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The Conflicting Feelings of a Chaste Hubby

Posted by cagedmonkey on February 7, 2014
Posted in: Anal, Bondage, Sex, Uncategorized. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . 7 comments

My Lady and I were texting each other last night while I was at work, and the conversation wandered to the topic of sensory deprivation. You see, ML has been doing some research in that area, specifically sensory deprivation hoods. And when ML starts doing research, you know that she’s getting serious about it.

She began to text me some of the ideas that have been popping up in her head, and I couldn’t help but get turned on (which made my cock strain against the cage rather strongly). Here are just a few examples of the texts she sent me:

  • “like putting your hands in mittens behind your back, making you kneel on the floor hooded”
  • “I could open only the gag and make you choke on my dildo”
  • “I could take off the blindfold with my pussy right in your face while I cum”
  • “Put a dildo in your ass and make you sit on it while I fuck your mouth with mine”
  • “So if I told you I could put the hood on and use the face dildo as the gag piece instead and fuck your sensory deprived face, how would that make you feel?”

How would it make me feel?

Those sound like horrible, terrible things to have to endure. I don’t know if I could take it.

How would it make me feel?

I need to experience this.

That’s how it makes me feel. I can imagine myself in the moment, wanting it to end so badly, wondering why and how I got myself into this, suffering in pain and frustration. Yet it’s undeniable – I want it to happen. When I read those texts – and even now as I retype them – I get a tightness in my chest that says to me, “Oh. My. God. I NEED THIS.”

It’s scary and confusing to have these types of feelings – to want something you don’t want to happen happen, so badly. But honestly, that’s pretty much what chastity is. I’m sitting here with my cock locked in a steel cage with no way to get out on my own, and I desperately want to cum. But I want to be like this – desperate for release, yet powerless to facilitate that release, completely dependent on My Lady for any and all sources of sexual pleasure. I trust My Lady with my life; I know she will protect me and keep me safe, even when she is putting me through hell just because she can and she wants to. It speaks to my devotion to her how badly I want this to happen, even though I don’t want this to happen.

Now I’m left wondering just when she plans on putting these things in motion…

Tease or Torture – Sensation Play

Posted by Lady M on February 5, 2014
Posted in: Chastity Device, Female Led Relationship, KeyHolder, Male Chastity, Tease & Denial, Wife Led Marriage. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , . Leave a Comment

CagedMonkey and I have had a very relaxed couple weeks in the chastity device and our D/s play because our Jail Bird is in getting adjustments. The Bird Cage we use as a back up device is really showing its wear and I don’t want hubby wearing it for more time than necessary. So really he’s only been wearing it to work.

I decided, since we haven’t had any real intense teasing play lately, today would be a bit of  a dominant day. Cagedmonkey works midnights so when he got home this morning he got breakfast for the kids and then got ready for bed. He had a headache so I gave him some Tylenol and let him sleep a little before putting him through this intense ride.

I’m not sure what you would call this but today he is (trying to) sleeping unlocked, bound to the bed, gagged with a penis gag and stuffed with the njoy butt plug. While he is enduring that torture? I will be visiting very often to stroke him and edge him.

I’m sure he’s going to be very tired and worn out by this afternoon but I feel like he needed a good reminder of who is in charge of all of his pleasures & sensations.

I’m really loving the idea of sensory deprivation play and I’m working to learn how to make it happen. So for now I’m playing with sensations and making him all filled up and unable to touch or do anything about whatever I do to him. He just has to endure whatever I want to do to him because I am in control of it all. I’m even in control of how much or the quality of sleep he gets. It should be a fun day and perhaps he’ll write later about how he feels about what I’m doing to him. 🙂

I njoy His Ass – Pure Plug Review

Posted by Lady M on January 11, 2014
Posted in: Anal, Male Chastity, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , . 4 comments

Next weekend is our wedding anniversary and I wanted to get us a new toy to play with. I know you all have read in the past about how my obsession with cagedmonkey’s ass has grown. It’s not at all about pegging him that gets me, it’s the way his butt looks, the shape, the feel, and even the springy bounce when I spank him lovingly. I just love how his sexy little ass cheek fits right in my hand so perfectly. So I decided to go for it and I ordered a small njoy Pure Plug butt plug for cagedmonkey. I was so excited when it was delivered yesterday. It’s a cute, tiny little thing but very efficient and effective!
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According to their site: ” Equally fun for hot bedroom play or to wear all day for some naughty secret stimulation, njoy’s Pure Plugs truly shine where the sun don’t! The Pure Plugs combine a large head for that delicious stretch of penetration, with a tapered stem for easy retention and long-term comfort. The weighty steel adds a lovely sense of fullness and presence to remind you just how sensitive you really are ‘back there’…”

I fully agree with everything written there. The description couldn’t be anymore spot on! I really had some issues with butt plugs because of what I always imagined or saw them used for and I’m not really into those things. I wanted something that I could use once in awhile for an overall pleasurable experience for cagedmonkey. It seems that this little plug is perfect and does the job well. Seeing is I got a message from cagedmonkey after I’d made him try it out for about an hour or so last night. I had him wear the plug while he got some teasing and while he pleasured me a few times.

