I’m not sure if it’s a good thing or a bad thing, but I’m starting to get used to wearing the cage for extended periods of time.
This week in particular has flown by pretty quickly. Both My Lady and I have been slightly preoccupied with RL things, but I still can’t deny that wearing the cage is starting to feel normal. I’ve been in the BC since Tuesday, and I swear it doesn’t feel like it’s been that long. Don’t get me wrong, I’m still as horny as hell. What I mean is that I’m not sitting around thinking about how long the cage has been on because it feels like it’s been a long time. It’s just another part of my life now.
Obviously, getting more comfortable wearing the cage for extended periods is a good thing…. in theory. In practice? It could end up being bad for me, at least for my sanity. If ML decides that, due to my newfound comfort in extended lockup periods, that she wants to push me even further than before and take a step up in scale from weeks to months… will I be able to handle that?
Will I even have a choice???
I have no doubt that, over time, your time caged/denied is going to get longer, and longer and longer… But fear not, after a couple of months, it doesn’t change much… It’s smooth sailing then, because you realize that being aroused constantly is a real high, better than an orgasm.
So is it a bad (good?) Thing when your Keyholder momentarily forgets your wearing it? Hehe
I had a moment today thinking something yummy and sexual and then had to remind myself “oh he’s in his cage!” *giggle*
The longer you are locked, the more you’ll enjoy this lifestyle. Once ML starts enjoying taking an oral sex from you without releasing you, I bet she’ll never release you often, At least this has been my experience. Now I’m so used to be locked, that I feel more comfortable & natural while I’m locked. Without my cage, I feel i’m missing one of my organs!
My Lady already loves to take advantage of my oral sex skills, almost as much as I love showing them off for her!
I agree with Hhaversackers. After a couple of months in the cage, you are 1/2 way to orgasm and leaking like a sieve. The euphoric high begins to feel better than the letdown after an orgasm. Once she starts pegging you, you just might not want to orgasm and ruin the subspace you’re in.