I Want To Be Unlocked… Right?

Posted by cagedmonkey on March 9, 2019
Posted in: Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , . Leave a Comment

Coming up on almost two weeks straight locked in the Revenge, and I’m really getting agitated. I need to be unlocked soon, my cock is in bad need of ANY kind of attention.

But, on the other hand…

It’s weird. Part of me is SOOOO turned on by how ML has kept me locked for so long this time. Part of me actually is starting to like how it feels when my cock struggles against the steel of the Revenge. Part of me (dare I say it) wants ML to keep me locked even longer…..

What am I saying?!?

It feels like Stockholm Syndrome, in a way, where I’ve come to love the cage while still wanting out of it. It’s kind of stressing me out, because I really don’t know how to feel about what may happen:

– If ML keeps me in the Revenge, will I feel ignored and isolated?

– If ML lets me out, will I wish she would have pushed me further?

It’s at times like this that I need to remind myself that I’m the sub – I need to focus on what ML Lady wants and be satisfied by that. If she unlocks me, it’s good because she wants my penis out; if she keeps me in, it’s good because she wants to keep controlling my cock.

One thing I do realize is that if ML continues to keep me locked (which, I’ve come to realize writing this post, wouldn’t be that terrible of a thing), I am hoping that she realizes that I may come to need more sexual attention by other means. There aren’t many options for that with my cock locked away, but I will most likely need something to keep me from feeling ignored. Both of us have been very busy lately, which makes it difficult to make time for sex; but even if it’s just a few moments of me serving her sexual needs (or her teasing my non-locked body parts), it goes a long way towards knowing she still wants me in a sexual way even though my cock is not available.

No More Excuses

Posted by cagedmonkey on March 5, 2019
Posted in: Chastity Device, Male Chastity. Tagged: , , , . 2 comments

So I attended my exercise class tonight with the Revenge locked on….

So there goes my last excuse for being unlocked….

This is good, in a way. This way, ML won’t feel like she NEEDS to unlock me for any reason other than just wanting my cock out of the cage. Only her desire will get me out.

But this also sucks, because she seems perfectly content with keeping me in here at the moment for who knows how long. She is being sexually pleased by my tongue/hands/fingers… does she really need my cock right now? How long until she does?

*Knock Knock* Are You In There?

Posted by cagedmonkey on March 4, 2019
Posted in: Chastity Device, Male Chastity, Pictures, Sex. Tagged: , , , , , , , . 5 comments

It’s been a week since ML locked my penis in the Revenge, hiding it away from being touched or even seen in any meaningful capacity. Although I’m not 100% on this, I’m pretty sure that this is the longest I’ve been locked 24/7 in the Revenge – we have tried before, but hygiene issues have led to me being let out at smaller intervals. This time, though, I’m being extremely diligent about keeping the inside of the cage clean as much as possible; I’m scrubbing the inside as best as I can each day with soap and water (and making myself extremely horny in the process).

My penis is in there, somewhere… I assume…

Things have been… okay, I’d say. I mean, it should go without saying that I’m extremely desperate for some sort of sexual attention…. preferably with my unlocked penis, but I’ll take anything right now. It’s not about me, though, it’s about My Lady’s satisfaction… and she seems more than satisfied at this point in time.

Take last night for example: after a little bit of kissing in bed, ML directed me to fuck her pussy… only with the Revenge still on. I will say that fucking ML with the Revenge on is different from using the Jailbird. With the JB, I can feel her wet, warm pussy all over my cock but I can’t get hard to fully enjoy it. When the Revenge is involved, it’s a different kind of frustration because I can’t feel anything at all except the steel around me. I still get hard in the cage when I see how much ML is enjoying herself, but I don’t get any of the other great feelings from being inside her.

After a little bit of cage fucking, ML needed to cum, so she used the wand in combination of my fingers to get a nice good orgasm or two. Before we went to sleep, though, she made sure to tell me that the reason she got so turned on and needed to cum was because she kept reminding herself that I couldn’t feel anything while I was fucking her. Frustration for me equals satisfaction for her.

I am hoping that she soon realizes that I can’t feasibly stay as long in the Revenge as I would in the Jailbird (if she thinks I’m making it three weeks straight in this thing, she’s nuts). Even if she lets me out, I won’t be able to touch or see my cock, as we are planning on doing a “no look, no touch” game for the next little while. I just wonder when the first time we get to try it out will be. For now, I am left wondering when ML will decide to take my cock out of this cage… and how she plans to tease and torment it when she does.

A Study in Horniness?

