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Real “Throuple’s” Story: Our Nervous but Hot First BDSM Event at a Sex Club PT 1
Read our honest, steamy account of our first time in the "sex area" at a BDSM sex club as a throuple - voyeurism, public teasing, edging, and more.
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Coffee Talk: Guys, Are You Feeling Ok? I’m Just Checking In With You
You are allowed to be comfortable in your own skin. Every inch of it. The soft bits, the wrinkly bits, the bits that jiggle when you laugh.…
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How it is Spending the Weekend Together ENM and We went to the Sex Club For the First Time!
We all have thoughts and feelings and impressions from what the three of us experienced together and our first experience at the BDSM party…
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Vulnerability: Can You Experience Fear and Feel Safe at the Same Time?
Feeling vulnerable with anyone can be intimidating. Handing someone the power to decide exactly how you will feel and what you will experience…
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People You Know Who Don’t Know
As I was sitting here enjoying my dinner, I starting thinking… Holy shit! IS THAT MY BOYFRIEND’S BROTHER IN LAW? Did my my…
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Coffee Talk: What if I’m Not Enough?
Sometimes I feel inadequate. What if I'm not enough? Not strong enough. Not stern enough. Not assertive enough. Not strict enough.
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When the Disconnect Hits
I've been feeling a little bit disconnected from my kinky side of things lately.
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Guacamole, Glockenspiel, Gremlin – Shit, what was my safeword again?
Having a safeword, and the trust that goes with it is what allows us both to push our limits a little. I know that if something is going too…
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Coffee talk: Being the fluffer
There is an incredible feeling when she tells me to get his cock ready for her. I love being the fluffer.
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Reconnecting with the Kink Community: Our First Meetup After 5 Years
After 5.5 years away, we dove back into the local kink community with a welcoming meetup that went way past bedtime. Laughter, new friends,…