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My Christmas Present, Came Early

Posted by cagedmonkey on December 27, 2018
Posted in: Orgasm Denial, Sex, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , , , . 6 comments

Please note the comma in the title. 😉

Yes, ladies and gentlemen – after over 6 months of waiting, I finally got my orgasm! We didn’t do any crazy kinky scene or anything, but it was very much enjoyable for both of us.

My Lady and I had actually spent almost an entire week away from each other due to a medical procedure for a family member – it wasn’t an emergency or anything, but it really sucked to be separated from each other for that long. We were a little preoccupied during the week (hence the low amount of posts/tweets recently), but we were still able to stay somewhat connected via phone and texts.

After the week, we were seriously craving some together time, so ML and I wasted no time in having some “reconnectey” sex. It was REALLY good, and so when I asked ML if I could keep going and cum, she said yes.

So I did. 🙂

Similar to as I’ve described before, my first orgasm in 6 months wasn’t mind blowing or totally awesome – usually the soul crushing amazing cums happen later – but it certainly was nice and felt really good. But the funny part was what happened after.

I could tell ML really enjoyed feeling me cum inside her, and her hands started rubbing all over my body. After a few moments, her fingers find my nipples and began tickling them. Maybe it was all of the good vibe hormones in my brain overflowing from my orgasm and the nipple stimulation combined, but I started giggling and could not stop.

ML wouldn’t stop messing with my nipples, either, so I just kept laughing until both of us were going crazy! So there we are: my cock still inside of ML, having just cum inside her, and we are both laughing hysterically.

(Which, by the way, makes her pussy squeeze on me pretty damn good!)

The funny thing is that the laughing fit afterwards felt better than the orgasm itself: cumming was a great physical treat, but the laughing was such a deep tension release on a sensual/emotional level. The fact that ML was laughing right along with me made it all the more better. THIS is the reason why I enjoy the teasing and orgasm denial so much: not the orgasm itself at the end of it specifically, but the entire experience itself from beginning to end and in between. It makes even the weirdest things an intensely pleasurable experience.

Product Review: Paloqueth Double Cock Ring/Clit Vibrator

Posted by cagedmonkey on December 21, 2018
Posted in: Pictures, Reviews, Sex, Sex toy. Tagged: , , , , , , , . Leave a Comment

The wonderful people at Paloqueth asked us if we would be interested in trying out one of their “couples” sex toys and writing an honest review. Since we were planning on having sex with each other anyway, we said sure! They graciously sent us a Double Cock Ring/Clit Vibrator to play around with, and we had a lot of fun! In exchange for the review they’ve offered our readers a discount on the product which you can get by clicking the link in this post.

Paloqueth has been in the sex toy business for over 5 years and strive to bring their customers quality sex toys at reasonable prices.

Let’s get on to the good stuff.

Unboxing

The toy comes in some very stylish packaging: the outer box is very cool looking, and the little “storage pouch” is very sexy. It also (thankfully) comes with an instruction booklet, which is nice – we have played with some sex toys that are not exactly clear on how to use them, so having a guide included with it is very nice.

Included with the toy is a cool little USB charging cable – the toy end has a magnetic to that attaches to those two metal dots, which makes it very easy to charge.

The Toy Itself

The toy has two rings at the base: the larger ring loops around and under the balls, while the smaller ring goes around the cock. The rings are made of stretchy rubber so they can act as a “one size fits all” system. The underside of the toy has the classic “ribbed for her pleasure” feature, which functions as a clit massager during sex. The vibrator features 7 different vibration modes: low, medium, high, and four different pulse patterns

[CM: The cock ring did feel a little right around me. I do have a pretty thick cock, though (#humblebrag), so it won’t be a problem for most people. Even with my size, it wasn’t so tight as to cause circulation concerns or anything like that.]

When worn as designed, the vibrator rests on the clit and vibrates to give extra stimulation. However, we also noted that it can be worn in other creative ways to vibrate other areas: for example, it can be spun upside down and used as an “underball” massager of sorts.

[LM: It’s very easy to hold by the rings to use as a small portable vibrator. I’m interested in trying it out in CM’s sensitive nipples!]

Playtime!

So, how does it feel?

Firstly, as with any “couples” toy like this, you have to be a little careful while using it – you can’t just start slam bang fucking with the toy in place, you have to be somewhat conscious of your movements. Once you get the toy placed correctly and get the rhythm of thrusting, it feels very comfortable. It doesn’t seem intrusive or disruptive like some other toys we’ve tried can be.

