I’ve been having a bit of fun teasing cagedmonkey today. Of course, because of it, my pussy is awfully wet. I cannot stress how much fun it is and how important I think it is to have this with a boy in chastity. Not only chastity but more so with someone who is being denied orgasm. Tease and denial play is a little work on the teasing partners part but it literally can take just a minute or two throughout the day. Some physical play, if possible and maybe more importantly the mental play that comes from the language we use.
A little bit ago, the kids were playing Minecraft, so I texted cagedmonkey and told him to go in the bedroom and get my toy nice and hard because I wanted to tease and edge him. Yes, I was quite blunt about it, haha. So off he went and a minute or two later he texted me to say, “he’s ready for you ma’am.” I snuck off to the bedroom and pushed cagedmonkey back on the bed. I had his cock in one hand, a nipple in the other and was simulating pegging him. It was actually so fucking hot to look down and see my big boobs as I looked down at his cock. Like, so hot I had to take pictures to share with you all.
Lady M's view
It really was just a few minutes of teasing and I stroked him to the edge a few times as I pushed my hips into him. Simulating that pegging thrust while pinching his nipples, made me really get into it, even for those few seconds.
Teasing your man does not need to involve a whole lot of planning or time. I do think it’s something that needs to be done. I couldn’t imagine enjoying this with my hubby if chastity meant “lock it and leave it” or if denial meant “ignore it like it doesn’t exist.” Both of those things wouldn’t work for either of us. We have kids and we still sneak in some hot minutes here or there. That’s really all it takes. I’ve got him to the point of whimpering today just when I lean above him to kiss him as I’m walking out of the room. I love hearing him moan and whimper, knowing that his entire body is aching for me. I’m sure remembering last night when I used his cock to fill me up as I came nice and hard doesn’t help his horniness. I can imagine being made to please me until I cum 3 or 4 times and then being denied must make the fact that he’s been denied about 3 and a half months really frustrating.
And it’s only noon! 🙂 I’ve got another 12 hours to play with him.
Teasing is a crucial part of our sexual repertoire. I’m pretty damned sure that things would go all to hell without it. It’s a significant part of our intimacy and something that we both look forward to. If I had to chose between no teasing/lots of orgasms, and teasing/no more orgasms ever, I’d opt for the teasing. Fortunately I don’t have to chose.
Thanks for your comment, I don’t think things would be the same for us without teasing either.
Teasing is probably my favorite time of every day. Beyond frustrating him, which it does, it’s a really fast way to reconnect sexually. We might not have time for much some days, but there is always time for some teasing. 🙂
Yes! Like I said, even some verbal (our text messages as it is these days) teasing makes a big difference in keeping that connection. Because hubby works midnights I even love to schedule text messages to be delivered while I’m sleeping!
My favorite tease right now is inspecting his PA to make sure that it is healing properly. I mean, it needs to be hard for me to see all of it, right? 🙂
Of course! How else will you get a thorough look? Hehe