He said he definitely feels that it was in but his asshole doesn’t hurt like the other plug we’ve used. He says the plug made him have the twitchy leftover sensitive feelings inside like when we used the other but that his actual asshole isn’t sore. He says it’s a very good thing so I’m excited that this is so small yet so effective, like I said. I’m glad that he can gently be reminded of me all night now even when he’s not wearing the plug. 🙂 I’m sure he can comment more on that.

The whole idea for me wasn’t to use a butt plug as punishment, to cause discomfort or pain or even to assert my Dominance. I’ve read and seen so many times where a Mistress will use huge butt plugs for those reasons and, honestly, that just grossed me out. There can be so much more to using one, so much pleasure. I love that the njoy is perfectly made and weighted so that once inserted it puts the right amount of pressure on the prostate. Last night while working on my orgasms, cagedmonkey just started pouring precum almost as if I was milking him! It really was a beautiful thing.

So far I really like this plug. At first I wasn’t into the steel thing but then I thought about what we went through with the chastity device and decided to just go for it! It looks like we will have lots of things to try out and ways to experiment with our new njoy Pure Plug. It should be loads of fun!

Good Morning Where the Sun Don’t Shine

Posted by Lady M on January 1, 2014
Posted in: Anal, KeyHolder, Male Chastity, Sex, Wife Led Marriage. Tagged: , , . 1 comment

Lately, I’ve taken a liking to waking cagedmonkey up in a unique way. I love going up, spooning him and whispering in his ear telling him good morning. I slide my hands under the covers, down his side, over his hip and around to his ass. His skin feels so good under my fingertips! His morning pleasure, instead of a hand job like some guys might get, is me gently sliding a finger in his ass and rubbing his prostate and making him moan. I can’t even begin to explain how much I’m in love with the reactions I get and the way his body responds to my soft, gentle penetration.

The other thing I’ve been researching lately is butt plugs. You all know me and when I start researching stuff! Hehe I’m starting to be ok with the idea of using a butt plug for pleasure occasionally. I’d love to hear your opinions on these, types you use, how you use them. Male and Female points of view are welcome!

My Well Used Sex Toy

Posted by Lady M on December 31, 2013
Posted in: KeyHolder, Male Chastity, Sex, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , , , . 5 comments

The other night started like any other night of tease and denial. I told cagedmonkey to get a list of toys and other things I wanted to play with. I had him bring down our neck & wrist cuffs to restrain him and put the blindfold on. It’s been awhile since we’ve used the blindfold so it was fun to pick and choose which toys I wanted to use and cagedmonkey had no idea what I was doing next. With his hands restrained I unlocked his JailBird and let him out of his cage.

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SportSheets neck & wrist restraints

I started out by lubing up the mini butt plug and cagedmonkey’s beautiful tight asshole. Yes, I love that ass of his, I’m sure you remember that from my previous ass post. He was blindfolded so he had no clue what I was inserting, a toy? the butt plug? the prostate massager? I just loved his reaction when I pushed it passed his tight opening. That gasp and moan that happens as the muscle is spread apart.

With his ass feeling filled up and his hands restrained I took the strap-on harness and put it just above his unlocked hard cock. I straddled him and sat down on the strap-on. I began riding the strap on on top of him while his cock flopped around behind me aching to feel me. Instead he just bumped against my ass as I bounced up and down, fucking myself with my dildo. Cagedmonkey was writhing around moaning as I rode myself to a nice orgasm 2 inches away from the cock that desperately wanted to be used.

I started talking to him, describing exactly what I was doing. Like using my dildo to cum and leaving his cock to lay there hard, aching and unused. I told him maybe I needed to have my ass filed up as well just like his. That’s when I grabbed his cock and lubed it up. I could tell even under the blindfold that his eyes were bugging in shock and his breathing got shorter and faster. I lifted up on my knees with the dildo still inserted, took his cock and found the tight sweet spot and sat ever so slowly and gently down taking his entire cock into my ass. He moaned and grunted so loud as I did. I slowly slid up and down and on the dildo and his cock, then faster and faster until I came again, I collapsed onto his chest, breathing heavy… my session was done.