I grew up in a fairly traditional household. While I wasn’t kept from anything, I didn’t have much exposure to things that could have been considered “outside the lines.” Hell, I didn’t get truly drunk until I was about 23!
[Note to Michele when she reads this: I didn’t know the exact age, so I just guessed in order to make a point 😂]
So, you can imagine my surprise when I started to find men’s asses sexually attractive.
Wait a Minute…
It all started very innocently… ok, maybe not innocently. Let’s say unexpected. Michele had just helped me with a little bit of “grooming” and she took a picture to post on the blog. When she showed it to me, I had the strangest thought:
“That looks sexy as fuck.”
Part of myself tried to justify the reaction as just being appreciative that it was a nice picture of me – the fact that it was me somehow made it safe. But I also couldn’t deny the fact that I was sexually aroused by a picture of a man like that. I tried to brush it off as just a weird thing that happened… but it never really truly went away.
It Stays…
“But… I’m straight! I love boobs! I love how Michele’s pussy feels (when I’m allowed to feel it)! How can I be straight and get turned on by a picture of a guy’s ass? A nice round ass, bent over, with his balls hanging nicely, that spot between exposed, kinda slutty in a way but also teasing…. WAIT, WHAT AM I SAYING??”
The more times it came up, the stronger my reactions and thoughts would get into I couldn’t deny it any longer – I liked it. I liked the look of it. It excited me. It turned me on.
“Well, I guess I’m gay, then? Or bi? What am I? ” was my first response. But then, I had a realization: why do I even have to label this? Why can’t I just be Jon – a guy who is into teasing, orgasm denial & control, BBWs with nice big boobs… and also guys with nice round asses?
As I allowed myself to be more comfortable with this concept, I started realizing that other things about guys turned me on, too: I began to “appreciate” nice looking cocks. And I was okay with it… even when I started feeling the urge to do more than just look. But it was all just fantasy talk – it’s not like I’d be able to do anything like that with Michele…
Things Change
When we began to explore poly, it was a difficult transition for me because the thoughts and ideas were no longer impossible. Improbable, yes – Michele had always said in the past she was not interested in anything even close to that. But after some time, when we decided to reconsider some things, I had to be honest: I was interested in sex with another man. And, to my surprise and delight, she didn’t recoil in horror and run out the room screaming!
While John wasn’t interested in reciprocating, we were able to stretch my boundaries a little bit with some contact during sex in a MMF setting – after which we found not only did I enjoy it, but so did Michele and John! After starting with fairly strict “no touching” rules during sex, we had progressed to John tonguing both my cock and Michele’s pussy at the same time to make her cum and squirt all over his face. And, while edging my cock to my wife’s boyfriend’s ass was a little weird at first, stroking myself while checking out his plugged ass stretched and spread wide like a slut is crazy intense.
It Is What It Is
It’s really great to be able to be comfortable and open about the things that turn me on, and to have people I can share those things with. I’ve found a few more things that catch my eye while scrolling through fetishes on Fetlife…. and I may or may not have spent the last week or so flirting with another guy in my DMs (and he may or may not have a really nice looking cock). We might be meeting up with him and his wife at the next munch meetup, and after that….
I guess you’ll have to stay tuned 😉
Have you ever been surprised by something that turned you on and opened a door to a new way of thinking?
Jon
It’s really interesting. I discovered during an MFM that I liked sucking cock almost as much as I liked seeing my wife’s lover’s cock disappear into her pussy. But ALL of my attraction to men remained in the context of women. I never looked at men on the street unless a domme told me to. And then it was hot as hell. And then, one day, I answered one of those “pick a number” things, and I got “would you suck my cock?” and I replied “Sure.” We started flirting and he took control of my orgasms, and I realized that I really liked and was turned on by this guy with no woman in sight. Which is when I decided that my primary orientation was Sub.