[CM: The vibration did transfer through the rings to my cock, but it wasn’t overly powerful – the toy seems designed to deliver the sensation to the clit more than the penis. This was VERY good for me, considering I’ve been denied orgasm for almost 6 months, and any intense vibrations probably would have forced us to cut our “review session” short. ;)]

[LM: I’m not particularly one that enjoys vibrating things during sex but this toy was not overly vibrating in any of its settings. I didn’t mind it and actually kinda wished it stayed a little more in place. It was very much a tease for me because I don’t feel the vibrating were enough or hitting the right spot consistently to push me over the edge.]

The Bottom Line

Overall it was an enjoyable, easy to use, easy to clean toy and definitely worth the price. If you are looking to add a little spice to your sex without overdoing it our having to pull out a lot of toys or even set things up grab this little guy. It’s makes it very simple and can be used in many different ways on each partner!

Oh No! Ruined Orgasm!

Posted by Lady M on December 20, 2018
Posted in: FemDom, Fetish, Male Chastity, orgasm control, Orgasm Denial, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , , . 5 comments

Cagedmonkey has been denied orgasm since the beginning of June. He’s extremely horny, super achy and pretty much always begging for an orgasm. He desperately wants some relief.

I did have this brilliant and devious plan to finally give him his long awaited orgasm. I wanted to make sure he experienced a really great intense orgasm. I wanted it to be memorable for him so that he really felt it, not only physically, but mentally. I kept thinking, what could I do to him to really create this moment that would really stick in his mind. I came up with something I was quite proud of. 🙂 haha

As you may have read, Cagedmonkey and I will often visit our local munch. We had planned to make sure that we would attend the December munches because they are always fun. The first one we collect toys for the Toys for Tots program and then the second munch is always the group’s Kinky Gift Exchange. It’s always a lot of fun this time of year. So my plan for this amazing orgasm involved the munch, so to speak. 🙂

I had come up with a fantastic way to integrate a little humiliation, if you will, into this final release. While hubby and I are definitely not into public humiliation, I thought adding some privately, public humiliation into this release would give him that intense, lasting memory I was hoping for. My plan was to have hubby drive to munch, unlocked, while I was playing with and stroking his cock the whole way. Then in the parking lot I was going to finally make him cum, right in his clothes, and then make him walk into munch and sit there, the whole time, covered in his long awaited orgasm. He’d have to sit there knowing it was all over inside his clothes, possibly leaking through his pants or shirt. Knowing that anyone could see at any moment. I also had no plans of letting him use the rest room… No way did I want him accidentally cleaning up his mess.

To add a little fun to the mix I would have, perhaps, mentioned it to a few close friends at munch that he was sitting in his 6+ month orgasm goo. Hehe 🙂

However, none of that was able to happen because hubby ended up having to work the evening of the munch and I went alone. He couldn’t come to munch and that meant he couldn’t cum. So, sorry that your orgasm got “ruined” my love!

I’m going to have to come up with some other intense and memorable way to make him cum now, does anyone have any ideas? Feel free to comment! 🙂

Kinky Gift Exchange

Posted by Lady M on December 16, 2018
Posted in: FemDom, Fetish, Friends, Sex toy. Tagged: , , , , , . 1 comment

Last night was our “Christmas Munch” better known as the munch where we do a White Elephant style kinky gift exchange. The whole idea is for each person attending to bring a wrapped, perverted or pervertable, gift for the exchange. Each person who brings a gift then chooses a random number and gifts are chosen in number order. The person with number 1 goes up to choose a gift, they open it and show everyone else. Then it’s #2’s turn and they have the choice of taking the first person’s gift or choosing a completely new gift from the table. If they do choose to take the already open gift, the person they took it from, goes up and chooses a new gift. It goes on and on like that until the last person, who gets to choose from all of the already open gifts our the last gift on the table!

It’s a lot of fun to see what people come up with. There have been gifts from wax play sets, bondage tape, dildos, and floggers to wooden cutting boards, spatulas, and knives and even some fun, fantastic homemade implement items. It’s amazing to see what interesting things people come up with as gifts!

So last night we went through our dinner and the whole gift exchange and had a lot of fun seeing friends, laughing and just having a great time. Then it was time to come home and put the kids to bed. Needless to say, I couldn’t walk in with some kinky gift and try explaining that to the kids so I decided to put it in the back seat and I’d grab it later when they were asleep. Until I didn’t grab it later and forgot about it until my daughter and I got in the car to go grocery shopping today. Haha It’s always fun trying to come up with some way to cover up or ignore weird things the kids may see.

I had number 8 of like 18 or 19 gifts so being in the middle it was pretty likely someone was going to take a gift from me. Which they did. The first gift I’d chosen had a dildo, nipple clamps and some other fun toy in it. Who wouldn’t want something like that? After it was taken, I had to choose another gift so, I decided on the homemade extra-large wartenburg wheel – or at least that’s what I call it. It’s actually a smaller sized paint roller with tacks taped all around it. It feels similar to the wheel but on a much wider surface. It’s very interesting and seems like lots of fun.

