I’ve been doing a little thinking about how I want our next chastity and orgasm denial period to go. If you have been following along on our journey, the last period of denial lasted just over 100 days. I had denied cagedmonkey from late last year until our anniversary and vow renewal on Jan 18th. It was fun keeping him so horny and frustrated that long. It’s amazing having him like putty in my hands because he’s so incredibly horny and aching to have me allow him orgasm.
I want to make sure that I explain when I say chastity, that just means that we will continue incorporating the chastity device into our everyday life. Cagedmonkey is in his device just about everyday and has been since October 2013. With the exception of our two week vacation last month. Just because he is in a device does not mean he’s automatically denied orgasm. It means I control if and when he will have sexual pleasure and or orgasm.
I also want to make sure that I explain when I say orgasm denial it means I control when cagedmonkey will be allowed to have a pleasurable orgasmic experience with ejaculation. That does not necessarily mean he will be caged 24/7. It does not mean I won’t milk him or give him an ruined orgasms. It simply means I will lock and unlock the cage to use my toy as I see fit. After all, I do recall me being the keyholder & Domme in this relationship and I am in control. 🙂
As I said our last stint of denial lasted over 100 days which was over 3 months. I don’t see any reason why cagedmonkey can’t make it 6 months. His last orgasm was January 31, 2015 and my plan is to tease, torment, use, abuse and deny him until mid summer. I think we figured 6 months was around July 31st so that’s where I’m aiming. I know a lot will happen in that time. I’m sure we will find a way to get some new toys to play with and I hope to work on my rope skills because I would love to get hubby into some fun predicament bondage. I really think his steel collar will come in handy for that.
Cagedmonkey's locking steel collar
I’m excited to share this next challenge with you since hubby has never gone that long without an orgasm!
Good luck to you both on your further journey. Cagedmonkey looks v. sexy in his collar btw!
Thank you! I think so too! I used it as a handle the other night while having sex, sooooooo HOT!
Good luck. Looking forward to the updates. Love the collar.
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M
Speaking from my experiences being denied my my sweet bride, six months is doable. I’ve gone nine months. However, I’m an old fart who came to the conclusion that the constant arousal of T&D is better than the quick flash of delight of an orgasm. The sooner Caged Monkey gains that insight, the easier it’ll be for him… If he does, will you be happy for him, or will it upset the space-time continuum?
Thanks for the comment Harry, always great to hear from you!
Haha oh I think we both agree that the high of the arousal is super mega fantastic… I think I’m the one who breaks before him wanting to feel that hot load of cum filling up my pussy 🙂 hehe
We fully think 6 months is possible and I think it will be some fantastic fun! 🙂
The thought of six months is both excruciatingly exciting and utterly terrifying (which, I suppose, is why it is so exciting).
Hey Al, yup that’s kinda how we feel! Scary and exciting! 🙂
How can you resist Cagedmonkey that long? I don’t know what will I do if my wife resisted for that length of time without me having sex/orgasm. I like watching the Best premium porn sites and it sends chills in my whole body seeing her after watching some videos.
Thanks for your comment, Trust me it’s not easy going without him!! We are aching for each other and we have no need to watch any porn. We just create our own real life porn.
good to hear you were not going to go AWOL on us. I really didn’t think so but good to her that I will have some fun reading for at lease another 6 months. Love your blog!
Thanks KP!
We’re not going anywhere! The kinky blogosphere is stuck with us now lol 🙂 we’ve got too many kinky thoughts and fantasies not to continue on trying things and enjoying our exploration.
It’s always great tho hear from you!