Ok, let me back up a bit.
During our vacation and since then as well, My Lady has kept me unlocked almost as often as she has kept me locked. Perhaps it’s even more tilted towards unlocked, but I haven’t been keeping much track. I’m too busy being teased insane by a hellaciously horny woman nearly every moment of the day.
ML has kept me unlocked so she can tease me whenever she wants and use her “favorite toy” whenever the mood strikes her. And she has been very active in both of those activities. Whether it’s sneaking a quick edge or two when the kids aren’t around or giving me a long teasing blowjob, she is certainly getting her fill of my cock. She has also been getting a good dose of sex, either taking charge and climbing on top of me or having me do all the work.
I’ll tell you this – it has not been easy to remain a “good boy” and refrain from cumming while fucking ML. In fact, I doubt you can classify what I end up doing as “fucking.” I’m often on the very edge of orgasm after just a few strokes into her tight wet pussy. At this point, I have no choice but to hold still as I struggle for control. After I drag myself back from the brink, I can usually manage only a few more thrusts before I’m right back to the edge again. And if ML wants some good hard thrusts, I pretty much have no choice but to give her a few good deep strokes before I have to jump up off of her before my cock explodes inside her.
My Lady assures me that this is not a problem for her, that she expects is after teasing and denying me for so long and that she is the one who is creating the situation. If it truly was a problem for her, she would just let me cum. She makes a good point, but I still want to be able to satisfy her penetration needs. This is why I was so happy that the RodeOh harness worked so well.
Earlier today I found an accidental solution to the problem, albeit not a permanent one. The kids went outside into the backyard to play, which left ML and me with some alone time. My cock got hard pretty quick as ML jumped on top of me and straddled me on the couch. It wasn’t long before I was hard as a rock and sliding into her warm pussy.
So, My Lady was riding my cock, and I could feel the edge approaching quickly. Then, out of the corner of my eye, I noticed that the TV was on. Right then, a light bulb went off in my head. A DISTRACTION! THAT’S WHAT I NEED!
So while ML is bouncing her pussy on my cock, her beautiful tits hanging right above my face, I start listening to Stephen A. Smith argue with Skip Bayless about the NFL draft. I’m listening and really thinking about what he’s saying. My Lady’s sexiness is still there, right in front of my face (and right on top of my cock), so it takes a real effort to pay attention.
And then I realize it’s working.
The urge to cum is fading slowly, and ML is still riding me hard. I was able to hold back, even when ML’s orgasm started to hit her. Usually, feeling her pussy squeeze my cock when she cums will be too much for me to handle, but this time I had no problems as she rode me through her orgasm. It was great to finally NOT have to tell her to be careful or to slow down. It was great to feel her cum on my cock without having to resort to her rubbing her clit while I stayed motionless inside her.
As successful as this was, I cannot resort to watching ESPN every time ML an I have sex. We’ve discussed the idea of desensitizing spray, and the RodeOh is also an option. I just don’t understand how guys out there can deal with this problem. I read on blogs here and there about how guys who have been denied even longer than I have can have sex with their KH, and they don’t mention anything about this type of issue. Is this just something guys don’t normally feel comfortable talking about, or is it just me that has this problem?
I’ve never went as long as you but I found a trick that helps me through. First, I do a reverse kegal. It can get hard to hold, but makes a big difference. Secondly, I find that if I go through a couple cycles of hard then soft, I last a lot longer. For some reason, I go soft during anal, so she may just give me a few thrusts with a dildo by hand. Lastly, and we haven’t done this in a while, is to pull my foreskin, yeah uncircumcised here, over my head and tape it with medical tape, then a condom over that. It doesn’t allow any friction at all on the head. Those have let me hold off for a little while, a couple weeks is the longest, but if I went as long as you have, I’m not sure I could hold off.
ML inadvertently tried the anal trick you mentioned earlier today, using the milking tool on me while she was on top of me… I nearly lost it right away! The foreskin trick is out because, yeah. Condoms are a no go, both ML and I absolutely HATE them with a passion! But the kegels is an interesting idea, I might try that out.
Thanks for the feedback!
I know where you’re coming from… Like you, barely two strokes in, and I’m fighting the urge. If I can maneuver her into a position where she’s enjoying my cock without a lot of friction/movement, I’m OK, but otherwise I have to pull out frequently.
One thing we’ve tried with some success, is numbing gel on my cock. However, it does take a bit of time between application and initial penetration. If you can wait, it can help, we’ve found.
These are great ideas, Many of which I am going to try. I have numbing gel and yes, It takes time, but it also is very week. I need something stronger. Now I am able to last much longer than some of you have mentioned. I don’t know how, but depending on the situation, I can last about 30 seconds on a full out banging. but with a low and slow approach, I can go on for quite some time. One thing that I know works and alcohol. Being on the edge of drunk helps you last longer. There are times I have been asked to stop because I ran a marathon. Try it. I know you cant be drunk all the time but on a friday night when the kidos are in bed like mine and ML and you are on the front porch enjoying the nice weather kicking back some suds. Dont get drunk, just get a really good buzz. find the perfect place to make the fucking last longer 😉