ML and I have asked each other that at least three times already today, as we think about what this New year holds for us. We are expecting so much change in the next twelve months (we’ll be moving into a new house, as well as adding some exciting new features to our blog), but many things will stay the same (we will both continue to be horny fuckers who can’t keep our hands off each other).
And, oh yeah, that other important thing… My Lady is going to deny me orgasms for the entire year.
ML and I have been taking the last week to enjoy just being free from worrying about an accidental cum, having some good hot sex and throwing in some romantic love making just for the hell of it. 🙂 I’ve had more orgasms in the past week than I’ve had over the past few months – which doesn’t say a lot, considering I was denied since the end of October. But in the back of our minds the whole time was that one thought – “Are we really insane for trying this?”
It hasn’t really hit either of us yet that my orgasm last night was the last one I’m going to have for a VERY long time. ML doesn’t have to worry about that, she’ll be cumming whenever she wants, with my help or without it. But she does have to deal with the fact that I won’t be cumming, since she does actually like it. I, on the other hand, am going to be suffering through it. The only question is how long will it take me to truly want this to end.
Ok, maybe there is one more question.
Are we crazy?
No, you’re not crazy. You’re brave and very kinky and you are taking a fantasy and seeing if you can actually make it real. It’s not like you’re doing something in which you can be physically harmed or do permanent damage. The truth, of course, is that if you find it actually is too much for you, you can always opt out. But from what I know from reading your blog, neither of you will do that lightly. You are going to see this through. You are going to be extremely frustrated. You are going to be used.
If I had the same opportunity, I would jump at the chance. And then my heart would be pounding.
May you have a wonderful, chaste, and frustrating New Year.
I can’t really answer if you’re crazy or not (because I for myself and my wife neither aren’t into orgasm control). But it will be interesting to follow your way through the upcoming year!
Have you checked with a doctor about whether it’s safe to withhold orgasm that long? Just wondering…I’ve just seen opinions on both sides. Yes, you’re a little crazy…but, in a good way! Good luck!
Funny story about that actually… We actually did visit a urologist before I started wearing a device to make sure there were no health risks… That’s a story for a post on its own!
As far as orgasms go, we’ve posted about this before – if you scroll through the “Advice” category, you should be able to find a few from the past that we’ve written. Bottom line – a) there’s no definitive risk to long term ejaculation denial, and b) denying me orgasms doesn’t necessarily mean not draining me of cum periodically…. milkings and ruined orgasms are always on the table. 🙂
And if your body needs to ejaculate, you’ll eventually have a wet dream if nothing else happens.
Thanks Naga, you’re exactly right! 🙂
I’m already looking forward to that blog post in December!
“It was finally time to unlock, but then ML asked me if I would like another year. I said, “yes” without even thinking about it.”
Let the games begin!
Oh boy! 🙂 you know, I’m in control and I certainly could push him longer if I choose to!
Hi Monkey
What’s the worst that can happen. Apart from you going insane, obviously. 🙂 And think of all those lovely ruined orgasms you’ll probably have… because let’s face it, eventually you’ll be having them whether you like it or not! Good luck and Happy New Year
Robert Anthony
Ofcourse you are not crazy!!
I am very curious thought what it means for your short term submissiveness towards ML now you know there will be no short term reward via an orgasm.
Good luck and a Happy New Year 🙂
I stumbled across your blog recently and the way you two use chastity is so hot, and has really informed my own interest. I have only gone 6 weeks without an orgasm so the idea of going for a year excites me and terrifies me in equal measure. I am really looking forward to reading your ongoing story and descriptions of what this experience is like.
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Trust me when I say that I share the feelings of excitement & terror at the thought of what is ahead of me!