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Cocktease at Work

Posted by Lady M on October 17, 2015
Posted in: Ass Play, Bondage, D/s, FemDom, Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , . Leave a Comment

Yesterday, Cagedmonkey and I were chatting while he was at work and, of course, I was teasing him and getting him all kinds of excited and turned on. One of the things I love most is teasing him with pics and video while he is not with me – usually that means he’s at work – and getting him all tight in his cage. It’s such an incredible turn on for me to know that even being 40 miles apart I can still make his dick (attempt to be) hard and get him horny for me.

Yesterday was lots of fun as I sent him some hot pics and video of me all soapy in the shower. He really loved it. Just to share a little of what I sent him, I was sending him pictures like this, today:
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And this…
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Not only was I sending him pictures but we started talking about the things we were wanting. A little bit of fantasizing together, which is something I absolutely love about our communication. We both know it’s not our responsibility to force things to make fantasies happen but the fact that we talk about sex with each other gives us the opportunity to make those fantasies real if we want!

If you’ve followed along on our journey you we have the doggy style Stockade and recently got a new hood. Well, CM and I started talking about how much we miss the extreme side of bondage and having the time (and space!) to do it. I mentioned to him that I was wearing his pants yesterday without panties. I told him I was sure that they were going to smell like my pussy and how I was going to make him wear them when he got home, which I did. 🙂 That kinda kicked things into gear and we started talking about how wet my panties get and how hot it would be if I was to gag him with my potent panties and lock him in the new hood. To make things worse I could have him locked in the stockade, with the vibrating buttplug in, leaving it until his prostate milked all over the floor. We talked about how incredibly frustrating it would be if I were to remove the hood (while he thinks I’m giving him a break) and I cover his face with more of my juices by cumming on him and then putting the hood right back on and leaving him like that longer. Not knowing when it would truly end because I’d just tell him I didn’t think he’d been milked enough. Maybe he wasn’t empty so we had to keep going until I felt like he was done. We talked about adding white noise headphones to completely take away his senses… Except the ones being forced to smell and taste my pussy.

Shortly after, he told me about how he was getting tight in his cage and sent me a picture to prove it. Of course all the squeezing from the cage and the horny talk gave him some nice wet with precum underwear! Yuuummmmmmy!
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I really do love seeing that bulge and knowing that I’m the one that caused it. I really do get off on being a cocktease! 🙂

Ooh by Je Joue on Fab.com Review – Who Doesn’t Like Mix & Match!?

Posted by Lady M on October 14, 2015
Posted in: Oral Sex, Reviews, Sex. Tagged: , , , , , , , . Leave a Comment

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My Lady and I had the pleasure of trying out a new line of sex toys called “Ooh” by Je Joue, that recently launched on Fab.com. These are sex toys you can mix and match to create your own special collection of sexual enhancement. It’s pretty simple, you can purchase one of the “pleasure kits” which contain a motor and two shapes and then purchase others beyond that or purchase a motor and whatever shape or shapes look intriguing, provided they fit the motor. To be honest from the start, we weren’t sure what to expect mainly because ML has never really been a “vibrator girl.” The only toy that has managed to get her off with vibration was her wand, and that is one heavy duty summbitch. But, being the horny people we are, we couldn’t turn down some good old fashion sex toy fun!

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THE MOTOR

The heart of the line of toys is the interchangeable motor that comes with the accessories themselves; some of the toys could be used without the vibration feature, but whats the fun in that? ML and I had the opportunity to try out the large size motor, but they do have a mini version coming soon, as well. The motors are interchangeable with the products they fit. Each motor fits a few different products because they vary slightly in size. The “shapes” come listed with a number and each motor fits certain products. The large motor we received lists that it is compatible with the shape Numbers 1, 2, 3, 5 and 9. We were very impressed to find out that the motor is waterproof (*when the shape and motor are securely connected) and rechargeable. The motor comes with a micro USB charger and doesn’t take long to charge up to full power.

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The motor features 3 vibration speeds and 2 patterns, ranging from soft to strong straight vibration to pulse and wave patterns. The motor is pretty quiet and packs a strong punch for its size. The different vibration patterns are fun to play with as well. I will say the straight vibration seemed like it got a little uneven after a few moments of use. ML had some difficulty getting off with the patterned vibe – not sure if that’s just her, or if the patterns work better for male use. It was certainly effective on me!