Posted by cagedmonkey on January 27, 2019
Posted in: Orgasm Denial, Pictures, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , . Leave a Comment

My Lady hasn’t really been working with a specific denial plan over the past few weeks, she has been just going by what she feels like doing at the moment. I’ll spend a few days locked up in my cage 24/7, then she’ll let me cum a couple nights in a row. Then, the next night, she’ll edge me for a good twenty minutes before we go to sleep. It always is her decision what happens with my cock in the end – even when we are trying for a long denial or lock up, she always has the right to say “fuck it” and do what she wants – but lately, her desires seem to be set to “extra random.”

Which is perfectly fine for me! I actually like having orgasms, because duh (I just like ML controlling my orgasms better). Trust me, I’m not complaining because My Lady is allowing me to cum more often than usual.

This past week, though, ML seems to be getting back into the “CM doesn’t need to cum” groove, as my last orgasm was last Sunday night. And for the past couple of days, I’ve been extremely fucking horny. Like REAL bad.

It always seems like there is a period after my last orgasm is when I hit a horny peak, where my cock gets very sensitive and easy to edge. I also end up dripping lots of precum. I started thinking: are there other specific time periods that I reach these horny peaks during my denials?

Me being the nerd that I am, I suggested doing a “scientific study” to ML during my next denial:

Ignore the typo, lol.


Who knows? Maybe this will lead to some scientific breakthrough… or maybe just giving ML even more information that she can use to drive be insane.

Say YES to Ejaculation!

Posted by cagedmonkey on January 13, 2019
Posted in: Male Chastity, Medical, Orgasm Denial, Sex. Tagged: , , , , . 2 comments

ML and I had some garden variety quickie sex last night – which is to say that we had some pretty damn good quickie sex last night… hell, all of our sex is good, tbh. Anyway, ML doesn’t have me denied at the moment, so she allowed me to cum at the end when I was ready.

I had a nice good cum, and this time I pulled out to cum on ML’s tummy… and I actually did cum on her tummy!

I’m pretty sure I’ve written about this (I searched to put in a link, but couldn’t find it), but for a refresher: I haven’t been cumming a lot for the past few years. I’m talking volume-wise, not frequency-wise… obviously I haven’t been cumming as much frequency-wise, thanks to ML’s desires. But when ML does let me cum, I don’t cum a lot.

I’ve had some people suggest that it’s the orgasm denial that’s to blame, but I don’t think that’s it – when we first started playing with chastity and orgasm denial, I was still cumming a respectable amount. Another reader said that maybe it’s my vasectomy that has lowered my cum volume, but I also disagree for a similar reason – I was cumming normal amounts right after my vasectomy, as well.

After looking into “retrograde ejaculation” (the official term for “my dick doesn’t shoot cum”), I think the culprit is my high blood pressure meds which I started a few years ago.

Anyways… back to my original reason for posting.

It was really nice to actually see my load of cum on my wife’s tummy. I kinda wish I had taken a picture, just for posterity. I’ll have to do that next time. Hopefully, ML will keep my non-denial time going just a little bit longer. 🙂

My Christmas Present, Came Early

Posted by cagedmonkey on December 27, 2018
Posted in: Orgasm Denial, Sex, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , , , . 6 comments

Please note the comma in the title. 😉

Yes, ladies and gentlemen – after over 6 months of waiting, I finally got my orgasm! We didn’t do any crazy kinky scene or anything, but it was very much enjoyable for both of us.

My Lady and I had actually spent almost an entire week away from each other due to a medical procedure for a family member – it wasn’t an emergency or anything, but it really sucked to be separated from each other for that long. We were a little preoccupied during the week (hence the low amount of posts/tweets recently), but we were still able to stay somewhat connected via phone and texts.

After the week, we were seriously craving some together time, so ML and I wasted no time in having some “reconnectey” sex. It was REALLY good, and so when I asked ML if I could keep going and cum, she said yes.

So I did. 🙂

Similar to as I’ve described before, my first orgasm in 6 months wasn’t mind blowing or totally awesome – usually the soul crushing amazing cums happen later – but it certainly was nice and felt really good. But the funny part was what happened after.

I could tell ML really enjoyed feeling me cum inside her, and her hands started rubbing all over my body. After a few moments, her fingers find my nipples and began tickling them. Maybe it was all of the good vibe hormones in my brain overflowing from my orgasm and the nipple stimulation combined, but I started giggling and could not stop.

ML wouldn’t stop messing with my nipples, either, so I just kept laughing until both of us were going crazy! So there we are: my cock still inside of ML, having just cum inside her, and we are both laughing hysterically.

(Which, by the way, makes her pussy squeeze on me pretty damn good!)

