Coffee Talk: Praise, Simple But Effective in Kink & BDSM
I was sitting here this morning enjoying my coffee and starting thinking about praise. Not the fancy kind — just the simple, straightforward…
Real “Throuple’s” Story: Our Nervous but Hot First BDSM Event at a Sex Club PT 1
Read our honest, steamy account of our first time in the "sex area" at a BDSM sex club as a throuple - voyeurism, public teasing, edging, and more.
Coffee Talk: Guys, Are You Feeling Ok? I’m Just Checking In With You
You are allowed to be comfortable in your own skin. Every inch of it. The soft bits, the wrinkly bits, the bits that jiggle when you laugh.…
How it is Spending the Weekend Together ENM and We went to the Sex Club For the First Time!
We all have thoughts and feelings and impressions from what the three of us experienced together and our first experience at the BDSM party…
People You Know Who Don’t Know
As I was sitting here enjoying my dinner, I starting thinking… Holy shit! IS THAT MY BOYFRIEND’S BROTHER IN LAW? Did my my…
Coffee Talk: What if I’m Not Enough?
Sometimes I feel inadequate. What if I'm not enough? Not strong enough. Not stern enough. Not assertive enough. Not strict enough.
Reconnecting with the Kink Community: Our First Meetup After 5 Years
After 5.5 years away, we dove back into the local kink community with a welcoming meetup that went way past bedtime. Laughter, new friends,…
Coffee Talk: Local Kink community & Munches
Hoping to connect with local kinksters through munches and events. Excited for the journey to Colette Austin. Building fun, real kinky…
Can Tease and Orgasm Denial Deepen Intimacy?
Exploring tease and orgasm denial within ethical non monogamy, power exchange, and female led relationships. A personal look at anticipation,…
Why “Never” Becomes “Maybe” in BDSM: Understanding Hard Limits
Recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about hard limits in BDSM and how they can change over time and whether I like that or not. When we started…