THE ATTACHMENTS

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The attachments are REALLY well made. The are made from 100% body safe silicone which make them firm, but not too hard like your garden variety vibrator. The surface of the toys almost feels like it’s micro-textured, which gives it a unique feel against your skin; sensory play with these toys can be really amazing! I didn’t find any raised seams or anything that can scratch or cause injury; these toys are extremely well manufactured. It really is a smooth satiny silicone which is very soft to the touch. It’s incredibly comfortable in and on the body.

THE No. 1 PEBBLE

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The first toy ML and I tried out was the “Pebble,” a smaller sized vibrator that somewhat resembles the shape of a tongue. This toy is great for performing vibration-assisted oral sex, although ML does prefer the feeling of my tongue over the toy (I’ll take that as a compliment). ML also got creative with it and tucked it into her panties for a few minutes. It got her pussy pretty soaking wet, I must say!

We also used the toy on me, tucking it under my balls and caged cock. The vibration got to me pretty quick, and I was bulging in my cage in no time. When ML changed to the different pattern settings, I couldn’t help but squirm around. I can only imagine what being left to myself, having to endure that for hours would feel like. Such torture!

THE No. 2 CLASSIC

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This one was more up ML’s alley (pun intended).

The Classic vibrator, again, is exactly what it says it is – a classic-shaped vibrator. It has a slight curve to the tip, designed for g-spot simulation. It also slims slightly up the shaft before widening at the tip, aiding in deeper penetration…. I would guess, I don’t have a pussy or anything (Note: we didn’t try any anal play for either of us, although I’m sure the firmness and surface feel would do just fine for that).

The toy worked just great, ML was turned on and was really enjoying the feel and depth of the it. But, and this is another one of those “to be honest” things, ML had trouble fully getting off with it. Her issues with finding a truly good insertable that works for her is well documented, so I really don’t think that it’s a problem with the toy. I really just think that she prefers the feeling of my real, hard, flesh-and-blood, cock deep in her pussy (again, I will take that compliment and run with it).

THE ELECTRIC BLUE No. 3 COCK RING

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The name of this one pretty much says it all – it’s a blue cock ring. The material used to make this toy is stretchier than the others – I was afraid it wasn’t going to fit around my cock, but the ring actually had plenty of give. The ring stays snug and hugs pretty tight, but not so tight as to cause a safety issue. ML had fun putting it on my cock while I was still a little soft and watching my cock grow into the ring and stretch it. She also applied a little extra lube and stroked me with it a little bit. That, plus the vibration was a mind blower!

I think it goes without saying that there wasn’t much for ML to do with the Electric Blue, due to her significant lack of having a penis… but she sure did enjoy teasing and torturing me with it!

imageThank you to Fab.com for asking us to review these great products. After checking out this line we noticed some other great looking products by Je Joue that we might want to try!

Seriously, Does it Get Any Better Than This?

Posted by Lady M on October 12, 2015
Posted in: Chastity Device, KeyHolder, Male Chastity. Tagged: , , , , , . 6 comments

I just think this is the sexiest thing… My beautiful subby hubby locked up in a steel cock cage for me. It really doesn’t get any better than this.

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In other news… I’m extremely horny and I’m going to masturbate, probably multiple times today, because I am not locked in a cage and I can! 🙂

In da Hood

Posted by Lady M on October 9, 2015
Posted in: Bondage, D/s. Tagged: , , , . Leave a Comment

Awhile back I ordered a new leather locking bondage hood. It finally came in the mail yesterday. I’m not exactly sure how good it will be or how well we will like it. First of all, I’m not at all fond of the look of it. I love that it locks though, that part has potential! It also laces up and ties along the whole back of the skull so there really is no taking the hood off once it is tied, buckled and/or locked on.
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It was advertised as a “sensory deprivation” hood but sound is merely muffled and there is quite a bit of light let in. He did say the nose holes were good and he could breathe easily but that it gets awfully hot and sweaty inside the hood. He only tried it on for a few minutes and was already sweating. That isn’t the biggest deal because he gets sweaty lots of times when I have him in some kind of bondage, torturing him.

We do have a lot more to try out with this hood. It’s actual use might be better than our initial reaction but I did want to post about it anyway, so I didn’t forget! I’m sure I’ll have cagedmonkey post the use review of this hood since he will be the one in it while I tease and torture him. Plus, it’s been awhile since we’ve had new toys to play with!

Horny as Hell and the Ministers Wife

Posted by Lady M on October 7, 2015
Posted in: D/s, Female Led Relationship, FemDom, Male Chastity, Oral Sex, Orgasm Denial, Sex. Tagged: , , , , , , . 2 comments

The past few mornings, we wake up and cagedmonkey goes to the bathroom. When he comes out of the bathroom I have my gorgeous ass uncovered and presented for some proper tonguing. He immediately climbs back on the bed and dives right in tongue fucking my ass causing me to moan like crazy.

