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Mail Chastity: Punishment

Posted by Lady M on June 3, 2018
Posted in: Advice, Mail Chastity. Tagged: , , , , . 3 comments

D & J are a couple that read our blog. They recently sent an email asking for help with appropriate punishment. I’m extremely lucky in having a very good boy who does not push the boundaries so punishment doesn’t not come up often. It’s not something I enjoy having to do.

D & J wrote:

This weekend I have gone away for a few days, on Thursday night my cage worked itself off and I couldn’t get it back on as the key is 2.5 hrs away.
On Thursday night I edged myself once, haven’t done anything else but this is a serious infraction in our relationship.
Previous punishments have been whipping, and a few minutes with clover clamps. Extending chastity has never been a punishment as my wife has never set a time frame to extend until now.
Can you suggest an appropriate punishment please?

My suggestion for punishment may not be like others since I’m not too big into giving them. When it comes to punishment for us I take things away from Cagedmonkey, such as parts of my body, pleasing me or even playing video games. There have been times where I took away chastity and any attention to his penis. Those things really are punishment for him because he enjoys our play and taking that away is really the best way to keep him in line. I don’t really use spanking, etc for punishment as that is more “funishment.”

So the reason for this post is to ask our readers what their suggestions would be in this situation for punishment. What have you or your Mistress done as punishment in this situation? If you haven’t been in this situation, what would you do? What do you feel is an appropriate punishment for edging without permission?

Please comment here in the comment section so D & J can read your responses!! Thanks 🙂

Cheating Chastity

Posted by Lady M on April 10, 2014
Posted in: Chastity Device, Male Chastity. Tagged: , , , , , , . 8 comments

I was recently asked “how would a guy go about cheating while in chastity?” I actually hesitated, did I want to give up this information? Did I want to teach a soon to be chaste guy how to cheat the device? Ugh! What a hard spot to be in, but, I did explain what I felt would be cheating.

There are a few things that I would consider cheating. Things like unlocking without permission. If you’re using your emergency key, cutting the lock or even pulling your shaft out the back of the device, you’re cheating. Of course, any unauthorized orgasm would be considered cheating as well. I’ve heard of some boys that can use a vibrator on their cage/balls and end up having an orgasm.

Some of these things are easy enough to know about because they cannot be hidden. Obviously, if a lock is cut, someone is cheating. Personally I like hubby to have access to an emergency key at all times so he has one on his keychain, BUT, it’s in a tamper evident wrapper. If he uses the key he has to cut the wrapper to get it out.
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It’s also my handwriting so he can’t make a new one and try to trick me. I put a drawing on the other side too. 🙂

The other way to cheat, that I mentioned, was pulling out the back of the device. It is possible to do and it’s even possible to shove the penis back in and really, would I as a Keyholder, know that a guy cheated this way? Probably not, but your behavior may give you away. This form of cheating really sits on a guys conscience, he’s the one who have to live with the knowledge that he cheated. He’s got to feel the pangs of disappointment in himself everytime he looks at his Keyholder, knowing he didn’t play the game right and disobeyed her. Knowing if she found out she would be very disappointed in him and could ultimately not want to play with him anymore. Who wants to play with someone who cheats?

I mean if you’re asking to be in chastity and you have a woman willing to keep you, why in the hell would you even dream of doing something like that?