It wasn’t so much fun trying to explain it away to my daughter in the car. We started to pull out of the driveway and we heard this clink… as the paint roller rolled across the seat and hit the car door. She looked back there to see what it was. When she turned back, she scrunched up her face at me like, “what is that thing?” I was like, “what?” And she’s shrugged and I thought “oh shit!” Then I just started laughing and told her I didn’t even want to get into it. I told her that I have crazy friends and it was someone odd prank gift at the Christmas gift exchange. I told her when she’s an adult and she’s got goofy friends she will completely understand! Haha it seemed to satisfy the question for the time being so we will just go with that.

Anyway, I can’t wait to see what Cagedmonkey thinks of my gift. He isn’t too fond of the wheel itself because it’s a very focused feeling but this is a much wider, spread out sensation. I think it might be interesting, especially with him tied up and running it across those pierced nipples.

Chastity Technology

Posted by Lady M on December 9, 2018
Posted in: FemDom, Fetish. Tagged: , , , , , , . 2 comments

I saw this on Amazon the other morning and thought, “wow, wouldn’t it be awesome if they had smaller bluetooth locks?” Could you imagine small bluetooth locks on chastity cages? I wonder if something like that would work. Also, would that work for remote locking & unlocking?

Technology has the potential to make chastity and other fetishes very interesting! Could you imagine controlling what someone feels from a distance? Controlling the access to their bits and not even being there with them. Or even worse, being there and messing around with them? We’ve already started to explore some of the Bluetooth buttplugs and other devices. They seem like they have so much potential. 🙂

It’ll be quite interesting to see where technology takes us next when it comes to fetishes and bdsm.

Edging Tools

Posted by cagedmonkey on December 8, 2018
Posted in: orgasm control, Orgasm Denial, Pictures, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , , , . Leave a Comment

Here’s something you may not know: ML really enjoys teasing my cock.

Okay, fine, maybe that’s not a news flash.

She really does love it, though. She is a natural cock tease, and has been for pretty much her entire life. I think her absolute favorite thing in the world is to edge me – leaving me so close to orgasm and desperate to cum, but not letting me. She does it in so many ways, it’s hard to tell which is her favorite!

ML has been having me edge myself for her a lot more lately, which is a torture in itself. I so badly want to cum, yet I have to hold back and follow her instructions. If it were up to me, I’d have cum lots of times by now, but instead I’m just more and more frustrated. My Lady likes having me edge with her wand, which is sort of like a tiny taunt: the toy she uses to give herself nice, deep, intense orgasms is the same toy that is bringing me to the edge and leaving me there.

I do think that ML prefers a more “hands on” approach, though. 😉

ML’s touch on my cock feels absolutely incredible – it feels even better than when I touch it myself! She knows how to stroke and tease me to bring me right to the edge quickly. She can also sense the perfect moment to stop, leaving me throbbing and desperate.

But I think ML’s favorite way to edge my cock is with her pussy. The look on her face is amazing as I torture myself with her wet pussy, stroking into her slowly as I push myself closer to orgasm. She smiles and giggles as I moan, struggling to control myself. Usually I have to stop when she starts teasing my nipples, but she doesn’t always let it end that easily – sometimes she’ll make herself cum, her pussy squeezing and pulsing around my edged cock.

With all of these different skills at her disposal, My Lady certainly keeps me on my toes!

Sex Ready aka Cock on Demand

Posted by Lady M on December 3, 2018
Posted in: FemDom, Sex. Tagged: , , , , . 1 comment

I was having a quick conversation with cagedmonkey this morning and told him I was horny and wanted sex later this evening. I made the comment that I needed him “sex ready” for later so when he gets home he’s to unlock his cock. That way when I’m ready and want it, it can be hard in an instant for me to use.

There are times where I let hubby out and want him sex ready, so to speak, but I may decide not to use him, I may decide to tease the hell out of him instead. Sometimes having him out and ready is better than having to wait for him to get unlocked and wiped down (even in an open cage he can get sweaty in there).

The other morning could have been one of those mornings, where I was completely horny and ready to take that big cock and having him sex ready would have helped the situation. You know how it is… When you want it right then and there and don’t want to wait? Yeah, then… Having a big hard cock ready on demand is awesome! 🙂

Best FemDom Comic

Posted by Lady M on December 2, 2018
Posted in: FemDom, Fetish. Tagged: , , . 1 comment

I’ve been part of chastityforums.com for a long time and there is a thread on the forums about cartoons or comics related to chastity and femdom. I saw recently someone posted this awesome comic. I feel like this is one of the best FemDom comics I’ve seen.

What are some of the better chastity or femdom, or even bondage, comics you’ve seen?