Yesterday was my birthday! It actually all started Saturday night, we went to munch with our friends and hung out afterwards. It was lots fun and I even got a “Chocolate cake shot” for my birthday as well. Lots of laughs, lots of fun. I even got a few of the whole lots of birthday spankings that should have gone on. I believe there are still like 31 to go. I’ve decided, since I didn’t have time over the weekend that I’m going to give Monkey the rest of my spankings.
Yesterday was a fun day with just us as a family. The kids made me breakfast all by themselves, we went out in the afternoon to see Captain Marvel (I really liked that movie, like a lot!) And then my wonderful monkey boy naked me a cake in the evening! What could be better than that? I felt very loved, it was so sweet!
Anyway, CM and I were talking recently about how much I’ve missed leaving marks on his ass. He found a picture from a bit ago when I used a cane on him and left a beautiful mark for days! I need to see that again. 🙂 So today I’m going to look and see if I can find a good cane, or a few, to buy and have for when Cagedmonkey and I get our date night (without kids at home). It’s supposed to be soon and I look forward to sharing pics!
I used to think we were busy before and that it would slow as the kids got older but, apparently, that’s not the case. Apparently, it only gets busier as you start to have teenagers! One big bonus is the possibility that our oldest one, that I homeschool currently, could possibly go to school next year. That COULD free up some time for hubby and I to get some “day time, play time” in. I really, really, really want to work out getting her back in school. Then, I want to schedule some time off together once in a while to have time together. We miss each other, yet we see each other every day! We just haven’t had the opportunity for any good intense kinky playtime and it sucks. I want to fix that so bad. I feel like I’m letting CM down sometimes, because we don’t have the opportunity to get into good play. I need to figure this out for both of us. I want us to have that time together. It’s such a great release for both of us… And I get really wet and horny during it so I want it, damn it! LoL
Does anyone have a suggestion on where to get a good (inexpensive) cane? What kind should I look for? Do you have a favorite? Can you link me in comments? Don’t be dumb and spam, be serious please. Thanks!! 🙂
Young bamboo from the garden. You can then make your own. Cut it young enough and you can tie a bend into it, let it dry and hey presto. Endless supplies.
Belated happy birthday. Lets hope you get some play time soon.
Thank you so much for your post and the birthday wishes! 🙂
a wooden dowel from one of the hardware big box or local stores will do just fine. Not to thick and not too thin and they are cheap and sting and are great for asses to be beaten. ouch I know for sure on this account…..
a wood dowel from one of the big box stores (one of which has Orange as their color and one that has Blue or any local hardware store.. Not too thick, not to thin and they sting like mad and leave ouch marks…I know from experience…..
Thanks! Great idea! Those are perfectly inexpensive 🙂
Try a landscaping store that have bamboo canes for tomato’s or other plants.
Thanks! I’ll take a look!
check out caniac.com. great canes and quite inexpensive (not as dirt cheap as a wooden dowel, but much better quality: every domme and her sub deserve a good cane!)
Thanks!
Provico has good canes cheap