So I was inspired when I heard about a fellow Keyholder who was locking up her hubby and in the spirit of Christmas sang a Chastity Carol! Now I’m a girl who loves Christmas carols so this is right up my alley! I’m not a song writer and don’t pretend to be but this has been fun so I thought I would share with all of you! This song is courtesy of a fellow Keyholder…

Last weekend, My Lady allowed me to spend some time unlocked after getting a surprising orgasm on Friday night. It was a semi-honeymoon of sorts, our first one since starting this chastity lifestyle. It was very nice to have the ability to be free with my sexuality. I began to think that although being locked and being unlocked are two different situations (and honeymoon being a third completely opposite one), each situation has its own reasons…

Epiphany: a sudden, intuitive perception of or insight into the reality or essential meaning of something, usually initiated by some simple It sounds weird to say this but it feels almost as if a weight has been lifted from me. After our conversation last night I got to thinking about what I really wanted and how I wanted to play with hubby. After all, he gave me the beautiful gift of regaining my natural dominance,…

cagedmonkey: We’ve found out so much about this lifestyle in such a short time. It really is amazing!! Lady: It’s been a whirlwind that’s for sure… but I’ve realized some things since our last go at your orgasm denial. cm: What things, exactly? Lady: Well, after this last time having you completely locked and even denying myself I kinda feel like I’ve tested out all that I need in this. I really just want to…

When we first started out in male chastity and embracing a bit more of the wife led marriage I had no clue what this “service” thing would be… I don’t want to be “serviced,” I’m not a car, I don’t need an oil change! I really had no idea what that phrase even meant. So over the course of this journey I’ve been reading other blogs and websites about chastity and wife led marriage or…

My Lady and I don’t use a specific “release date” like some people do, because we feel it takes some control away from her. What if, for example, my release date comes and ML wants to keep me in chastity juuuuuuust a little bit longer? Is she obligated to give me an orgasm? Or, what if it’s not release day yet, and she just REALLY needs to have her cock? Such was the situation last…

It’s not always easy being a wife or girlfriend AND a Keyholder. When cagedmonkey first handed me the key to his chastity device, it was a bit of an emotional moment. First of all, it happen much before either one of us thought it would. Second, I felt a huge amount of trust from him but also a load of responsibility. I may have even gotten some tears in my eyes! I know we haven’t…

Sorry to all you other guys, but it’s true. My wife is the absolute BEST keyholder in the world. For me, at least.  🙂 It takes a certain kind of relationship to make this chastity thing work. My wife and I have been through a lot, but nothing would have been able to prepare us for this if we didn’t fully trust each other. When we are fully open and honest with each other, we…

I know I’m always trying to find that new unique way to tease cagedmonkey. I’m constantly worried about becoming a predictable, boring wife and Keyholder. I also know I’m not the only one since I’m asked quite often from other wives and Keyholders about how to keep things interesting. When you search online looking for tease ideas you never get actual descriptions of how to tease your guy but rather a very vague “if you…

Happy Thanksgiving to all of our readers and followers!! It’s funny – today is the day that My Lady originally planned as my possible day for release during our last stint (we don’t have a definite “O Day” like some people do, I’ll get into that in another post). She ended up granting me release about a week early, but now she is moving my next possible release date to Christmas. It’s a long way…