CagedMonkey and I have had a very relaxed couple weeks in the chastity device and our D/s play because our Jail Bird is in getting adjustments. The Bird Cage we use as a back up device is really showing its wear and I don’t want hubby wearing it for more time than necessary. So really he’s only been wearing it to work. I decided, since we haven’t had any real intense teasing play lately, today…

What do you do when that custom chastity device isn’t just right? Well you send it in and have those little tweeks taken care of so it fits absolutely perfect. Mature Metal is wonderful about talking about what seems to be wrong and will work out any issues with length, ring size and gap adjustment. It’s as simple as sending an email and then if there is a cost (ex. ring sizing is $10) you…

I write this blog based on our experiences, feelings and general knowledge. I’m not a professional nor do I claim to be an expert. I do know that there are some feelings and emotions in this lifestyle that are pretty common. You don’t have to be a Domme or a Keyholder, all you have to be is a partner to someone who has fantasies. In our contract, cagedmonkey and I are both required to share…

One thing that goes very well with Male Chastity is tease and orgasm denial. It is not a requirement but it’s a great technique. Having that cage around their cock controlling when and if a guy gets an erection makes it easy and fun to control when and if they will have an orgasm. 🙂 I don’t think I’m an easy person to take when it comes to tease and denial. I can get pretty…

Being a wife and Keyholder can bring on a lot of confusing and conflicting feelings. Especially when it comes to whether or not we want to allow our sweet locked up boys to orgasm. I noticed last night as cagedmonkey and I were messing around that I had this feeling of wanting him to be so horny for me that he would just take me. That’s all fine and dandy because I have such a…

You probably thought this post would be from cagedmonkey, huh? Well it’s not, it’s from me! This whole chastity thing seriously gets me going. I’m constantly horny, constantly wet, ready and waiting to be pleased. It’s so crazy that sometimes I’ll misread things and turn them sexual. And even the other night cagedmonkey was eating a tomato – yes a tomato – and I got all kinds of turned on. The way he was eating…

Holy macaroni! What a night! Wooooooo doggies! *giggle* What a good night tonight with my cagedmonkey. After we got the kids put to bed we hung out, played video games and watched a Dexter on Netflix. Right after the show ended I climbed up on my sweet boy and started kissing him. I really had no other plans than to make out a bit with him before he had to go to work. Boy, oh,…

There are so many websites out there selling sex toys, how is a person to know which ones are reputable, secure, trustworthy or have good customer service? I have purchased toys from a few different places now and I haven’t had any issues. The one place I love getting stuff is through Athena’s Home Novelties because they have such a large variety of items. They also sell Coochy Shave Cream and man, that stuff is…

So you might have read about the Unexpectedness of the last couple days. We had a very big scare but I did my best to stay calm, I did my research as always and then tried to get a handle on cagedmonkey’s anxiety. Well one thing I can say about this is that I have now expanded my knowledge and that it something I just love doing! So have you ever experienced blood in your…

OMFG! Cagedmonkey was unlocked for our anniversary so we hid the JailBird in the back of a drawer no one ever goes in. Sure enough, out walks our 8yo daughter with the steel cock cage in her hand asking, “Mommy, What’s this? It looks like a metal sock!” Holy crap! Hahaha so freaking funny… I think my hubby and I both about wanted to die! I just told her, “yup, it sure does look like…