Last night I just happened to unlock him for some use – I really wanted to cum hard on his cock (and boy did I!) and have him clean up the sloppy, wet, gooey mess that my pussy became. I came quite a few times, good and hard on his cock that it ended up milking him a little. I wouldn’t call it a ruined orgasm really because there was no actual edge to orgasm, except mine. It was just a couple drips or so that came out.

So this morning, after giving my tight asshole a good lick, I told him to get his dick hard. He stroked his cock for me while he continued tonguing me and within seconds he was hard and ready to give me what I wanted. Usually in the morning cagedmonkey is not as sensitive as other times of the day and is a little slower to the edge… But not this morning! It was a matter of thrusts and he was “oh my God, I need to stop-ing.” It was amusing that he’s so incredibly hair trigger horny – which I love – that just having his face between my ass cheeks and his dick in my tight wet horny pussy brings him to the edge so quickly.

After that we went about our morning, getting him ready for work, breakfast, etc all before the kids woke up. Just before he left for work I had him get on his knees and lick my pussy. I still love having him drive to work tasting and smelling me. All that did was increase my already horny mood. I ended up sending him of to work and left myself extremely horny today. My pussy is soaking wet, still! I know I’m going to have to sneak of to the bedroom this morning and use my wand to get myself off, because I can.

Then later this morning I have to take my horny, wet pussy out to a playdate for my daughter. It just so happens another homeschooling mom I met is the minister’s wife at a local church here. It should be extremely interesting, sitting in their house while the girls play and get to know each other, knowing in the back of my mind that I was fucked this morning, masturbated and that I keep my hubby’s cock locked in a steel cage! Haha It’s so weird this sort of double life I lead! 🙂

Nominate us as your Sex Blogging Superheros!

Posted by Lady M on October 4, 2015
Posted in: Male Chastity. Tagged: , , , , , , . 1 comment

It’s that time of year again and Kinkly is looking to find the top 100 sex positive bloggers of 2015!
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Cagedmonkey and I would love to see Monkey in a Cage in that top 100! We need your help to get nominated by October 7th – that’s this Wednesday!

If you are willing to help us out by nominating us as one of the top 100 sex bloggers please click here and vote for Monkey in a Cage.

Only blogs that receive at least five votes by October 7th, 2015, will be counted!

At the end of October, they’ll announce the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2015. This year, they are also going to break out several categories and crown a winner in each one. Each category winner will receive a prize from one of our sponsors. And, because they want to spread the love around, they will also draw among all the winners for a grand cash prize of $500.

So, what are you waiting for? Get online and vote us as the bloggers that rock your sex positive world!

Yes Ma’am

Posted by Lady M on September 29, 2015
Posted in: D/s, Female Led Relationship, Wife Led Marriage. Tagged: , , , , . 5 comments

Ever since we moved here to West Virginia, I can not help but get the biggest smile on my face every time these southern gentlemen say “yes, ma’am.” I actually get that smile when anyone says those words to me down here because it’s gives my inner Domme that oh so yummy feeling. Especially since so many people around here have that great southern accent.

I love hearing my subby hubby say “yes, ma’am” and it gets me every single time I hear it from others too. In my head I’m like, “yes ma’am, is right!” haha I’d never tell anyone else that, instead I smile and say thank you and go about my day. For some reason those words just give me a feeling of being in charge. That someone is agreeing to do the thing I’ve asked or told them to do. Those two simple words are so respectful and at the same time so submissive.

Just thought I’d share 🙂

Waking Up on the Weekend

Posted by Lady M on September 28, 2015
Posted in: Bondage, D/s, Male Chastity, Oral Sex, Orgasm Denial, Pegging, Sex, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , . 7 comments

I quietly opened the bedroom door and latched the newly attached hook & eye. I tip-toed to the box at the side of the bed where, earlier in the week, I had placed a few toys, rope and restraints I thought I might use this weekend. I grabbed out the leather handcuffs and straddled cagedmonkey. I was naked under my jammies so he immediately woke and felt my wet pussy on his caged cock.
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I buckled the cuffs on each wrist and clipped the carabiners together. I lifted cagedmonkey’s arms over my head and down around my waist. He was stuck there, arms around me with no where to go. I’m sure he was pleasantly surprised to wake up that way.

