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Can Tease and Orgasm Denial Deepen Intimacy?
Exploring tease and orgasm denial within ethical non monogamy, power exchange, and female led relationships. A personal look at anticipation,…
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Coffee Talk: The unexpected little things in the BDSM lifestyle
As I was enjoying my coffee this morning I was reflecting on an early experience… I am reflecting on something that happened the first time…
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Why “Never” Becomes “Maybe” in BDSM: Understanding Hard Limits
Recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about hard limits in BDSM and how they can change over time and whether I like that or not. When we started…
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When did you learn about Sub Drop and Aftercare?
I have incorporated BDSM and kink in my life for as long as I can remember. I feel like I was fairly knowledgeable. After I met Michele and we…
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Coffee Talk: 2 for 1 Special on Cuckolds
This morning I was sitting here enjoying my coffee and I got to thinking about this whole “pussy free” thing that we are really starting to…
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Barriers
We don’t always get what we feel we need – a statement that rings true not only with chastity & denial, but also life in…
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Dominate Me, Control Me, Force Me, Fulfill MY Fantasy
Most of the time Male Chastity, Female domination, BDSM and things like that are often fantasized about by a man. It’s those fantasies…
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Coffee Talk – I would suck that dick
As I was enjoying my coffee this morning, I was chatting with Michele like we do every morning… I was up earlier than she was (I live in an…
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Discovering a kink I didn’t know I had?
Have you ever discovered that you have had a kink for a long time and you didn’t realize it? It is really interesting to me that I have…
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Does the Thought of Causing Someone Pain Excite You?
poppet asked an amazing question in a comment and I really wanted to address it in a post because it’s not as simple as “Hi, I’m…