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onMarch 30, 2026

Our First BDSM Event at a Sex Club PT 4: Sexy People Fucking in Public and I Managed to Cockblock Myself

For those of you looking to hear about my hot sexy experiences at the club… this is going to be a little bit of a different post than you’ll…

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Michele

onMarch 27, 2026

Our First BDSM Event at a Sex Club PT 3: Bruised and Exposed on the Bench

I know we’ve written about what it was like in the club in previous posts but it’s worth taking you through some of it again. You…

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OwnedsubJohn

onMarch 23, 2026

Our First BDSM Event at a Sex Club PT 2: Naked, Caged, and Owned in Public

Our first time at the club felt oddly normal. People doing their thing openly, no big shows, just real kink happening in plain view. We…

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Michele

onMarch 21, 2026

Real “Throuple’s” Story: Our Nervous but Hot First BDSM Event at a Sex Club PT 1

Read our honest, steamy account of our first time in the "sex area" at a BDSM sex club as a throuple - voyeurism, public teasing, edging, and more.

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Michele

onMarch 17, 2026

How it is Spending the Weekend Together ENM and We went to the Sex Club For the First Time!

We all have thoughts and feelings and impressions from what the three of us experienced together and our first experience at the BDSM party…

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OwnedsubJohn

onMarch 13, 2026

Vulnerability: Can You Experience Fear and Feel Safe at the Same Time?

Feeling vulnerable with anyone can be intimidating. Handing someone the power to decide exactly how you will feel and what you will experience…

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OwnedsubJohn

onMarch 6, 2026

Guacamole, Glockenspiel, Gremlin – Shit, what was my safeword again?

Having a safeword, and the trust that goes with it is what allows us both to push our limits a little. I know that if something is going too…

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Michele

onFebruary 15, 2026

Why “Never” Becomes “Maybe” in BDSM: Understanding Hard Limits

Recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about hard limits in BDSM and how they can change over time and whether I like that or not. When we started…

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OwnedsubJohn

onFebruary 13, 2026

When did you learn about Sub Drop and Aftercare?

I have incorporated BDSM and kink in my life for as long as I can remember. I feel like I was fairly knowledgeable. After I met Michele and we…

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Michele

onJanuary 30, 2026

Does the Thought of Causing Someone Pain Excite You?

poppet asked an amazing question in a comment and I really wanted to address it in a post because it’s not as simple as “Hi, I’m…

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