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Edging All Night Long

Posted by Lady M on September 18, 2016
Posted in: Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , . 2 comments

You would think with that kind of title that I would have set myself an alarm and edged cagedmonkey all through the night. However, instead I made HIM edge himself, all night long… in my pussy! I unlocked him last night to tease him and get myself as much of him as I could since he’s leaving today on an overnight business trip. I gave him a pretty good teasing and edging but sitting between his legs on the bed and stroking him and making him watch ass he came so close to exploding over 8 months of cum on my huge boobs. I gave him an awfully nice tittie fuck (sorry guys, no pics!) And then I made him “sex me” as we’ve so loving started calling it. I just love how it feels when his big thick cock stretches my tight pussy. I love how it feels when he slides out and gives me those looooooong thrusts, pressing deep into my warm softness. It doesn’t even bother me one bit that he can only manage a few thrusts before he needs to stop and get himself under control before he cums without permission. It makes me feel good, actually, that I’ve gotten him to that point. I have teased, edged, tortured and denied him so much that he’s super sensitive and just ready to explode any minute. At one point when I made him edge a little further than he wanted (by humping back up at him) and I giggled as I said “aww I’m so mean to you.” Truth is, I know I’m not mean, I know this is what he wants, what I want, what WE want and I absolutely love it and get such a happy, joyful feeling from seeing his frustration. I have no idea why I love to see a man so frustrated at my hand but I do, I love it intensely. 🙂

Once we were done doing the sexing thing, we said it was time for bed. I had plans though, since he’s going to be gone and I won’t have time to physically play with him I decided he had to be edged all night. I certainly wasn’t going to wake up and do it so I required him to wake up through the night, get himself hard and use my pussy (while I was asleep or not) to edge himself, over and over again, all night long. I don’t know how many times it was that he woke up to spoon me and slide that horny hard cock in my pussy but I do remember how it felt. I admit, I loved being woken up to my pussy being stretched and feeling his cock running against my g-spot. I’m not even tired this morning from it, I thought I would be but I’m not. Which means I’m more likely to do something like this again in the future. 

Cagedmonkey may be going away for the night on business but that doesn’t mean I won’t be sending along a few things to help him remember who owns and controls his sexual pleasure. Not to mention, I’ll be overloading his inbox with sexy pictures and reminders of how much I love him, want him, desire him and love to tease and deny him. 

It’s Work For Us Too – Podcast Episode 3

Posted by Lady M on August 22, 2016
Posted in: Advice, D/s, Female Led Relationship, KeyHolder, Male Chastity, Podcast, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , , , . 3 comments

I often get asked by submissive (guys mostly) if I think they are doing a good job at pleasing their Mistress/Dominant partner. I honestly have to tell them, “I don’t know!” They will describe the things they do and they certainly seem pleasing to me. I even get asked for ideas on how to please their Mistress… that is the most difficult question because I am not their Dominant and everyone on this planet (and I assume on other planets lol) is different and what is pleasing to one person may not be pleasing to another – the most important thing here is communication. That’s what I’m talking about here, click to have a listen to my latest raw, unscripted Podcast.

As I said in my podcast here are a couple links to some posts I think would be helpful.

Praise & Reassurance

It’s the Little Things

A Little Tease Here, A Little Tease There

Tease Techniques

I’m sure there are other posts here, over the past almost 3 years that would be helpful. Feel free to use the search bar at the top right of the page and hopefully you can find something that will help you along on your journey. If not, send me a message and let’s chat! Thanks again for reading and listening and I look forward to hearing your thoughts so please feel free to comment!

Not Quite Half Way

Posted by Lady M on June 21, 2016
Posted in: Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , , . 8 comments

Today, for some odd reason, out of no where I was having a bit of “drop.” I was feeling off and emotional and REALLY missing cagedmonkey while he was at work. I could feel my thoughts race, it felt like a roller coaster. I even caught myself wondering if I should just make him cum and forget this whole denial thing. I missed him so much today that my mind was racing through ways I could feel him… Making him cum is a huge way to feel him and connect with him. It’s been 173 days since he’s had an orgasm… He’s not quite half way there yet.

I don’t really want him to cum and I’m feeling much better this evening but this whole thing isn’t that easy on a wife who happens to be a keyholder to her one and only love. Who she happens to REALLY, REALLY like sex with! Haha I really am living how incredibly horny cagedmonkey is, how badly he wants to cum when he’s being teased and edged. I will say that I don’t feel there is much difference between how horny he gets at 3 or 4 months to how horny he is now… Just sayin’

It might be time to do some extended lock up. Perhaps some No look, No touch? What do you think?

