I ran across this article on Yahoo and it started me thinking that ML and I must seem like a huge outlier. I mean, we are probably as content as we’ve ever been in our marriage, and we very often – in fact, regularly – go more than a week without having sex.
Then again, that’s by design. In fact, our chastity lifestyle has caused us to redefine what “sex” is for us. Of course, PIV-intercourse counts, but there is so much more that we do that ends up making the whole “cock & pussy” thing almost a minimal part of our sex life.
Damn fucking good, but still minimal.
Take this morning, for example. ML and I woke up a little late, so we were rushing around a little bit getting me ready for work… but I still had time to kneel in front of her to show my submission to her. And she uses that time to tease me with her beautiful tits, making me want them but also making me wait until she was ready for me to have them. It was a small moment, but it have both of us a sexual charge that lasted well into the day.
Wouldn't this keep you horny all day long?
My Lady and I “have sex” in so many ways. We can do an intense domination scene with bondage and pegging, or just simple snuggling and kissing in bed…. it’s all sex for us. Even just a simple smile and a knowing glance can have that sexual edge to it. (And yes… I just did it, and it was great!)
So, I guess we actually have sex more than once a week. In fact, we are pretty much having sex with each other all throughout the day. That still makes us an outlier, though… incredibly happy, in spite of all the sex we have. 🙂
How funny … I saw that same article and thought the very same thing. Was even going to post about …. now i don’t have to. just love your stuff!
You can still post about it 🙂
Funnily enough we just came off an 8 day drought… but fairly often weeks can go by without even PIV intercourse. One thing I will say though, now that we have PIV so much less, when it happens (or rather when Mistress R lets it happen) we both enjoy it a lot more than we used to, when it was just an ‘everyday’ thing. Guy’s who don’t live this way really don’t appreciate how good it feels to be inside a nice wet pussy, or how it feels to hear ‘I want you to cum inside me’.
Hi Cagedmonkey,
i too am often at a loss when thinking about how to describe Owner and my sex-life together – which i regard as good even though the last time i was actually inside of Her was well over 5 years ago. Instead she sometimes penetrates me with Her strapon or fist but for the most part uses my tongue or bits of my body as Her sex toy until She cums. If at the time i happen to have been released from chastity by Her She will then make me cum bt repeatedly spanking/beating my exposed testicles – it’s a pretty intense way to be unloaded!
i’d say we have an exciting and pretty active sex life but then i guess others might say, hey over 5 years without being inside your partners pussy is quite a while! Personally, i genuinely don’t miss it.
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