The funny thing is that the laughing fit afterwards felt better than the orgasm itself: cumming was a great physical treat, but the laughing was such a deep tension release on a sensual/emotional level. The fact that ML was laughing right along with me made it all the more better. THIS is the reason why I enjoy the teasing and orgasm denial so much: not the orgasm itself at the end of it specifically, but the entire experience itself from beginning to end and in between. It makes even the weirdest things an intensely pleasurable experience.

Product Review: Paloqueth Double Cock Ring/Clit Vibrator

Posted by cagedmonkey on December 21, 2018
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The wonderful people at Paloqueth asked us if we would be interested in trying out one of their “couples” sex toys and writing an honest review. Since we were planning on having sex with each other anyway, we said sure! They graciously sent us a Double Cock Ring/Clit Vibrator to play around with, and we had a lot of fun! In exchange for the review they’ve offered our readers a discount on the product which you can get by clicking the link in this post.

Paloqueth has been in the sex toy business for over 5 years and strive to bring their customers quality sex toys at reasonable prices.

Let’s get on to the good stuff.

Unboxing

The toy comes in some very stylish packaging: the outer box is very cool looking, and the little “storage pouch” is very sexy. It also (thankfully) comes with an instruction booklet, which is nice – we have played with some sex toys that are not exactly clear on how to use them, so having a guide included with it is very nice.

Included with the toy is a cool little USB charging cable – the toy end has a magnetic to that attaches to those two metal dots, which makes it very easy to charge.

The Toy Itself

The toy has two rings at the base: the larger ring loops around and under the balls, while the smaller ring goes around the cock. The rings are made of stretchy rubber so they can act as a “one size fits all” system. The underside of the toy has the classic “ribbed for her pleasure” feature, which functions as a clit massager during sex. The vibrator features 7 different vibration modes: low, medium, high, and four different pulse patterns

[CM: The cock ring did feel a little right around me. I do have a pretty thick cock, though (#humblebrag), so it won’t be a problem for most people. Even with my size, it wasn’t so tight as to cause circulation concerns or anything like that.]

When worn as designed, the vibrator rests on the clit and vibrates to give extra stimulation. However, we also noted that it can be worn in other creative ways to vibrate other areas: for example, it can be spun upside down and used as an “underball” massager of sorts.

[LM: It’s very easy to hold by the rings to use as a small portable vibrator. I’m interested in trying it out in CM’s sensitive nipples!]

Playtime!

So, how does it feel?

Firstly, as with any “couples” toy like this, you have to be a little careful while using it – you can’t just start slam bang fucking with the toy in place, you have to be somewhat conscious of your movements. Once you get the toy placed correctly and get the rhythm of thrusting, it feels very comfortable. It doesn’t seem intrusive or disruptive like some other toys we’ve tried can be.

[CM: The vibration did transfer through the rings to my cock, but it wasn’t overly powerful – the toy seems designed to deliver the sensation to the clit more than the penis. This was VERY good for me, considering I’ve been denied orgasm for almost 6 months, and any intense vibrations probably would have forced us to cut our “review session” short. ;)]

[LM: I’m not particularly one that enjoys vibrating things during sex but this toy was not overly vibrating in any of its settings. I didn’t mind it and actually kinda wished it stayed a little more in place. It was very much a tease for me because I don’t feel the vibrating were enough or hitting the right spot consistently to push me over the edge.]

The Bottom Line

Overall it was an enjoyable, easy to use, easy to clean toy and definitely worth the price. If you are looking to add a little spice to your sex without overdoing it our having to pull out a lot of toys or even set things up grab this little guy. It’s makes it very simple and can be used in many different ways on each partner!

Oh No! Ruined Orgasm!

Posted by Lady M on December 20, 2018
Posted in: FemDom, Fetish, Male Chastity, orgasm control, Orgasm Denial, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , , . 5 comments

Cagedmonkey has been denied orgasm since the beginning of June. He’s extremely horny, super achy and pretty much always begging for an orgasm. He desperately wants some relief.

I did have this brilliant and devious plan to finally give him his long awaited orgasm. I wanted to make sure he experienced a really great intense orgasm. I wanted it to be memorable for him so that he really felt it, not only physically, but mentally. I kept thinking, what could I do to him to really create this moment that would really stick in his mind. I came up with something I was quite proud of. 🙂 haha

As you may have read, Cagedmonkey and I will often visit our local munch. We had planned to make sure that we would attend the December munches because they are always fun. The first one we collect toys for the Toys for Tots program and then the second munch is always the group’s Kinky Gift Exchange. It’s always a lot of fun this time of year. So my plan for this amazing orgasm involved the munch, so to speak. 🙂

I had come up with a fantastic way to integrate a little humiliation, if you will, into this final release. While hubby and I are definitely not into public humiliation, I thought adding some privately, public humiliation into this release would give him that intense, lasting memory I was hoping for. My plan was to have hubby drive to munch, unlocked, while I was playing with and stroking his cock the whole way. Then in the parking lot I was going to finally make him cum, right in his clothes, and then make him walk into munch and sit there, the whole time, covered in his long awaited orgasm. He’d have to sit there knowing it was all over inside his clothes, possibly leaking through his pants or shirt. Knowing that anyone could see at any moment. I also had no plans of letting him use the rest room… No way did I want him accidentally cleaning up his mess.