A Little Tease Here, A Little Tease There

Posted by Lady M on May 26, 2016
Posted in: Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , . 3 comments

As much as I would love to, I couldn’t possibly write about every time I tease cagedmonkey or every little thing we do. If I did I would have so many little micro posts on this blog haha. That’s one reason I like having Twitter, because we get to tweet out those sexy little tid bits!

So, I’m not going to get into the difficulties, again, about staying in someone else’s house and trying to be invisible so you don’t disrupt their life too much – I’m sure some of you get it. I do want to stress that, even in this situation, tease and a sense of control for both us, it’s still extremely important. We don’t have much opportunity but I try to find those little amounts that we do have and sneak in a tease here or there. Sometimes I send him up to play video games alone and keep the kids busy on a project just so I can do things like this – to remind him who’s in control. It also drives home the incredible horniness he has from being teased and denied for a almost 150 days!
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Ladies ask me all the time about how I keep him teased and what can they do so that their guy isn’t just locked up and forgotten about – because that’s the worst thing that could happen. Honestly, Ladies and gents, it’s the little things that keep it going and keep it fun. Just like it’s the little things in marriage, and we work everyday to keep that going… Having a guy in chastity or just controlling his orgasm without a cage is still work but it’s the fun kind of work! 🙂

I was talking to a friend about this stuff this morning too. He only wishes I had him locked in a cage, teased and denied for 150 days haha. But we talked about some of those little things and how they are needed to keep things going good! Even a quick grab of the cage and balls is a helpful reminder of who they belong to! 🙂
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Although I’m craving a good bondage and torture session (that’s for another post lol) these little reminders I give him help remind me that he is mine. He wears that cage for me, he submits to me because he is a strong man who loves me and trusts me. I feel like I am the lucky one to have such an amazing submissive man as my hubby who gives me his everything if, when and how I ask.

Stroking to Orgasm

Posted by Lady M on May 13, 2016
Posted in: Orgasm Denial, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , . 5 comments

The other evening before bed, cagedmonkey and I snuck in a little play time. I stroked him and teased him and edged his cock. I love seeing that anguish on his face, that deep need for release as I stroke his cock closer and closer, only to stop and leave him unfulfilled.

I know he misses having an orgasm and I know he is extremely horny after over 4 months of denial. I felt so bad and awfully devious the other night that I decided to let him get himself good and hard and stroke his cock. I even let him stroke to an orgasm… Unfortunately, it wasn’t HIS orgasm he was stroking to. I allowed him to stroke his cock, while I looked right into his eyes and masturbated myself to an awesome orgasm.

I forced him to continue looking at me the whole time and he was not allowed to stop stroking until I was finished and satisfied. In other words, I came three times while I forced him to keeping stroking and watching me cum, over and over.

I know he slept well that night!

Taking This Show on the Road

Posted by Lady M on May 11, 2016
Posted in: Male Chastity. Tagged: , , , , . 7 comments

A few of you know but most, I’m sure, do not. We recently moved again and we will be living in the midwest soon. We are currently in between homes which means all of our stuff is in storage and we are staying with other people… for about a month or so. This also makes tease, denial, cock cages and other fun kinky stuff very hard to accomplish. It’s been a rough week or so and now I’ve started homeschooling both of the kids. Since we aren’t even staying in the area we will be living in, it was pointless to enroll the kids in school for a month.

I have been trying very hard to add in little teases and edges here or there where I can. I will try to make cagedmonkey’s mornings very rough and frustrating by stroking and edging his cock so he spends most of the day dripping precum. The other day he dripped so much it went through his underwear and shorts! We have no toys with us because they are all packed in storage. It does make things difficult when I have no cuffs or rope or anything to use to restrain cagedmonkey. That’s something I know he loves that I do. He really does love that helpless feeling! I miss making him feel that way, too.

We still have about 4 weeks to go until we have our own home again… I know we are strong enough to make it but that doesn’t mean it is or will be easy. We are working hard to keep the kink going with the limited time we have and the extreme lack of privacy – we don’t even have a door that closes. Right now our family of four (plus the cats) is living in and sharing two small rooms in someone else’s home.

Sometimes I feel like I’m letting cagedmonkey down. I know I’m doing my best to try and keep everyone happy and content to make it through these next few weeks.

