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  1. I was wondering what your thoughts were on transmutation. Is it possible to take all of that horny rush and apply it to something not sexual? I love the horny feeling, but sometimes can feel either out of sync with my mistress, or I can feel like the horniness is over taking my focus. But then, I have a let down after sex, when the horniness washes away. Ideally, I could hold on to the horniness without letting it overtake me or feeling overly depleted when the chastity period ends.

    • You may be experiencing “subdrop” – ML wrote a post on domdrop, which is similar but for a dominant instead of submissive (https://monkeyinacage.com/when-the-other-shoe-drops-domdrop/).

      It’s not such a bad thing to feel “overtaken” by horniness if that’s what you want. If you prepare for the subdrop ahead of time and communicate your feelings, I find it helps to prevent it from getting too severe.

      • I will read more about subgroup, for sure. We’ve been playing on and off for 20 years. I definitely love the horny feeling 3-7 days out, and totally hear you on that. It gives me mixed feelings to try to push through that feeling to longer term chastity, or start over so I can again feel the horny feelings 3-7 days out. I’ve also noticed the longer I go without an orgasm, the bigger the “drop” afterwards, and I don’t get back on track. But one side effect of the horniness is lack of focus, it it’s hard to keep going through a week long cycle of ups and downs.

        Lately, I’ve been pretty undisciplined and unfocused in my personal life. There have been a few occasions in the the past we have played for longer stretches (up to 2 months without an orgasm). The really long stretches have been few, and sometimes it has coincided with the wife have a lower sex drive. Sometimes, when I’ve pushed more than 14 days out, I’ve noticed more of the nirvana of wanting to keep playing longer, rather than starting over. I’ve started to want that more lately. But I also want to be realistic, and since the start of the year, I’ve mostly decreased orgasms/MB on a month-to-month basis rather than be too pure. Still, I’d like to find a way of pushing through 2 weeks, so that I am not too unfocused, but responsive. I know this is common stuff for people who like denial.

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