Coffee Talk: A Fresh Way to Start Your Day
I was sitting here this morning, drinking my coffee and letting my mind wander into places it probably shouldn’t before 8am. Ok maybe my mind…
The Year Changes, The Dynamic Doesn’t
January 1st, 2026… before we look ahead, let’s linger just a moment on the year we’re leaving behind. 2025 was… a return. Not just to writing,…
Mail Chastity: The Keys to Keyholding
Ooo I’m so excited! We got an email recently from one of you lovely keyholders asking some very important questions. I decided to make…
Merry Christmas!
Hello darlings! I wanted to take a moment on this happy day to tell you all Merry Christmas. I cant tell you enough how happy I am to be back…
So This Is What “What If” Looks Like
I wanted to chat about the first time the three of us were together, sexually… Mostly because I know a lot of you want to hear the juicy…
Thankful for 6 Weeks Post-op
Hoping you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving! This year John was here with hubby and I, and the kids. We had dinner as a family at home. It…
Bruised, Bitchy and Too Stubborn to Quit
Two weeks post-op and I’m finally starting to feel a tiny bit more like myself… but wow, this has been one hell of a ride. And not the fun…
The Dominant’s Forced Submission
On October 31st, I’m getting a total hip replacement. This isn’t just a physical procedure… it’s a forced power exchange that will…
Flights, Feelings and Finding Balance
I’m sitting on a plane right now, heading to Chicago for work. As usual, for my work trips, we try to plan them so John and I can spend Friday…
The Unexpected Path: How We Found Polyamory (ENM)
My dynamic with cagedmonkey has always been built on communication. That is fundamentally what all relationships should be built on. During…