Horny Watching Myself

Posted by Lady M on April 19, 2016
Posted in: Orgasm Denial, Pictures, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , . 5 comments

This morning I got the urge to masturbate and decided I’d take the opportunity to tease the hell out of cagedmonkey while he was at work too! It’s so much fun when I’m feeling this way. I started out sending him pictures of my pussy, simply asking him:

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Hungry?

Then I sent him a couple others, including theses big beautiful things:

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As I was taking the pictures and posing my bits in a an appetizing way, I realized I was completely turning myself on. I felt myself liking how I looked and knowing that cagedmonkey would be extremely hard in his cage from looking at the pics. I got myself more and more turned on as I set my camera to selfie and just watched myself masturbate. I felt that warmth grow in my pussy and I knew I just had to cum! I had already packed my wand… But that didn’t stop me haha I found the bin that it was in and dug it out because I’d gotten myself so freaking horny that I needed it! So I sent him another picture to let him know I was so horny I HAD to get my wand out of the bin.

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I decided since I liked watching myself so much today and it was getting me so damn horny that I’d take a little video for him, so I sent him that. After I came nice and hard I sent him a good spread pussy picture showing the warm gooey wetness I wanted him to come and clean up.

I just know he’s going to have a wonderfully frustrated day today! 🙂

Good Morning Edge

Posted by Lady M on April 5, 2016
Posted in: Male Chastity. Tagged: , , , , . 12 comments

It’s now been over 3 months since cagedmonkey has been denied. I’ve had so much fun teasing him, edging him and using him for my pleasure. For the last month, maybe, I’ve gotten so much enjoyment out of edging him first thing in the morning. It used to be that it took him a bit to get going first thing in the morning and that was always the time we could have longer sex. It used to be that he couldn’t cum right away in the mornings… Well… I get him right to the edge and on the verge of a ruined orgasm almost every morning now… In a matter of a minute. Probably not even a full minute sometimes, seconds!

I seriously enjoy hearing the torment in his moans and the begging under his breath. It really turns me and I even get to the point of giggling. Sometimes I giggle so hard and even bust out laughing because I’m seriously loving how much I am controlling him. Right then in that moment, he is putty in my hands. I can make him what I want him to be. I love it so much!!!!

When I’m not using his cock and teasing and edging him, I leave him caged. That doesn’t mean I’m not teasing him at all while caged, I’m just doing it in a much different way. He usually ends up with a pretty big “rooty” after I’ve had time driving him crazy, taking his cage in my pussy and cumming all over it while he desperately wants to feel my pussy squeezing his cock and all he feels is the hard steel bars of his Jail Bird.

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Look how his big cock pushes so hard against that cage, pulling it away from his body, yanking on his horny aching balls! I’m smiling right now just thinking about it!

Locked in the Bitch Tamer

Posted by cagedmonkey on March 17, 2016
Posted in: Bondage, D/s, FemDom, Oral Sex, Orgasm Denial, Sex toy, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , , , , , , . 8 comments

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ML and I have been enjoying my days off during the week. Not having the kids around has allowed us to have some fun that is edgier than what we can normally do (even with the kids sleeping). This last day off, ML took the opportunity to give me some time locked in the Bitch Tamer stockade.

I got into position, and ML cuffed and locked my wrists and ankles to the steel frame. Then she took a belt and used it to strap my hips down tight to the waist pad so that I couldn’t move at all. It was very exhilarating to have no control over what My Lady could do to me, no way to move to avoid (or get more of) any sensations ML wanted me to feel.

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ML began by getting her paddle from the dresser and giving me a good spanking. She started off with some semi-gentle swats, but soon her excitement drove her to spank me harder. The paddle was hitting me with a loud smack, and I felt the sting beginning to build. Each swat hurt just a little more than the last, and I was soon wishing that I could move even just the littlest bit to react to the pain. The waist pad and belt held fast, holding me still and giving ML a nice easy target to aim for.

Only after I began to yelp after each swat did ML finally show me some mercy. I could feel the heat from my nicely reddened ass as she walked around me, dragging her fingers across my back and making me shiver. ML reached into our “bondage bin” and took out some rope and walked around to the back of the stockade. I had only a moment to wonder what she was doing, then I felt her hands on my cock and balls. She wrapped the rope around the base of my balls and cock, looped it around the tip of my cock just under the head, and then pulled the rope up my back and tied it to the belt strapped across my back. This pulled my cock backwards between my legs, providing a little extra ache to my already frustrated and desperate cock.

