How it is Spending the Weekend Together ENM and We went to the Sex Club For the First Time!
We all have thoughts and feelings and impressions from what the three of us experienced together and our first experience at the BDSM party…
People You Know Who Don’t Know
As I was sitting here enjoying my dinner, I starting thinking… Holy shit! IS THAT MY BOYFRIEND’S BROTHER IN LAW? Did my my…
Coffee Talk: What if I’m Not Enough?
Sometimes I feel inadequate. What if I'm not enough? Not strong enough. Not stern enough. Not assertive enough. Not strict enough.
Reconnecting with the Kink Community: Our First Meetup After 5 Years
After 5.5 years away, we dove back into the local kink community with a welcoming meetup that went way past bedtime. Laughter, new friends,…
Coffee Talk: Local Kink community & Munches
Hoping to connect with local kinksters through munches and events. Excited for the journey to Colette Austin. Building fun, real kinky…
Can Tease and Orgasm Denial Deepen Intimacy?
Exploring tease and orgasm denial within ethical non monogamy, power exchange, and female led relationships. A personal look at anticipation,…
Why “Never” Becomes “Maybe” in BDSM: Understanding Hard Limits
Recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about hard limits in BDSM and how they can change over time and whether I like that or not. When we started…
Coffee Talk: 2 for 1 Special on Cuckolds
This morning I was sitting here enjoying my coffee and I got to thinking about this whole “pussy free” thing that we are really starting to…
Dominate Me, Control Me, Force Me, Fulfill MY Fantasy
Most of the time Male Chastity, Female domination, BDSM and things like that are often fantasized about by a man. It’s those fantasies…
Does the Thought of Causing Someone Pain Excite You?
poppet asked an amazing question in a comment and I really wanted to address it in a post because it’s not as simple as “Hi, I’m…