It’s almost two weeks since my cock has been able to get fully hard, but it’s definitely not due to lack of trying. On the contrary, my caged erections have been worse than usual. This could be due to the supercharging of my horniness after this past weekend, or if it’s just the knowledge that it’s going to be much longer until I’m finally unlocked. In fact, now that I think about it, the time I still have left ahead of me is probably longer than I’ve ever been locked 24/7 before…
How do I get into these types of situations?
You’d think that I would learn my lesson after going almost a year with no orgasms that when I suggest something extreme to ML, she’s not going to take it lightly. Did I think that when the idea of locking my cock up for two months straight came up, that she would go easy on me and give me a few hours out of the cage when I really needed it?
Of course not.
So I’m stuck fighting through the rest of this month and most of next (at least) until I can have the pleasure of a full erection. Forget feeling my wife’s warm wet pussy* on my cock (although, that would be fucking GREAT right about now), it’ll be nice to finally not have to feel my cock being squeezed by steel every single time I think about something even the slightest bit sexual.
I must be having sexual dreams on a pretty regular basis, because three times this week I’ve woken up at 3am with an extremely full and painful cage. It’s so severe that I’m forced to lay on my back, which is not my usual sleeping position (I’m used to sleeping on my stomach… of course, lol). I try to get my mind off of it, but the constant throbbing caused by the tightness of the cage makes that impossible. It usually ends up taking 45 minutes to an hour just for me to soften up enough so there’s even a small chance of me getting back to sleep.
It’s really a dilemma with no solution: I can’t just decide to not have sex dreams (especially when I’m so damn horny after being denied so long), and it’s not like ML is going to suddenly discover her compassionate side and unlock me any time soon. In fact, the more she sees me struggle with this, the more likely she is to enjoy the feeling of control she has and decide to push me even further past Thanksgiving…. Christmas, maybe?
Or… have I already had my last full erection of the year, and I don’t know it yet?
*I was going to use “tight” as an adjective here, also, as I thought, “Man, after two months of not having my cock inside her, she is going to be soooooo fucking tight!” Then, I remembered Adam… sigh….*
Not to give her any ideas or anything, but Male Chastity Day (Jan. 14) and International Women’s Day (Mar. 8) have a nice ring to it. š
CM,
I have this same issue when I am required to sleep with my cage on. I wake up two or three times each night/early morning with a highly uncomfortable (sometimes painful) caged cock. However, my wife typically only has me spend one night at a time in the cage when we are playing. The other nights she lets me take it off to sleep and then put it back on in the morning.
Even though your nights can be uncomfortable, I was grateful to read that this happens to you as well. Given that you spend many, many nights in a row sleeping with your cage on I figured that you did not have this problem. Knowing that even you has this issue makes me believe I can take on more nights with the cage.
Thanks for all of your great posts.
Cheers,
Tsememgb
It’s definitely something that I can’t really avoid… otherwise, I would! š I don’t really “get used to it” either, it’s just something I have to deal with.
Thanks for your comment, and thanks for reading!
Why does this time of year seem exactly the right time for this? I really hoping Iām not far behind you.
Why would any sane, rationale man allow another human being to do this to them? What happened in your childhood that turned you into such a weak beta male. Have you no sense of self worth that you allow yourself to be tortured in such a way. Such masochism is a disease. Seek treatment for it.
Both ML and I have talked about our mental approach to our kinks. It’s not necessarily a “sense of self worth” issue, and I don’t consider myself a “weak beta male.”
When it comes down to it, My Lady and I are both consenting adults, we very much enjoy what we do, and (most importantly) we understand why we enjoy it.
I’m not sure if it’s confusion, willful resistance, or jealousy that triggers a response like this, but I feel bad that this is where your thoughts go.
(I was considering deleting this comment, but I decided to let it run as is… not everyone agrees with or understands this lifestyle, and I think it’s important to show that it might not be for everyone)
“we understand why we do it” Ok i’m listening. Explain it to me. And its not confusion, willful resistance, or jealousy at all.
I’m pretty sure we’ve written posts about this subject before…
I’d post the links here, but I’d much rather have you look for it and inflate our hit counter. š
Thanks for reading!
I can do that. Research has always been fun for me. What’s so important about inflating your hit counter? Do you win a prize for reaching a certain number of hits? Does your service provider give you an award for a specific number? Or is this another one of your S/M games with which I am unfamiliar?