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Once she had me tied up, ML sat on the edge of the bed, just barely within reach of my face. She spread her legs, showing me her extremely wet pussy. I instinctively tried to lunge forward, but restrained as I was, I could barely move. The only thing I succeeded in doing was causing the rope to tug on my cock and balls. ML looked down at me with a knowing smile. “Come on,” she said, giving her pussy a pat, obviously instructing me to try my best to lick her.

I strained as hard as I could, pulling my cock backwards even farther in the process. I was just barely able to reach her pussy, licking her clit with the tip of my tongue. I could tell ML was enjoying teasing me in this way because I could feel her pussy pulsing from just this little amount of contact I was able to manage. After a minute or two, ML leaned back, moving her pussy just out of range. She rubbed her clit, bringing herself to orgasm just inches away from my face, forcing me to watch every moment of her orgasm.

When ML had satisfied herself, she turned her attention back to torturing me. She untied the rope and began to stroke my cock, which was already dripping with precum. She stroked me hard and fast, and I tried with all of my might to thrust down towards her. It was God awful frustrating to not be able to thrust into her hand; after two and a half months without an orgasm, I needed a good hard fast cum. Not being able to move, I was completely depending on ML to deliver that badly needed orgasm… I knew deep down, however, that it wouldn’t likely be the case.

ML continued stroking me, taking me right to the edge of orgasm… and she continued stroking me until juuuuuuuust before my cock began to spasm. She let go at the perfect moment, before my orgasm started but too late for it to stop. I groaned and my body shuddered as I suffered through an intense ruined orgasm, trying to move even an inch just to get some sort of touch to make the orgasm a little more pleasurable. But the cum just poured out of me with no orgasm whatsoever.

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ML still wasn’t done with me; she was going to get her money’s worth with her monkey locked up. When my cock was finished with its ruined cum, she began to stroke me again. This time I was even more desperate to thrust into her hand, because now I knew what was coming… ML was going to ruin me again. I couldn’t thrust towards her, I couldn’t shy away… I was just there, subject to the ruined orgasm that I knew was only seconds away.

The second ruined one was worse. Once ML realized that I knew it was coming, she dragged it out even longer; she slowed her strokes, pushing me right up to the edge and holding me there for a few moments before slowly pushing me enough to just barely start my orgasm. Then she gently released my cock from her grip; the absence of touch was excruciating! I tried as hard as I could to thrust anywhere, rub my cock against anything… all I could manage was to shake the stockade a little bit. When my cock began to throb, I hung my head in defeat, and I had no choice but to watch as the cum dribbled out of my cock once again.

I think ML was interested in playing more, but unfortunately “real life problems” began to kick in – my elbow began to feel stiff and painful. It’s going to be so great when I don’t have to worry about my elbow hurting during extended bondage sessions! Although, maybe it was a blessing… who knows how many more ruined orgasms I would have had to endure before ML was through with me!

Denied Orgasm for a Year, What Do You Worry About?

Posted by Lady M on March 9, 2016
Posted in: Male Chastity, Orgasm Denial, Tease & Denial. Tagged: , , , , . 1 comment

Cagedmonkey and I were talking this morning and I realized I was so, so happy and a bit turned on hearing about how horny he was. He was telling me about how my using him for sex last night and cumming so hard on him was frustrating for him. That it was driving him absolutely crazy to feel my pussy, only to be locked right back up afterwards. Feeling me one minute and then continuing to be teased and feeling the steel the next was driving him into a deeper hornier state. If you’ve read and know anything about me at all, it’s that I love being a cocktease. Knowing that he’s getting increasingly horny because of me is such a turn on for me.

I’ll admit, this morning, there was a bit of relief as he was telling me about the state of his horniness. After almost two and a half months of a year long orgasm denial stint there is a little worry that things will get stagnant, that they will just become the norm and that his horny wouldn’t continue to grow. So far, it seems that is not happening! We must be doing something right, changing things up just enough that we don’t get that feeling of it being normal.

I think it comes down to not being locked 24/7 and me using him when I want, yet keeping him locked when not in use. However, also taking the time to take him out and even if I’m not having sex with him, teasing him and edging him often and then again… locking him up. I think making him service me much more is also a huge boost in keeping the horny on the rise.

There is no way any of this would be fun or exciting if I left him locked up and denied for an entire year. It’s so much more fun and gets me going, knowing that what we are doing is actually increasing how horny he is.