Coffee Talk: What if I’m Not Enough?
Sometimes I feel inadequate. What if I'm not enough? Not strong enough. Not stern enough. Not assertive enough. Not strict enough.
Reconnecting with the Kink Community: Our First Meetup After 5 Years
After 5.5 years away, we dove back into the local kink community with a welcoming meetup that went way past bedtime. Laughter, new friends,…
Coffee Talk: Local Kink community & Munches
Hoping to connect with local kinksters through munches and events. Excited for the journey to Colette Austin. Building fun, real kinky…
Can Tease and Orgasm Denial Deepen Intimacy?
Exploring tease and orgasm denial within ethical non monogamy, power exchange, and female led relationships. A personal look at anticipation,…
Why “Never” Becomes “Maybe” in BDSM: Understanding Hard Limits
Recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about hard limits in BDSM and how they can change over time and whether I like that or not. When we started…
Coffee Talk: 2 for 1 Special on Cuckolds
This morning I was sitting here enjoying my coffee and I got to thinking about this whole “pussy free” thing that we are really starting to…
Dominate Me, Control Me, Force Me, Fulfill MY Fantasy
Most of the time Male Chastity, Female domination, BDSM and things like that are often fantasized about by a man. It’s those fantasies…
Does the Thought of Causing Someone Pain Excite You?
poppet asked an amazing question in a comment and I really wanted to address it in a post because it’s not as simple as “Hi, I’m…
Coffee Talk: Am I Weird for Getting Off on That?
Good morning! I was sitting here enjoying this nice warm cup of coffee… Not freezing after this winter storm, and thinking to…
The Power of withholding: What He Gets & What He Doesn’t
I’ve been thinking a lot, recently, about what it means to truly control pleasure, not necessarily by force, but by intention. By choosing…