To add a little fun to the mix I would have, perhaps, mentioned it to a few close friends at munch that he was sitting in his 6+ month orgasm goo. Hehe 🙂

However, none of that was able to happen because hubby ended up having to work the evening of the munch and I went alone. He couldn’t come to munch and that meant he couldn’t cum. So, sorry that your orgasm got “ruined” my love!

I’m going to have to come up with some other intense and memorable way to make him cum now, does anyone have any ideas? Feel free to comment! 🙂

Kinky Gift Exchange

Posted by Lady M on December 16, 2018
Posted in: FemDom, Fetish, Friends, Sex toy. Tagged: , , , , , . 1 comment

Last night was our “Christmas Munch” better known as the munch where we do a White Elephant style kinky gift exchange. The whole idea is for each person attending to bring a wrapped, perverted or pervertable, gift for the exchange. Each person who brings a gift then chooses a random number and gifts are chosen in number order. The person with number 1 goes up to choose a gift, they open it and show everyone else. Then it’s #2’s turn and they have the choice of taking the first person’s gift or choosing a completely new gift from the table. If they do choose to take the already open gift, the person they took it from, goes up and chooses a new gift. It goes on and on like that until the last person, who gets to choose from all of the already open gifts our the last gift on the table!

It’s a lot of fun to see what people come up with. There have been gifts from wax play sets, bondage tape, dildos, and floggers to wooden cutting boards, spatulas, and knives and even some fun, fantastic homemade implement items. It’s amazing to see what interesting things people come up with as gifts!

So last night we went through our dinner and the whole gift exchange and had a lot of fun seeing friends, laughing and just having a great time. Then it was time to come home and put the kids to bed. Needless to say, I couldn’t walk in with some kinky gift and try explaining that to the kids so I decided to put it in the back seat and I’d grab it later when they were asleep. Until I didn’t grab it later and forgot about it until my daughter and I got in the car to go grocery shopping today. Haha It’s always fun trying to come up with some way to cover up or ignore weird things the kids may see.

I had number 8 of like 18 or 19 gifts so being in the middle it was pretty likely someone was going to take a gift from me. Which they did. The first gift I’d chosen had a dildo, nipple clamps and some other fun toy in it. Who wouldn’t want something like that? After it was taken, I had to choose another gift so, I decided on the homemade extra-large wartenburg wheel – or at least that’s what I call it. It’s actually a smaller sized paint roller with tacks taped all around it. It feels similar to the wheel but on a much wider surface. It’s very interesting and seems like lots of fun.

It wasn’t so much fun trying to explain it away to my daughter in the car. We started to pull out of the driveway and we heard this clink… as the paint roller rolled across the seat and hit the car door. She looked back there to see what it was. When she turned back, she scrunched up her face at me like, “what is that thing?” I was like, “what?” And she’s shrugged and I thought “oh shit!” Then I just started laughing and told her I didn’t even want to get into it. I told her that I have crazy friends and it was someone odd prank gift at the Christmas gift exchange. I told her when she’s an adult and she’s got goofy friends she will completely understand! Haha it seemed to satisfy the question for the time being so we will just go with that.

Anyway, I can’t wait to see what Cagedmonkey thinks of my gift. He isn’t too fond of the wheel itself because it’s a very focused feeling but this is a much wider, spread out sensation. I think it might be interesting, especially with him tied up and running it across those pierced nipples.

Chastity Technology

Posted by Lady M on December 9, 2018
Posted in: FemDom, Fetish. Tagged: , , , , , , . 2 comments

I saw this on Amazon the other morning and thought, “wow, wouldn’t it be awesome if they had smaller bluetooth locks?” Could you imagine small bluetooth locks on chastity cages? I wonder if something like that would work. Also, would that work for remote locking & unlocking?

Technology has the potential to make chastity and other fetishes very interesting! Could you imagine controlling what someone feels from a distance? Controlling the access to their bits and not even being there with them. Or even worse, being there and messing around with them? We’ve already started to explore some of the Bluetooth buttplugs and other devices. They seem like they have so much potential. 🙂

It’ll be quite interesting to see where technology takes us next when it comes to fetishes and bdsm.