unbeknownst to me, My Lady had plans to keep my cock locked up for a nice extended period after my birthday – she says I will be locked up tight 24/7 until July 4th, at least.

Going until July 4th means I will be locked up for a month straight: no erections, no feeling her pussy on my cock, definitely no orgasms… just a month of steel-encased frustrated flesh. A month is longer than we’ve ever done 24/7 chastity before –  we usually make it to about 3 weeks-ish before ML misses my hard cock too much to wait any longer, but there’s no reason to think that she will have any mercy on me this time around. She has already denied me the chance to groom once more before being locked away, so I had to do my best shaving around the cage in order to get the job done.

I think I did a pretty good job. 🙂

The thing that gets me a little worried, though, is the “at least” part at the end. Could ML be thinking about keeping me locked up in chastity for longer than a month? She actually does enjoy feeling me inside her… can she go for that long without? If yes, how long can she wait? I honestly have no idea. The only thing I’m certain of is that my cock will begin to ache long before I’m unlocked. It’s going to be so long in between erections for me, I wouldn’t be surprised if it genuinely hurts when the skin stretches out for the first time in who knows how long!

P.S. My situation could be much worse than what it is now, to be honest: ML and I were talking a few weeks ago about trying out the Revenge again, but we haven’t unpacked any of our toys yet. How bad would it be to be fully enclosed in steel for a month, or even longer than that???

He’s so Great at Sex with Me

Posted by Michele on May 1, 2017
Posted in: In Real Life. Tagged: , , , . 1 comment

So let me tell you a little story about how awesome my husband is when it comes to me. This story explains all of the reason I know we are the most perfect for each other. The other night we were having some pretty fantastic sex and I decided I wanted to feel my pussy squeeze down hard on CM’s big thick cock while I came. So he knelt there between my legs sliding himself in and out and, fuck, it felt so good. I started to rub my clit to help myself get to climax faster – although CM makes me cum way better. Anyway, I could feel the intensity grow as I got closer and closer to orgasm and all of a sudden CM pulled the pillow out from under my head as I hit that spot and my muscles tightened and I clenched everything. To some that might have been rude, but in that moment, he knew well enough to take the pillow away so I didn’t cause myself unnecessary pain. It was an incredibly awesome moment between us, he knows me so well and even in that moment of my orgasm he thought of me and how to make it even better for me. 

That’s what I love the most about having an attentive husband. He knows exactly how to please me and make me feel fantastic sexually and even emotionally. Do I think it’s the cage and denial that make him that way? No, because all of this has come after I let him cum a few times in the past few days. He’s like that because he loves me and genuinely cares about my pleasure.

Anyway, I know this isn’t a super long post but it’s one of those things I think people should know. Those little things you do in your relationship really do make her feel thought of, feel special, feel cared for and that her pleasure is important.