Flights, Feelings and Finding Balance
I’m sitting on a plane right now, heading to Chicago for work. As usual, for my work trips, we try to plan them so John and I can spend Friday…
The Unexpected Path: How We Found Polyamory (ENM)
My dynamic with cagedmonkey has always been built on communication. That is fundamentally what all relationships should be built on. During…
The Art of the Wait: When Denial Isn’t Erotic, It’s Just Tuesday
There’s a quiet kind of allure in power – one that hums beneath the surface rather than flashes in bold strokes. It’s never just about…
Becoming a Madam
In October 2013, my husband and I began this blog to chronicle our journey into male chastity. Back then, I chose the name Lady M. It felt…
Out of the Cage and in to the Fire
Hello, my lovelies— Have you missed us? 👋 It’s been far too long since I last sat down here to share our life with you in our little corner of…
Damn He’s Sexy
The other morning, I got out of bed before Cagedmonkey and he sent me this absolutely sexy picture of him laying there. I just love it, I love…
Mail Chastity: What’s in it for Her?
A couple weeks ago we posted a blog post about how it’s been 226 days for Cagedmonkey since his last orgasm and a friend, at She rules…
226 Days Without Orgasm
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to go a year without an orgasm? I’d imagine quit a few of our readers have thought that,…
Seven Years in a Chastity Device
It was over seven years ago that Cagedmonkey and I started this chastity journey. No, we didn’t start out in steel nor a custom device.…
Podcast Episode 13 – Chatting with Mature Metal
Cagedmonkey and I had the wonderful pleasure of spending time with the Beauty and the brains behind Mature Metal male chastity devices.…