Although life has been exceptionally busy, we are still around. It seems like 2020 has started out one of the craziest years of our lives. With injuries, kid issues, hubby’s surgery, “vacation” and then this whole thing going on in the world. It’s a bit unbelievable actually. It’s even comical at times.
We’ve had zero to little time to think about anything kinky in the past few months. You’d think that with hubby and I having essential jobs we’d be even more stressed out… Funny thing is, since I’m working from home right now I’ve had way more time to think about hubby and chat with him and tease him through text. I can even sneak away (since schools are closed and the kids are gone too!) sometimes and get pictures and have been turned on and excited to drive him crazy!
Hubby has still been denied since our anniversary in January and it’s still my plan to keep him orgasm denied for the year. I’ve enjoyed having him out of his cage enough to edge for me sometimes, and to have sex with him when I feel like it. He’s been doing something recently again and that’s getting on his knees for me. When we started this whole thing he would get on his knees every day and tell me who’s he was, that he was mine and no one else. Lately, he’s been doing that and I love it!
He’s also been taking time to kiss and love and worship different parts of my body. He’s remembering that it’s not all about intercourse and that sex can be in many forms. It’s feels extremely good to have him loving all the parts of me! It’s been a lot of fun finding time to get in those little things that remind each other that we are still enjoying our life together. That we still enjoy the kinky, even if we can’t get as kinky as we want due to the kids being older.
I know we both miss it and wish we had time for it… The kids won’t be kids forever, they won’t need us forever. I’m trying to remember this is temporary. They are only ours to enjoy and do things with for a few more years and if we keep pushing them away we will miss these last few years. I DO want time for hubby and I but I know the time we do get together will grow as the kids get even older.
As bad as this whole thing is in the world, it’s been a blessing for us as a couple and a time for us to reconnect to our tease and denial and fun times. It’s also helped to open some communication and while we know we don’t have an the crew time in the world we at least have been able to talk about what we are missing and what we’d like to be doing.
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I’m glad things are settling down a bit. I wish you a better end to 2020 than it’s started. Stay healthy and enjoy each other. Cherish these times with your children because they do disappear all too quickly. Suddenly your children will be adults.
You’re so right! Soon they’ll be off and gone and while we will have me with each other we will begin to see them less and less. It’s just how life works!
Dear Lady M and Caged Monkey,
I discovered your blog around summertime last year and have gradually ‘binged read’ my way through every single entry from when you started until this most recent post. Thank you for sharing this part of your lives, I have found reading your blog to be erotic, entertaining, thought provoking and educational.
My wife and I also have children and can certainly emphasise with the difficulties in having alone time and then the inclination when we finally do!! Not of course would we have it any other way.
We have occasionally played chastity and denial games as well as intentionally ruined orgasms for me. Knowing that my wife is stimulating me with the expressed intention of ruining my orgasm when it happens is fun and frustrating, sometimes she’ll give me a couple of extra strokes letting me think she has changed her mind … and then stop!! Like many, I would like to do more but I’m grateful for what I get anyway.
I have a question that I do not recall being discussed in your blog. CM has often edged himself as required but would you Lady M ever instruct him to ruin his own orgasm and do you CM feel you could manage to do this? Personally I think I would find it very difficult and I dare not even hint at the idea to my wife!
Thanks again both for sharing. Stay well in these unprecedented times, we are getting through it here in the UK and you certainly will too in the US.
Looking forward to reading so long as you are happy to write it!
Philip
Hey there Philip
Thanks for the comment! I’ll respond soon!
Please, please do not let him cum for this one year…No ruined, no full, no nothing. I know I wont be his favorite person but going a year without one ejaculation is really hot., I would take his place in a heartbeat…My wife is far nice at times!
Yeah I’m the one who couldn’t make it last time… I just missed the connection so much!