I’m sitting here enjoying my coffee thinking silly thoughts…
I get this strange idea in my head sometimes that I’m not very kinky. How can that be? One look at this blog and what I write here and I think it’s pretty clear.
But sometimes I forget. Everything I write, or that has been written about me, is normal. At least in our life. We live this 24/7. It doesn’t get turned on and off. There are no scenes. No role playing. No “playing” at all really.
Does this mean we are doing kinky things all the time? No, of course not. What it does mean is that it’s not really any different than anything else we do. It flows in and out of our conversations and activities naturally.
If you saw some of our chat conversations it’s kind of funny. We will be talking about everyday things that all couples talk about. What are we going to do for dinner? What time will you be home? How is your day? Normal family logistics. But right in the middle of it there will be something like “I can’t wait to make you lick my asshole” or something like that.
Even funnier, to me at least, is when we are having a hot and heavy conversation with everyday things mixed in. It all just flows.
So I forget that this isn’t normal for most people and I forget just how kinky we are. Of course if I stop and actually think about it I know that we are kinky. Probably really kinky.
What do you think? Are we kinky? Do you feel like you are kinky? I would love to hear your thoughts
John