I continued rubbing my wet pussy all over his Jail Bird soaking the attempted erection trapped inside. I leaned myself a bit more upright which, in turn, pulled cagedmonkey up and I reached behind his head and shoved his face into my chest, forcing him to suck on my hard nipples. As he was sucking and flicking my nipples with his tongue, I continued to rub myself on his crotch. My clit rubbed against his rooty hardness behind the base ring until I came and covered him even more with my delicious girl goo.

I certainly was a mess after cumming like that and needed to be cleaned up. I slid myself out from under his arms, unhooked the cuffs and reattached them behind his back. I made him kneel at the side of the bed, like my good boy, and clean up the warm wet mess between my legs. As he licked, sucked and slurped it up, he got me quite worked up and I just had to cum again. Instead of having my subby hubby make me cum, I decided to torture him by making him rest his face about an inch from my pussy and I rubbed myself right into another orgasm. Forcing him to smell me and watch me until mid orgasm I grabbed his head and buried his face nice and deep into my spasming, gushing pussy. I covered him, again, in my yummy juices which he happily devoured.

I told him what a good boy he was for me, patted him on the head, unhooked the cuffs and as I walked out the door I simply said “Good morning, sweetheart.” with a big smile on my face.

I Promised Some Eye Candy

Posted by Lady M on September 24, 2015
Posted in: Male Chastity, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , , . Leave a Comment

I hope this post fulfills the promise I made to the Twitter peeps for some eye candy. I obviously think my hubby is deliciously sexy but I’ve also added in some pics of me for those of you not into locked cock. 🙂

Enjoy!

Nothing like a locked cock in the morning. I really love how the tattoo is right there.
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Because an unlocked cock is sexy too 🙂
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And teasing it is fun too! I love how both tattoos are in this pic… No doubt who belongs to who here. 🙂
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And, of course some boobies for the boobie lovers! 🙂 Wouldn’t you just love to squeeze and suck on these beauties? To feel that nipple harden up as your tongue swirled around it… Yeah that’s what cagedmonkey gets to enjoy daily! 🙂
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Anyway, like I said I hope this fulfills my promise at some eye candy and you all enjoyed it! Sorry it took a couple days, most of you know things have been difficult here with our daughter off one of her medications. It makes me so happy to share and get you boys and girls all horny and worked up.

It’s So Hard

Posted by Lady M on September 20, 2015
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It’s been almost 10 years since cagedmonkey has had a regular day shift schedule. He has worked so hard to provide for our family. He has made me so proud to be his wife and the mother of his children. We made the choice together, 10 years ago, that I was going to stay home with the kids (at the time it was just one). Which meant we needed more money from his income to survive. That meant going to an off shift for the differential pay. We knew it was temporary but we never expected temporary to last 10 years lol. Over that time hubby has put so much into his job, went to school for some extra letters after his name and busted ass to become supervisor ready. Then the job he was at for 12years let him down and we ultimately moved here to West Virginia. Which, by the way, is beautiful and we really do like it here!

I never knew, after 10 years, how conditioned I was that I put the kids to bed and Yay! I have a few minutes to spend with hubby before he goes to work. He’s been off that schedule for about a month now, you would think it would go away by now but, still, every night I have to remind myself… I have ALL night with him. I actually get to sleep in bed with him every night. We go to bed together, we hold each other (most of the night unless it’s too hot LoL), we wake up together. It truly is something I feel others might take for granted. I cannot even begin to express that feeling of relief I get every night when I realize, “oh! He doesn’t have to go to work tonight.” And yes, I still get it every night! It’s weird!

The other thing that’s been so hard to adjust to with this whole day shift thing is just how much I miss the man I love. When he was working nights we chatted in text messages through half the night and then I’d fall asleep. I sure missed him but half the time he was gone I was sleeping. During my awake time he was sleeping but I still had access to him. 🙂 it’s so different now that he’s working and we are awake and asleep at the same times. I feel like I miss him much more now when I only get a text or two at his breaks and lunches. I know I will get used to it, it’s only been a week. Trust me that I appreciate that it’s something I have to get used to. He has worked hard to get to this spot and we, as a couple and a family, have been through a lot to get here too. I love the place we are in. I love the relationship we have now, the intimacy level and the communication between us has never been better. Not to mention the amazing, awesome, kinky sex we have! 🙂

I really want to thank our readers for being a part of this with us. It’s so fun to have met some amazing friends who we can totally be ourselves with. We love the questions we get and the conversations we have but more than that I think we really appreciate the love and support our new friends have offered!