I’m sitting here enjoying my coffee thinking silly thoughts…
I get this strange idea in my head sometimes that I’m not very kinky. How can that be? One look at this blog and what I write here and I think it’s pretty clear.
But sometimes I forget. Everything I write, or that has been written about me, is normal. At least in our life. We live this 24/7. It doesn’t get turned on and off. There are no scenes. No role playing. No “playing” at all really.
Does this mean we are doing kinky things all the time? No, of course not. What it does mean is that it’s not really any different than anything else we do. It flows in and out of our conversations and activities naturally.
If you saw some of our chat conversations it’s kind of funny. We will be talking about everyday things that all couples talk about. What are we going to do for dinner? What time will you be home? How is your day? Normal family logistics. But right in the middle of it there will be something like “I can’t wait to make you lick my asshole” or something like that.
Even funnier, to me at least, is when we are having a hot and heavy conversation with everyday things mixed in. It all just flows.
So I forget that this isn’t normal for most people and I forget just how kinky we are. Of course if I stop and actually think about it I know that we are kinky. Probably really kinky.
What do you think? Are we kinky? Do you feel like you are kinky? I would love to hear your thoughts
John
Have you seen DTF St. Louis on HBO? Most people (but not everyone) have their own thing.
I am not familiar with it but from a quick google I don’t like the sound of it ending with a murder.
There is a death in the first episode and the show is more about “what happened here?” and the triangle between the three characters. It’s maybe the best thing I’ve seen on TV this year and that comes from a lifetime of looking for good/realistic depictions of kink in mainstream television. A central question of the show is “is anyone normal or does it just look that way from across the street?” The show catches a giant range of human emotion across 7 episodes.
Sounds like it could be interesting. I’m always looking for something to watch, I’ll try to find it streaming and check it out.