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Why “Never” Becomes “Maybe” in BDSM: Understanding Hard Limits
Recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about hard limits in BDSM and how they can change over time and whether I like that or not. When we started…
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When did you learn about Sub Drop and Aftercare?
I have incorporated BDSM and kink in my life for as long as I can remember. I feel like I was fairly knowledgeable. After I met Michele and we…
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Coffee Talk: 2 for 1 Special on Cuckolds
This morning I was sitting here enjoying my coffee and I got to thinking about this whole “pussy free” thing that we are really starting to…
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Barriers
We don’t always get what we feel we need – a statement that rings true not only with chastity & denial, but also life in…
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Dominate Me, Control Me, Force Me, Fulfill MY Fantasy
Most of the time Male Chastity, Female domination, BDSM and things like that are often fantasized about by a man. It’s those fantasies…
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Coffee Talk – I would suck that dick
As I was enjoying my coffee this morning, I was chatting with Michele like we do every morning… I was up earlier than she was (I live in an…
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Discovering a kink I didn’t know I had?
Have you ever discovered that you have had a kink for a long time and you didn’t realize it? It is really interesting to me that I have…
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Does the Thought of Causing Someone Pain Excite You?
poppet asked an amazing question in a comment and I really wanted to address it in a post because it’s not as simple as “Hi, I’m…
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Coffee Talk: Am I Weird for Getting Off on That?
Good morning! I was sitting here enjoying this nice warm cup of coffee… Not freezing after this winter storm, and thinking to…
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Listening to my Wife have Sex with her Boyfriend
Sitting here, enjoying the morning, listening to my wife having sex with her boyfriend in the next room, my mind drifts back to memories of…